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re: What would you do if your s/o told you that you cant buy something,

Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:35 pm to
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:35 pm to
I'd ask for her reason, give mine, and decide who is more right. Perhaps come up with a compromise.

You know, adult shite like that.
Posted by lsurulz1515
Member since Mar 2007
8292 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:35 pm to
I have a hard time believing my s/o would care what I bought with the bonus check that YOU earned
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:35 pm to
Well what is it you want to buy?
Posted by Theoldgraycoat
Antarctica
Member since Sep 2015
1025 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:36 pm to
Am the only one with a seperate bank account from the one I share with my wife? I don't understand this.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:36 pm to
In my house, all income is "our" money. We talk about big purchases and agree on them before we make them. However, unless either of us wants something absolutely ridiculous, we don't usually say no. But if my wife wasn't comfortable with me making a big purchase, I wouldn't make it. Not until I convinced her why we really need it anyway
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:37 pm to
Welcome to life. Don't feel sorry for yourself and don't hold a grudge. You have a gun? Go shoot the frick out if something.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59323 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:37 pm to
quote:


the wife and I have an agreement, if something costs more than $200, we both have to agree to the purchase.

We don't really have a set amount, but run bigger non-essential purchases by each other. It's only fair, IMO.

I don't think we've ever told each other no, but we have similar and reasonable spending habits. If I went and asked to get a $500 pair of shoes, I'd probably get shut down, but that's not really something I'm looking to spend on that kind of purchase.
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
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Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:37 pm to
Why would you tell her in the first place of a bonus check?
Posted by CatsGoneWild
Pigeon forge, Tennessee
Member since Jan 2008
15200 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:38 pm to
I was going to buy a enclosed snowmobile trailer (since I live up north and have no way to transport my snowmobile). The other half of my check was going to be for our vacation in March. She says I don't need a trailer and it would be an eye sore
Posted by tigerstripedjacket
This side of the wall
Member since Sep 2011
3147 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:38 pm to
[quotewife and I have an agreement, if something costs more than $200, we both have to agree to the purchase.
[/quote]

Gotta stick to the rules - try bargaining with her... with next year's bonus check or you pay for everything over 200$ with personal funds or something
Posted by Choctaw
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Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:38 pm to
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This post was edited on 1/27/16 at 12:39 pm
Posted by Choctaw
Pumpin' Sunshine
Member since Jul 2007
77774 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:39 pm to
quote:

. She says I don't need a trailer and it would be an eye sore




tell her "YOU'RE AN EYESORE!" and go get your trailer baw
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:40 pm to
quote:

She says I don't need a trailer and it would be an eye sore


Valid points.

Rebuttal?
Posted by CatsGoneWild
Pigeon forge, Tennessee
Member since Jan 2008
15200 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:40 pm to
My bonus comes the same day every year. She knows when I get ut
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
9010 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:41 pm to
Tell her why you need a trailer and why it won't be an eye sore then go buy it. Tell her if she doesn't like it get a job making 90% of the money.(assuming you're a real man and make 90% of the money while her job is more a hobby where she feels important)
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11638 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:41 pm to
No pics of the wife?
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71840 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:41 pm to
Does she not think you need to transport the snow mobile? What does she want to do with the money?

Pick a few options and let her choose the one that looks best so she has input on the decision. Then take her out to go ride the snow mobile once it comes in so she sees the value in being able to transport it.
Posted by MSMHater
Houston
Member since Oct 2008
23366 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:42 pm to
quote:

I was going to buy a enclosed snowmobile trailer (since I live up north and have no way to transport my snowmobile). The other half of my check was going to be for our vacation in March. She says I don't need a trailer and it would be an eye sore


Sounds like it was designated as disposable income anyway. Buy whatever the hell you want.

I can't imagine my wife doing that if all the expenses are covered. Not for an "eyesore".
This post was edited on 1/27/16 at 12:46 pm
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:42 pm to
Spend the whole thing on something more expensive
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:42 pm to
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