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re: What’s your opinion of paid maternity/paternity leave?

Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:20 pm to
Posted by GEAUXT
Member since Nov 2007
30407 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:20 pm to
I had 6 weeks for our 3rd child. It was awesome to be able to be there for both him and my wife.

I was on call and had to go do surgery 4 hours after my first was born.

I would definitely say the leave is worth it.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
24717 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:24 pm to
As a father, I'm not taking months of paternity leave. Two weeks tops. There's no need for me to take more than that. Make sure the baby is okay, wife is healed up enough to handle everything on her own then I'd have to go back to work.

ETA: I would like for more to be available in case of complications though. I'm just saying if everything goes smoothly, I wouldn't take it all. I'm not a stay at home person.
This post was edited on 8/11/24 at 12:29 pm
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
170654 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:25 pm to
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I see it being a good thing to support families, but also the costs must be astronomical for an employer.


Here is something you aren't thinking about. It's a great draw for talent. A lot of companies have a lot more leakage to worry about with the worthless employees they have. If you can't entice employees with good pay and good benefits you won't get good employees. And that comes at an astronomical yet hidden cost.
Posted by UlteriorTaco
Member since Apr 2023
4 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:26 pm to
Only benefits women.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
136071 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:26 pm to
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The family is the bedrock of our society.


Used to be true. Not anymore
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61276 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:29 pm to
Our company gives the women 4 months of paid leave and the men 2 months.

I worked with an engineer who went out for leave and when he came back I asked how things were going and he started showing me pictures of the shop that he built while he was out.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138170 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:29 pm to
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What’s your opinion of paid maternity/paternity leave?


If men have no say in whether women bring a child to term or not, women should have no say on whether men take leave off of work or not.
Posted by Allthatfades
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2014
8684 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:31 pm to
Maternity leave yes but a man doesn’t need months worth of leave when a baby is born.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
14919 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:33 pm to
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Men who take more than 2-3 days are milking i


I took 2.weeks but it was PTO. My wife took 3 weeks.

Big fricking deal.
Posted by crewdepoo
Hogwarts
Member since Jan 2015
10884 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:35 pm to
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Men who take more than 2-3 days are milking it.
it isn't 1960 anymore pops
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133381 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:35 pm to
I'm not gonna shed any tears because some corporation has to pay for maternity leave in order to promote one of the fundamentals of a productive society. Paternity leave (for married parents) should be a thing too
Posted by La Place Mike
West Florida Republic
Member since Jan 2004
30903 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:35 pm to
If a company wants to pay, more power to them.
Posted by RummelTiger
Official TD Sauces Club Member
Member since Aug 2004
92935 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:37 pm to
You do realize that all the company is legally required to do, at least in the US, is hold the position…the company does not have to pay the employee while on leave.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
3099 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:44 pm to
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Maternity leave yes but a man doesn’t need months worth of leave when a baby is born.

I swear to mercy, there are people in this thread that don’t believe fathers are parents.

Look, if you’re a dual-income family, it’s downright stupid for you and your wife not to at least consider using all of your parental leave. If you do it strategically, your kid gets the benefit of having one parent as a 24/7 caregiver for twice as long without it impacting either parents’ career progression.

It’s not 1990 anymore. Sometimes I wish it was but it isn’t. Fathers who are men will do what they have to do for the benefit of their families, not to keep up appearances or impress Mr McGillicuddy at the office.
This post was edited on 8/11/24 at 12:46 pm
Posted by fastlane
Member since Jul 2014
4529 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:52 pm to
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Used to be true. Not anymore


That’s the point. We have to go back to that.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
24780 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:52 pm to
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I see it being a good thing to support families, but also the costs must be astronomical for an employer.

You think that is expensive? Think about the cost of replacing good employees
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
26689 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:54 pm to
i'm in favor of 6 months for mom, 3 months for dad... i think that's fair and plenty of time for both, if they choose to take that amount of time
Posted by PhiTiger1764
Lurker since Aug 2003
Member since Oct 2009
14466 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:55 pm to
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Any guy taking more than a day is a woke loser who is hurting his company

If you own the company, sure, fine take.

But I can’t imagine being a W2 employee and only taking one day of paternity leave under the guise that it’s woke to hurt this corporation that you have no ownership of
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
78075 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:57 pm to
Paid? Only if the company voluntarily offers it. Otherwise, it's just more free shite.

Paternity leave paid or unpaid for more than a week is crap.

I have multiple kids and one week was more than enough.
Posted by Dairy Sanders
Member since Apr 2022
2963 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 1:07 pm to
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Without doxing myself lol…IT, primarily backend architecture and design. We have 22 employees, plus some contractors we float when needed. The last few years we’ve just happened to do a lot of POS (point of sale) system redesigns for some major international retailers; as an example if that helps any.


Nerdy arse.

But seriously, that’s awesome. Sounds like you invest in your employees and they invest in their work and you all reap the rewards. Good stuff man.
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