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What's an appropriate wedding gift amount?

Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:00 am
Posted by CCTider
Member since Dec 2014
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Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:00 am
My friend getting married isn't registered. I was debating giving cash or a gift card, and how much is usually appropriate?$50, $100, $3.50, etc?
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:01 am to
Good friend? $100-$200

Acquaintance? $50

3rd cousin you see once a year? $20
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
39656 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:01 am to
Gift cards are trashy
Posted by jamboybarry
Member since Feb 2011
33256 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:02 am to
Good friend and you haven't banged his future wife, $100

If you have banged said future wife throw in an extra $20
Posted by Chiefagain
Member since Nov 2016
1808 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:03 am to
Depends on whos wedding it is. Just an acquaintance, throw a hundo at them. If its one f your close friends, a few hundo.

Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60184 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:03 am to
I usually pin a 5 to the bride during the money dance
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68609 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:07 am to
inb4treefiddy.....I'll let you put the decimal where you want
Posted by tipup
Member since Sep 2005
1649 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:07 am to
In Alabama? Your sister.

J/K. I would say $50-$100 depending on how close of a friend.
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:07 am to
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:08 am to
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inb4treefiddy.....I'll let you put the decimal where you want


Damn... you beat me to it. I worked so hard on that photoshop job too.
Posted by GaryMyMan
Shreveport
Member since May 2007
13499 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:09 am to
quote:

Gift cards are trashy


I think for a newlywed you can narrow down places where they'll need it: Lowe's, Home Depot, Target, etc. I think cash is worse, though in the Northeast it's still the main gift, because everyone in the Northeast wants to be in the mob.


You can also just get them a gift in whatever price range you're comfortable with. If you're ballin' I'm sure they could use a Dyson V8 or a cordless drill.

(This is all assuming it's the first marriage, getting gifts for a second or 3rd is weird)
This post was edited on 10/27/17 at 8:11 am
Posted by ImAComanche
Member since Sep 2017
1209 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:11 am to
quote:

Good friend? $100-$200 Acquaintance? $50 3rd cousin you see once a year? $20
Making an origami heart out of any of these bills would add a nice little touch.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:13 am to
Giving gift cards or cash is thoughtless. Make a little effort. You can find out what sort of things they need with just a little effort.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11638 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:15 am to
This is regional, too. In the north, most people don’t give gifts for weddings (that’s for showers). They give cash.

I’d do cash or a gift from their registry. The amounts listed early in the post are good.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18344 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:17 am to
Find out what kind of food and drinks will be at the reception. Then buy a gift equal to the value of food and liquor you consume.

That's what I always do.

Shitty food = cheap gift
Posted by CCTider
Member since Dec 2014
25240 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:18 am to
quote:

Gift cards are trashy


I don't know about that. But I've always thought they felt too impersonal.
This post was edited on 10/27/17 at 8:19 am
Posted by TDFreak
Coast to Coast - L.A. to Chicago
Member since Dec 2009
9429 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:19 am to
About tree fiddy

ETA: Damn. I’m late on that one.
This post was edited on 10/27/17 at 8:21 am
Posted by CCTider
Member since Dec 2014
25240 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:19 am to
It's a good friend from growing up. Though he moved 5,000 miles away at college, and I haven't seen him in a decade. Though I do still consider him a good friend.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18344 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:20 am to
quote:

I worked so hard on that photoshop job too.



It took me a minute to figure this one out.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68609 posts
Posted on 10/27/17 at 8:21 am to
quote:

Damn... you beat me to it. I worked so hard on that photoshop job too

I upvoted it
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