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What makes a “real” man?

Posted on 5/20/22 at 4:58 pm
Posted by SaintlyTiger88
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2013
1981 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 4:58 pm
I’m not talking about anatomy here, so in before any of that. What I mean is, what is your definition of a “real” man? Is it a man who knows how to build things, fix things, have skills that are traditionally considered masculine? Is it a man who is considered “tough”, who will take on any challenge?

Does one’s occupation make them more “manly” than others? The vehicle they drive? Do you believe that the only requirement to be considered a “man” is one that works hard and provides for his family? Does income measure his success as a man?

Do you personally believe in the term “toxic masculinity”? Do you believe there is merit to it, or is it simply part of the new “woke” culture?

Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71415 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 4:59 pm to
One of the biggest things, to me, is when mistakes are made own up and try to make it right.
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
10238 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 4:59 pm to
Pees with the toilet seat up and doesn't put it down when he's finished. He only washes his hands if urine somehow splashes on them.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48560 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:00 pm to
A man who raises his children, does his best to take care of his family and is a decent human being.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30026 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:00 pm to
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What makes a “real” man?


not blaming others for your mistakes and owning the shite you say and do
Posted by habz007
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2007
3696 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:01 pm to
quote:

Is it a man who knows how to build things, fix things, have skills that are traditionally considered masculine? Is it a man who is considered “tough”, who will take on any challenge?


Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
25939 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:02 pm to
I think a man has to have some sort of handy skill. There is nothing more emasculating than a guy that has to have someone help them do simple tasks around the house. I’m not talking about hiring someone for convenience. I’m talking about hiring someone because you don’t know how to work a simple set of tools.
Posted by armsdealer
Member since Feb 2016
11506 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:03 pm to
Ability to google plus the ability and ego sensitivity to know when an expert is needed.

Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
13882 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:05 pm to
Experiencing and learning from those experiences.
Posted by Johnny Roastbeef
Somewhere in Bartow County
Member since Sep 2018
1961 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:06 pm to
“Any man who doesn’t spend time with his family isn’t a real man”

-Vito Corleone
Posted by Original Corn Pop
The public pool
Member since Nov 2020
547 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:06 pm to
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Do you personally believe in the term “toxic masculinity”?


I can't answer that, I'm not a toxicologist

Posted by TDsngumbo
Alpha Silverfox
Member since Oct 2011
41616 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:07 pm to
Voting for literally anyone other than a fricking democrat nowadays. If you’re a man and vote for democrats right now you’re a pussy.
Posted by BayouENGR
Seagrove Beach
Member since Nov 2015
2296 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:08 pm to
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One of the biggest things, to me, is when mistakes are made own up and try to make it right.


Yep. All that other stuff is much appreciated, but arrogance is incredibly difficult to live with.
Posted by Chromdome35
NW Arkansas
Member since Nov 2010
6844 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:08 pm to
A man is honorable, keeps his word, offers assistance to people in need, raises his children well, loves his wife unconditionally, would fight to the death for his family, admits when he's wrong, and does the right things when no one is looking
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64023 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:10 pm to
quote:

A man who raises his children, does his best to take care of his family and is a decent human being.


For the most part, and there are some exceptions, any man that hasn't raised children is just a boy in a man's body.

Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
10226 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:10 pm to
Agree 100%.

A man who doesn’t father any children can still be a real man, but every real man is a father to his children.
Posted by DmitriKaramazov
Member since Nov 2015
4470 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:11 pm to
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This post was edited on 5/21/22 at 11:49 am
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
39356 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:11 pm to
It’s a man who does right and will stick up for the weak when oppressed by bad men.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175901 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:12 pm to
Integrity
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
27070 posts
Posted on 5/20/22 at 5:15 pm to
quote:

One of the biggest things, to me, is when mistakes are made own up and try to make it right.


Pretty much this.

The buck stops with you. Never hide mistakes. Own them, fix them if you can, and learn from them. Excuses and blaming is for children.
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