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re: When to know when making right decision of having dog put down?

Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:47 am to
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
31760 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:47 am to
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this thread is on record pace to have the most consecutive sincere and thoughtful responses without a typical OT response, don't know if I'm proud or ashamed of the OT this morning


I'm proud as frick.

On here and in real life I try to be goofy and as funny as I can be but when it comes to dogs/animals, that is when I am most sincere.
Posted by TreeDawg
Central, La.
Member since Jan 2005
27134 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:02 am to
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I already accepted the fact that he will die. I just don't know when to take him to the vet to have him put to sleep. I'm not sure if he has a week left or more time. Just thinking about me driving for his final day makes me feel guilty as fck. I feel I am betraying him by not allowing him a natural death.


I have been thru this on a few occasions. I never could just bring the dog somewhere and leave them. They are already confused and scared. We always just comforted them like an elder family member, showered them with love and let them live out their days where they wish to be, with you. I have 3 buried in my yard in their favorite laying spots and I always tell them hello when I pass their resting spot. I find comfort in that.......tough times indeed and I feel for you bro.
Posted by Palomitz
Miami
Member since Oct 2009
2435 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:12 am to
I thank all of you here who took the time to write such words of wisdom. I appreciate that. I could not help in reading some of your messages with teary eyes.

I will try to spend a last weekend with him and make the decision on Monday. I will keep you posted.

I would like to post a photo of him, in honor of his happy life and for bringing joy to our family. Could somebody help me post a picture of Billy?
Posted by jimlsu1
Ellicott City, Md
Member since Oct 2008
1548 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:13 am to
It’s time. I don’t know what Billy’s favorite people food is. Bacon, McDonald’s burgers, it doesn’t matter. Love him and spoil till the time.
I’m out of here
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
67977 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:14 am to
If he isn't any great pain and death is near, is there any reason he wouldn't be allowed to just pass away in his familiar, comfortable home?
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
213179 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:16 am to
Hardest thing I’ve had to do was put down my little buddy after 9 years. I could not see him suffer.
Posted by bendellee
Member since Aug 2006
2429 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:16 am to
Went through this with my terrier last year. The vet said in kidney failure they progressively feel worse. I wasn’t gonna make her continue to be miserable because I wasn’t ready. Sounds like you’re about at that point.

I gave mine Buccees beef jerky in the vet’s exam room.
Posted by Kattail
Member since Aug 2020
3931 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:19 am to
He’s dying now, ask yourself if you want to prolong his suffering or put him out of his misery? It’s hard, I still struggle with my decision to put my dog down.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
43153 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:24 am to
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he was diagnosed with kidney failure.


My kidneys operate at aboot 31%, and my wife wants to know what/when you decide.

Seriously, Baw, when your pup's quality of life is gone, or if he is suffering, you owe it to him to make that call. Just make sure he gets his final favorite treats, chicken, steak, or whatever, and know that the next few hours are going to suck.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
14149 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:42 am to
I put mine down yesterday. I just knew it. He had a sarcoma. We decided not to treat because he was pushing 15 years old. Wednesday and theusday morning he had trouble eating and was visibly confused. He was a big tough stoic dog so no telling how long he'd been in pain. I didn't want to drag it out. Toughest decision I've ever made. Had been stressed knowing it was coming for a while but am relieved now that it's over. I cried like a lil bitch then went to work. When I got home and he wasn't in the window waiting for me I lost it again.

Cut up half of a backstrap and fed it to him in lil pieces before.
This post was edited on 6/10/22 at 10:45 am
Posted by Palomitz
Miami
Member since Oct 2009
2435 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:54 am to
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When I got home and he wasn't in the window waiting for me I lost it again.


So sorry to hear. It's tough.
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
5578 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:03 am to
There almost never is that "perfect time" when it comes to this decision. If this is end stage kidney disease, then yes, its going to get worse. As it progresses the symptoms and discomfort for Billy will increase. It's whenever you think the balance is tilted to where he is in more discomfort than good.

Euthanasia is very peaceful. The vet will anesthetize or sedate him before giving him the final drug that will cause the euthanasia. Its not painful at all. My biggest advice is to be there for at least the anesthesia or sedation. Billy looks at you as the pack leader and for comfort. having you there will make him more comfortable. If that's too hard i understand. but i have had many people tell me afterwards that it made them feel better in the end.

dont feel guilty at all for thinking you are doing it too early or that its not time. you know, you know your dog best. if you are thinking its might be time, it probably is.
Posted by CootKilla
In a beer can/All dog's nightmares
Member since Jul 2007
6034 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:10 am to
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He doesn't want to eat, sleeps all day, lethargy, incontinence and this sad look in his face.


If he isn't eating then it is time. It was the hardest drive of my life when I had to bring my 16 year old lab to the vet.
Posted by Mr. Misanthrope
Cloud 8
Member since Nov 2012
6052 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:30 am to
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Anybody here had a similar situation of when to make the final decision of driving your loved pet to the clinic to be euthanized? I'm having a hard time about this decision.

I’ve had to make this decision recently. It’s admittedly difficult. My Lab was old, barely mobile only with help, and in pain. My reluctance frankly was selfish not wanting to let her go and find the rest she deserved. I insisted I be with her when she was put to sleep. It makes a difference to them being with the human they love and who loves them. I encourage you to do the same. I think you know the right thing to do. I’m sorry you have to make the decision.
Posted by stephenc
Member since Jul 2018
89 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:53 am to
Calling the poster selfish is a little harsh. This is always a difficult decision for pet owners.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
75317 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:03 pm to
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He doesn't want to eat, sleeps all day, lethargy, incontinence and this sad look in his face.


Sounds like it's time.

If he still got joy out of something - anything - you could still wait.
Posted by KajunLass
Member since Apr 2022
331 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:15 pm to
Your faithful and loyal friend of all these years cannot speak, but he is begging you to end his misery.

It's tough, but it is the right decision.
Posted by Barbellthor
Columbia
Member since Aug 2015
9556 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:21 pm to
When they have daily hurt, don't have many happy/energetic days, and can't control their bladder.

Then wait for a good day. When they play a little. Gove them some steak. Play some slow fetch. Love on them. See the happy in their eyes. Let them go out on top.
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
58070 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:25 pm to
I’m still riddled with guilt for doing this almost 2 years ago. At the time I knew it was the right time and I knew I was easing her suffering, But two years later I still question it and feel guilty even though I know she was suffering and dying. It’s just tough, no matter what you do
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
5578 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 1:10 pm to
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I’m still riddled with guilt for doing this almost 2 years ago


dont be. you did right by providing her a pain free good death.
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