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re: When to know when making right decision of having dog put down?
Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:47 am to 777Tiger
Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:47 am to 777Tiger
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this thread is on record pace to have the most consecutive sincere and thoughtful responses without a typical OT response, don't know if I'm proud or ashamed of the OT this morning
I'm proud as frick.
On here and in real life I try to be goofy and as funny as I can be but when it comes to dogs/animals, that is when I am most sincere.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:02 am to Palomitz
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I already accepted the fact that he will die. I just don't know when to take him to the vet to have him put to sleep. I'm not sure if he has a week left or more time. Just thinking about me driving for his final day makes me feel guilty as fck. I feel I am betraying him by not allowing him a natural death.
I have been thru this on a few occasions. I never could just bring the dog somewhere and leave them. They are already confused and scared. We always just comforted them like an elder family member, showered them with love and let them live out their days where they wish to be, with you. I have 3 buried in my yard in their favorite laying spots and I always tell them hello when I pass their resting spot. I find comfort in that.......tough times indeed and I feel for you bro.

Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:12 am to TreeDawg
I thank all of you here who took the time to write such words of wisdom. I appreciate that. I could not help in reading some of your messages with teary eyes.
I will try to spend a last weekend with him and make the decision on Monday. I will keep you posted.
I would like to post a photo of him, in honor of his happy life and for bringing joy to our family. Could somebody help me post a picture of Billy?
I will try to spend a last weekend with him and make the decision on Monday. I will keep you posted.
I would like to post a photo of him, in honor of his happy life and for bringing joy to our family. Could somebody help me post a picture of Billy?
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:13 am to Palomitz
It’s time. I don’t know what Billy’s favorite people food is. Bacon, McDonald’s burgers, it doesn’t matter. Love him and spoil till the time.
I’m out of here
I’m out of here
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:14 am to Palomitz
If he isn't any great pain and death is near, is there any reason he wouldn't be allowed to just pass away in his familiar, comfortable home?
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:16 am to Palomitz
Hardest thing I’ve had to do was put down my little buddy after 9 years. I could not see him suffer.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:16 am to Palomitz
Went through this with my terrier last year. The vet said in kidney failure they progressively feel worse. I wasn’t gonna make her continue to be miserable because I wasn’t ready. Sounds like you’re about at that point.
I gave mine Buccees beef jerky in the vet’s exam room.
I gave mine Buccees beef jerky in the vet’s exam room.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:19 am to Palomitz
He’s dying now, ask yourself if you want to prolong his suffering or put him out of his misery? It’s hard, I still struggle with my decision to put my dog down.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:24 am to Palomitz
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he was diagnosed with kidney failure.
My kidneys operate at aboot 31%, and my wife wants to know what/when you decide.

Seriously, Baw, when your pup's quality of life is gone, or if he is suffering, you owe it to him to make that call. Just make sure he gets his final favorite treats, chicken, steak, or whatever, and know that the next few hours are going to suck.


Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:42 am to Palomitz
I put mine down yesterday. I just knew it. He had a sarcoma. We decided not to treat because he was pushing 15 years old. Wednesday and theusday morning he had trouble eating and was visibly confused. He was a big tough stoic dog so no telling how long he'd been in pain. I didn't want to drag it out. Toughest decision I've ever made. Had been stressed knowing it was coming for a while but am relieved now that it's over. I cried like a lil bitch then went to work. When I got home and he wasn't in the window waiting for me I lost it again.
Cut up half of a backstrap and fed it to him in lil pieces before.
Cut up half of a backstrap and fed it to him in lil pieces before.
This post was edited on 6/10/22 at 10:45 am
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:54 am to Loup
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When I got home and he wasn't in the window waiting for me I lost it again.
So sorry to hear. It's tough.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:03 am to Palomitz
There almost never is that "perfect time" when it comes to this decision. If this is end stage kidney disease, then yes, its going to get worse. As it progresses the symptoms and discomfort for Billy will increase. It's whenever you think the balance is tilted to where he is in more discomfort than good.
Euthanasia is very peaceful. The vet will anesthetize or sedate him before giving him the final drug that will cause the euthanasia. Its not painful at all. My biggest advice is to be there for at least the anesthesia or sedation. Billy looks at you as the pack leader and for comfort. having you there will make him more comfortable. If that's too hard i understand. but i have had many people tell me afterwards that it made them feel better in the end.
dont feel guilty at all for thinking you are doing it too early or that its not time. you know, you know your dog best. if you are thinking its might be time, it probably is.
Euthanasia is very peaceful. The vet will anesthetize or sedate him before giving him the final drug that will cause the euthanasia. Its not painful at all. My biggest advice is to be there for at least the anesthesia or sedation. Billy looks at you as the pack leader and for comfort. having you there will make him more comfortable. If that's too hard i understand. but i have had many people tell me afterwards that it made them feel better in the end.
dont feel guilty at all for thinking you are doing it too early or that its not time. you know, you know your dog best. if you are thinking its might be time, it probably is.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:10 am to Palomitz
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He doesn't want to eat, sleeps all day, lethargy, incontinence and this sad look in his face.
If he isn't eating then it is time. It was the hardest drive of my life when I had to bring my 16 year old lab to the vet.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:30 am to Palomitz
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Anybody here had a similar situation of when to make the final decision of driving your loved pet to the clinic to be euthanized? I'm having a hard time about this decision.
I’ve had to make this decision recently. It’s admittedly difficult. My Lab was old, barely mobile only with help, and in pain. My reluctance frankly was selfish not wanting to let her go and find the rest she deserved. I insisted I be with her when she was put to sleep. It makes a difference to them being with the human they love and who loves them. I encourage you to do the same. I think you know the right thing to do. I’m sorry you have to make the decision.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:53 am to 777Tiger
Calling the poster selfish is a little harsh. This is always a difficult decision for pet owners.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:03 pm to Palomitz
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He doesn't want to eat, sleeps all day, lethargy, incontinence and this sad look in his face.
Sounds like it's time.
If he still got joy out of something - anything - you could still wait.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:15 pm to Palomitz
Your faithful and loyal friend of all these years cannot speak, but he is begging you to end his misery.
It's tough, but it is the right decision.
It's tough, but it is the right decision.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:21 pm to Palomitz
When they have daily hurt, don't have many happy/energetic days, and can't control their bladder.
Then wait for a good day. When they play a little. Gove them some steak. Play some slow fetch. Love on them. See the happy in their eyes. Let them go out on top.
Then wait for a good day. When they play a little. Gove them some steak. Play some slow fetch. Love on them. See the happy in their eyes. Let them go out on top.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:25 pm to Palomitz
I’m still riddled with guilt for doing this almost 2 years ago. At the time I knew it was the right time and I knew I was easing her suffering, But two years later I still question it and feel guilty even though I know she was suffering and dying. It’s just tough, no matter what you do
Posted on 6/10/22 at 1:10 pm to Old Sarge
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I’m still riddled with guilt for doing this almost 2 years ago
dont be. you did right by providing her a pain free good death.
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