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What's the deal with Friday Catholic weddings in BR?

Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:38 pm
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
105287 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:38 pm
Inconvenient AF.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27902 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:39 pm to
Better than an LSU game day wedding.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
33505 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:40 pm to
There’s only three times a weekend that you can have a wedding: Friday night, Saturday midday, or Saturday night. Why are you complaining about 1/3rd if marriages?
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11622 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:41 pm to
I used to be a little about it, but after attending 6 of them in less than a year, I appreciate it being done Friday & not monopolizing the rest of my weekend.

The Catholic weddings I’ve attended up north involved an early Saturday wedding followed by a several hour wait before the evening reception. Those were inconvenient AF.
This post was edited on 6/7/18 at 4:44 pm
Posted by ElectricWizard0
Member since Jul 2017
2702 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:42 pm to
quote:

Better than an LSU game day wedding


I have to go to one on the MS State game this year. I’m getting them a damn apple corer for that
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13806 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:54 pm to
quote:

I have to go to one on the MS State game this year. I’m getting them a damn apple corer for that




that's a big game after last year... an apple corer is too good for them. Plastic soap dish that wasn't even on the registry is the right answer here.
This post was edited on 6/7/18 at 4:55 pm
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
111402 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:55 pm to
You can’t have a Catholic Wedding on Saturday night in the Baton Rouge Diocease
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
24206 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:56 pm to
If they are local, I enjoy Friday weddings. Really sucks for people out of town though.

My favorite out of town wedding is a sunday wedding on a monday holiday. Gives you more time and don't have to take a day off of work.

As said, the reason for Friday weddings is they wanted a certain weekend and the other Saturday spots were booked at the church.
Posted by NickyT
Patty's Pub
Member since Jan 2007
8812 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:59 pm to
quote:

You can’t have a Catholic Wedding on Saturday night in the Baton Rouge Dioceas


That is correct
Posted by Loungefly85
Lafayette
Member since Jul 2016
7930 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 4:59 pm to
shite give me Friday night weddings every time, especially in the fall.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11622 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 5:03 pm to
quote:

You can’t have a Catholic Wedding on Saturday night in the Baton Rouge Diocease


Which is why I vastly prefer Friday night to an early Saturday wedding & late reception (which I’ve only experienced up north, where plated dinner receptions are the norm). I don’t want to have to kill 6 hours wearing dress clothes between events.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53522 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 5:04 pm to
quote:

Better than an LSU game day wedding

Getting married during football season is a no no. Eventually your anniversary is going to fall on the biggest game of the year.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78334 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 5:04 pm to
quote:

Better than an LSU game day wedding.


There are 8 months of the year that someone can wed that wouldn’t interfere with this.
This post was edited on 6/7/18 at 5:07 pm
Posted by SECretariat
Member since Jun 2015
362 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 5:05 pm to
quote:

You can’t have a Catholic Wedding on Saturday night in the Baton Rouge Dioceas

What? Why?!
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
25699 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 5:07 pm to
quote:

There are 8 months of the year that someone can wed and yet people still get married during football season. Something I’ll truly never understand, especially in the south.

Keeps the trash out of your wedding
Posted by SECretariat
Member since Jun 2015
362 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 5:08 pm to
quote:

You can’t have a Catholic Wedding on Saturday night in the Baton Rouge Dioceas


What? Why?!


I'll answer my own question:


quote:

Friday night weddings can be a challenge, with out-of-town guests scrambling to arrive on time and work-weary revelers bringing a less-than-energetic vibe to the ceremony. But if you are Catholic and want to have a nighttime wedding in Baton Rouge, on Friday it’ll be. Otherwise, you can travel down the road to St. Louis Cathedral in New Orleans, for instance, another church in the Crescent City or somewhere else in Baton Rouge’s outlying areas. A lot of brides do. And with them, loads of bridal business trickles downstream and away from our city, along with the waters of the Mighty Mississippi. The rumored reason is because there simply aren’t enough priests in Baton Rouge to celebrate afternoon masses on Saturday and masses on Sunday, plus weddings. Another theory: priests need Saturday nights off—to pray for the Tigers, perhaps? That’s blatant conjecture. The real reason, courtesy of Father Than Vu, Vicar General of the Diocese of Baton Rouge, has more to do with keeping Sunday sacred than keeping priests from performing ceremonies on Saturday nights. “On Saturday, the anticipated mass is celebrated at around four o’clock,” he says. Weddings and other ceremonies are put on hold “in order to preserve the integrity of the Sunday celebration, once it starts.” On a church-by-church basis, some New Orleans parishes will allow couples to get married on a Saturday night, making for a much better second line down Bourbon Street, not to mention the appreciation of Catholic guests who get their Sunday obligations out of the way at the wedding. But not all New Orleans churches allow weddings on Saturdays, either. Much of the decision depends on how many priests work in the parish and the Saturday mass schedule. By the way, Catholic churches don’t do funerals on Saturday nights, either.



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Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
105287 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 6:22 pm to
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By the way, Catholic churches don’t do funerals on Saturday nights, either.


I've never heard of a night funeral.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 6:23 pm to
They’re great. Get drunk after. Recover next morning. Then get drunk again Friday. It’s always a big reunion. Love em.
Posted by Stexas
SWLA
Member since May 2013
7026 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 6:24 pm to
Most priests don’t allow a Nuptial Mass after the Sabbath has begun with the Saturday Vigil Mass @4:30. So your options are Friday evening or Saturday morning with a Mass or after 5:30 Saturday without a Mass.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
41043 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 6:39 pm to
quote:

On a church-by-church basis, some New Orleans parishes will allow couples to get married on a Saturday night, making for a much better second line down Bourbon Street, not to mention the appreciation of Catholic guests who get their Sunday obligations out of the way at the wedding. But not all New Orleans churches allow weddings on Saturdays, either. Much of the decision depends on how many priests work in the parish and the Saturday mass schedule.


I've never heard of an Arch of NOLA church to refuse a Sat night wedding. Even in single-priest parishes. Do the 4 pm old person mass, run back to the rectory for a bit, head to the church, 7 pm wedding, then they to the reception for about an hour and head home.
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