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re: What’s your opinion of paid maternity/paternity leave?

Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:48 am to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:48 am to
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Small businesses aren't subject to things like FMLA, they wouldn't be subject to parental leave either


According to the proponents, we arent talking about govt involvement or legislation.

It should be insurance, like short term disability. Again, this will not make Progs happy because they want a mandated policy.

If you dont think this is about universal requirements... lolol

This post was edited on 8/12/24 at 10:49 am
Posted by HouseMom
Member since Jun 2020
1714 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:48 am to
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it isn't 1960 anymore pops


You can say that again. We have men on here advocating for SIX MONTHS of PTO to stay home with a baby. You want a business to pay you to hang out with your baby for half a year? We are doomed.

Posted by Hampton
Member since Oct 2020
2538 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:50 am to
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Govt didnt force maternity leave when we did have strong families.

I wonder how that happened? Miracle, i guess.

Plan your leave right, use your personal leave. Sounds reasonable, but since govt isnt forcing something, Progs will not like it.


You nailed it exactly! Way to go, they called those times the best of America.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297196 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:50 am to
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You can say that again. We have men on here advocating for SIX MONTHS of PTO to stay home with a baby.


They can use their personal leave.

Most arent disciplined enough to do that, so they require mandates.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297196 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:51 am to
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Rog has massive tds


Did your baby daddy leave you cold again and in need of some Maternity leave?
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:56 am to
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You want a business to pay you to hang out with your baby for half a year? We are doomed.


"doom" is not what I think of when I think of companies investing in their employees and their families
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297196 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:58 am to
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"doom" is not what I think of when I think of companies investing in their employees and their families


Waste of time in the modern day. Everyone is replaceable, there is no loyalty.

Use your leave, so your company doesnt have to make the sacrifice you failed to make.
Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
22121 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:59 am to
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Waste of time in the modern day. Everyone is replaceable, there is no loyalty.

Use your leave, so your company doesnt have to make the sacrifice you failed to make.


"There's no loyalty so companies should treat employees as badly as possible"
Posted by Jon A thon
Member since May 2019
2405 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:00 am to
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it's fricking happening. guys just up and leaving work for months at a time is painful for everyone else


My company offers 8 weeks to paternity leave taken within the first year, or one paycheck. I mostly work from home and have a flexible schedule, so I just took the money. Those that take the leave usually do it in 2 week groups spread it throughout the year. Only one person I know just took 8 straight weeks off. Everyone hated him for it and he eventually left the company. He was in grad school and knew he was leaving when he graduated, so he didn't care if he burned bridges taking it all at once.
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:01 am to
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Waste of time in the modern day. Everyone is replaceable, there is no loyalty.


I wonder why...

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Use your leave, so your company doesnt have to make the sacrifice you failed to make.


I did because neither of my companies offered paid paternal when my kids were born.

I took 2 weeks of PTO to help my wife.

I would have taken every single paid day that they offered if they did though.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17666 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:02 am to
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It's weird that so many in this thread seem to brag or be proud of how little time they took off


It's beyond sad. We complain about fatherhood in other cultures, but it seems many dudes here want that lifestyle as well.

To each his own.
Posted by Sam Quint
Member since Sep 2022
8055 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:03 am to
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"doom" is not what I think of when I think of companies investing in their employees and their families

emotional progressive word salad that sounds good but means nothing in practice.
Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
19122 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:03 am to
Being that birth rates are declining at an alarming rate and all these pro-business conservatives supposedly have family values, it seems obvious to me that offering leave for parents should be encouraged.

The nuclear family is the foundation for the longevity and prosperity of any nation. Any corporate head who makes far more money than I will ever see that has the gaul to tell me my position within the company is more important than my family can suck the fart out of my arse while I walk out the front door. I work to provide a living. I don’t live for work.

ETA: For the record, 6 months is too much for paternity. I can understand 6 months for moms because they are the ones bearing the brunt of the work and often have a hard recovery, but dad can get back to work sooner.
This post was edited on 8/12/24 at 11:06 am
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297196 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:03 am to
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I wonder why...


Not sure, my first job offered no insurance. The one I have now has incredible benefits.

They've increased over time, not decreased.

Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
7477 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:03 am to
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It doesn't appear that you do, honestly


It's pretty clear if you read it.
Government shouldn't be in the business of mandating paid leave.
Employers are free to do whatever the frick they want. If you want to offer a year off, do it.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17666 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:04 am to
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I have to use my PTO if I want to see the birth of my child, my employer only offers time off for females, not males


That seems a bit discriminatory if you ask me.

Men and women are equal now so I expect you to get your paternity leave and use it.

Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
85397 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:04 am to
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emotional progressive word salad that sounds good but means nothing in practice.


investing in your employees is "emotional progressive word salad"?

Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
86097 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:06 am to
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"doom" is not what I think of when I think of companies investing in their employees and their families


Agreed

I'd be receptive to a pitch from the right on this. The pitch from the left begins with "those evil companies aren't treating you fairly."

Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85397 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:07 am to
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Not sure, my first job offered no insurance. The one I have now has incredible benefits.


so you left the job with less benefits for one with better benefits?
Posted by Hampton
Member since Oct 2020
2538 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 11:07 am to
Do you remember when America was great? We didn't have all this type of shite. All this is is more woke shite. Be a man. By the way when America was great dads didn't take this type of leave and raised great kids.
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