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Posted by mikelbr
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Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:06 pm to
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Joint account, meaning both of yours. She moved first... sorry man but its gone.

I'd be floored if the judge made her pay you.




Sweep the leg
This post was edited on 7/12/17 at 4:10 pm
Posted by Breesus
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Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:07 pm to
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Thanks madmax. She took the money after we filed and it's around 70k



Dude here's the best advice you'll get:

Stop fricking posting in this thread, delete all the posts you already posted and go see a fricking attorney.
Posted by HeadSlash
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Member since Aug 2006
56610 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:08 pm to
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She says once the MDA is signed then she will send half of it.


Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
59577 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:08 pm to
Yep. The bitch already got her plan rolling and the OP is being the nice guy.
Posted by MaHittaMaHitta
Member since May 2014
3199 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:08 pm to
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it's around 70k

Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:09 pm to
Get the money out of your shared accounts ASAP.
Posted by Yammie250F
Member since Jul 2010
1075 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:10 pm to
As someone above said, don't try to be nice about it. She already made the first move and can't be trusted hear on out. I made the same mistake, tried to be civil and it backfired. It worked out in the end but was a major hassle.
Get the bank statements where she took it and bring to your lawyer.
Document everything. I saved every text between us and got an app that recorded our phone conversations. Recording conversations was big. She would say stuff thinking there was no proof it and it came back to bite her in the arse.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:10 pm to
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No fault/irreconcilable differences.

So who was putting it in her pooper? Her boss? Your boss?
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:11 pm to
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Get the money out of your shared accounts ASAP.




I hope this dude has frozen and pulled all of his assets at this point . because she is.
Posted by volod
Leesville, LA
Member since Jun 2014
5392 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:11 pm to
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Not one of you has said why that money is "gone


I think what they are saying is that it is very difficult to take back money once it is removed from a joint account. Even with an MDA, it may could be very difficult to "prove" that it was done outside of the agreement in question.

Hindsight, it would have been better just to take your half when you knew divorce was inevitable.

I know you said you would speak to your attorney tomorrow. Please follow up on that and get full legal advice on EVERYTHING you should do from now on until the divorce is finalized.

Speak to him about the money issue, I am not familiar with MDA but hopefully you have something in writing regarding the funds.

Divorce brings out the worst in people and the best way to handle it is to treat your ex as your enemy. That's the only mindset that will work in most cases. And if she took the money out without recourse that is a very bad sign on the type of person your facing.

This is one the reasons I am afraid to get married. The irony is that the OT targets blacks for not marrying, then this happens
This post was edited on 7/12/17 at 4:11 pm
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:13 pm to
Saying this makes me feel dirty, but volod's right.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
59577 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:13 pm to
70 k

Holy shite. I bet she won't even answer the phone when he calls now.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:14 pm to
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The irony is that the OT targets blacks for not marrying, then this happens


I had no idea he was black, and him being black has no relevance to this thread.

Divorce is trashy regardless of race you race baiting son of a bitch.
Posted by volod
Leesville, LA
Member since Jun 2014
5392 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:14 pm to
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Document everything. I saved every text between us and got an app that recorded our phone conversations. Recording conversations was big. She would say stuff thinking there was no proof it and it came back to bite her in the arse.


^^This.

Use apps if on cellphone. The are also audio recorders you can get for your home phones as well. Texts and emails should be kept for every interaction.

It sounds obsessive, but little things like that can make a big difference.
Posted by Bluefin
The Banana Stand
Member since Apr 2011
13527 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:15 pm to
quote:

it's around 70k

Posted by volod
Leesville, LA
Member since Jun 2014
5392 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:16 pm to
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I had no idea he was black, and him being black has no relevance to this thread. Divorce is trashy regardless of race you race baiting son of a bitch.


I was referring to Blacks as racial/ethnic group. I was not saying that the OP was black.

I have never been a race-baiter. Most of my threads have been on cooperation between races.
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41888 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:18 pm to
Another day. Another W for the anti marriage krewe
Posted by Tiger Ryno
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Member since Feb 2007
108738 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:18 pm to
Go to court all you want. That money may not.be there by the time a ruling is made.
Posted by Breesus
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Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:18 pm to
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it's around 70k


Coincidentally, this will be exactly what her attorneys fees are, and you yell be ordered to pay them.

She already has the money. It's gone.
Posted by andwesway
Zachary, LA
Member since Jun 2016
3795 posts
Posted on 7/12/17 at 4:19 pm to
Yes, you should be worried. More than likely, a judge will make her return the money. That could take months though. You should've just split it before she had the chance to do that. Gotta protect yourself.
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