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re: Why do some people say congratulations for a child out of wedlock
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:29 pm to yellowfin
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:29 pm to yellowfin
We've talked about if/when on a 2nd child and have 0 clue when going to get married. It would change nothing between us except a piece of paper. We are equally terrible at this parenting thing either way. When she got preg we both thought it was much worse to appease people that didn't matter and do a shotgun wedding. The people that matter were excited either way.Hell most people think we are married anyway.
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:29 pm to Brageous
I miss the old days where when your teenage daughter got knocked up you shipped her away to have the baby and put it up for adoption before she could come back
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:30 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
I generally don't run into/associate with people who have children out of wedlock, so I don't know how I would respond.
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:31 pm to Displaced
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i didn't take it to mean getting pregnant while in a committed realtionship of many years if there is intent to marry.
This is the only part I have a problem with. Why do they have to be married. It's just a legal document. A piece of paper.
They planned on having kids and will never get married. They don't believe in it and I agree with them. You then insinuated we were all trash.....
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:31 pm to fightingtiger2335
I thought yall were married
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:32 pm to yellowfin
My conception hastened my parents' wedding I do believe
This post was edited on 6/24/14 at 12:33 pm
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:32 pm to yellowfin


Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:33 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
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I generally don't run into/associate with people who have children out of wedlock, so I don't know how I would respond.
This thread cracks me up

Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:34 pm to Boondock Saint
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This is the only part I have a problem with. Why do they have to be married.
the decision to have children is a lifelong commitment and being that i strongly believe that children should be raised in a traditional two parent household, you should make a lifetime commitment to the person you intend to raise your children with.
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:34 pm to JS87
because a child is a gift, life is a miracle, and pregnancy is tough so it's always an accomplishment when they make it through it
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:34 pm to jimbeam
My parents got married in late december, i was born in late september 

Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:35 pm to JS87
They're saying congrats on the sex, not the little bastard.
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:35 pm to Displaced
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the decision to have children is a lifelong commitment and being that i strongly believe that children should be raised in a traditional two parent household, you should make a lifetime commitment to the person you intend to raise your children with.
You're obviously an simple ignorant, narrow minded frick.
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:36 pm to Napoleon
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No one will call them a "bastard" to their(parent's) face, only behind a computer or their back anyway.
That's why there are so many bastards now, cause there seems to be no more shame in it.
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:36 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
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You're obviously an simple ignorant, narrow minded frick.
TH coming with da gramma boom soon
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:37 pm to JS87
Kids are awesome. Have no problem with people trying to put a positive spin on the situation. Maybe everything works out, maybe it doesn't, but if you're going to have the kid - might as well celebrate it.
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:37 pm to constant cough
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That's why there are so many bastards now, cause there seems to be no more shame in it.
:kige:
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:37 pm to fightingtiger2335
congrats on da secks
Posted on 6/24/14 at 12:38 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
Makes about as much sense as youre making in here.
If we're just going to throw random shite out on here, did you join the military because you were a frickup? Plenty of people do. Generally speaking, of course
If we're just going to throw random shite out on here, did you join the military because you were a frickup? Plenty of people do. Generally speaking, of course
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