re: Why are 30+ year old women so delusional ?

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Oof, sounds like I hit a little close to home.

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Not to me.

Look, YouTube is full of women validating his post, live and on camera. Doesn't mean you're one of them, but a WHOLE lot of women these days have been sold a feminist bill of goods that goes something like this:

1. Women should be strong and independent.

2. Therefore, women don't need men, because they can and should do anything men can do.

3. Also therefore, what gives a woman value to men is the same thing that gives men value to women. Ability to provide, professional competence, confidence/independence, etc.

4. A woman's own personal whims are more important than sacrificing for a family. Sacrificing is slavery and women have put up with it for far too long.

5. IF a woman decides to take a man, she shouldn't settle for any old man; she should have high standards and stick to them. A man should be in shape, financially provide for the family/couple by earning high six figures, be willing to sacrifice for the relationship, provide for all the woman's emotional needs, and value the woman for the strong, independent goddess that she is.

So what happens is that women either refuse to commit to any man in their 20s or they get married and then divorce the man once they decide that the grass might be greener elsewhere.

Because of the whole sacrifice-is-slavery thing.

And these are their words, not mine...filmed and put up on YouTube for posterity. They announce that they don't need a man, they want to be single, etc., etc.

Then they get on dating apps (because they really DO need a man) and because of the whole "women should have high standards" stuff 95% of the women ignore 95% of the men and they all end up competing for 5% of the men.

That's a statistical fact, and it's verified by tracking these apps. Plus, those YouTube videos I was talking about consist of woman after woman giving her "man qualifications" to some interviewer, and they are ridiculous. "He's got to be at least 6'3" tall, he needs to make at least $500,000 a year, he needs to have washboard abs and no more than 6% body fat, etc., etc." Then the interviewer plugs those qualifications into a computer and informs them that given all the filters they named, they will only be satisfied with less than 1% of the male population.

Now, because the women all compete for the same small pool of men, those men go through them like Elvis going through fried peanut butter and banana sandwiches. There is absolutely no reason for them to settle down with any of them because they have dozens of them beating down their door. It's a complete buyer's market, on both sides. Which is why the women who figure this out have a never ending supply of simps willing to humiliate themselves for the smallest acknowledgement.

THEN after the dating experience (takes longer for some women to give up than others) these same women go on YouTube/Tik Tok (literally) crying because they are SO LONELY and can't understand why these men don't value them. Some of them express regret for having divorced their ex-husbands for no reason. Many of them say things like, "I can't understand it. I own my own home. I have a great job. I'm independent. I'm accomplished. WHY DOES NO ONE WANT ME?!?!?!?!?" Without realizing—because they've bought the narrative that these things are what gives them value—that men couldn't care less about any of those things.

(And by the way, women ARE the ones initiating the divorces these days—statistically over 70% of them—and when asked why, they DO NOT answer that their husbands cheated on them or neglected them or failed to provide for the or abused them. They just wanted to. Got bored. Thought they'd have more fun single again.)

And it is also a statistical fact that as of 2024, over 2/3 of American women have been diagnosed with a mental/emotional condition.

The point being that none of this narrative is making men or (especially) women happier—it's actually making both of them miserable—and the guy to whom you are replying is relating a real phenomenon.

It's a thing.

And before you attempt to deflect all of this by making an ad hom against me, I have not been rejected by any divorced women in their 30s and 40s. I have been happily married since I was 28 to the same woman. I'm 54 now.

Women in general are delusional not just 30+-year-olds. But it is wild for anyone to have crazy high standards when they themselves are anything but a prize.

This is spot on except one thing, they aren't all divorced. There's a whole lot that just waited til they hit the Wall to settle down and are in close to the same boat.

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yet the OP at this time has 41 more upvotes than down votes.
The silent majority has spoken.

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There are more simps in this world than alphas.

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You find the wrong ones.

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Most likely fishing in the wrong pond. Thinks he's in the run for super models and is only attracting parolees, while being ignored by the painted hussies.

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My wife and ex wife both weighed at least 175lbs less than i do.

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Are you bragging about being a fat slob?

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I find it interesting that this thread is full of silly/brainless attacks on the OP, yet the OP at this time has 41 more upvotes than down votes. The silent majority has spoken.

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Brother, if you want to find validation from a bunch of middle aged woman hating alcoholics that have been divorced a couple of times, go ahead.

I take pride when that demo disagrees with me.

She lives me for my honesty....... It she hates me .. Either way, she is sick with me.


...poor soul.

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There isn’t a woman on this planet that can’t find 10 men within 5 miles of her that will frick her in the next 10 minutes. Now they might not be great men, but the same isn’t really true for all men in terms of finding women.

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Which is why prostitution is such a big industry.

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It’s a chance for you to be an instant father and make a difference in a young child’s life. Be a leader of men. Search for the deeper things in life.

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Tell me you're a simp without saying you're a simp.