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re: What has happened to the custom/courtesy of telling a customer THANK YOU after a purchase?

Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:26 am to
Posted by WaterSplashesBack
Member since Sep 2024
809 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:26 am to
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Needing a low paid retail clerk to thank you for your purchase is a bit sad.
It's called customer service, courtsey and this happens everywhere. It's sad that you think the degradation of society is ok.
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If someone thanks me for something extremely minor, like holding open a door for a few seconds, “you’re welcome” feels imperious and I’ll likely use one of the former three.
It's not about effort given, it's about being a civilized courteous person regardless the depth of your relationship with that person.
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But melting because people don’t use turns of phrase exactly the way you want them to is certainly one way to go through life.
attempting to label everything/one that isn't daisy pumping as a melt shows just how far down the common sense trail you are. you can do better but won't becasue it's just too much trouble for you to use your brain.
Posted by TJack
BR
Member since Dec 2018
3059 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:34 am to
Have a blessed day=go F yourself in certain circles.
Posted by Smeg
Member since Aug 2018
12373 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:36 am to
How weak does one have to be to feel they deserve/need a compliment like "thank you" after a purchase? Jesus Christ. I use the self check out and order tons of things online that are just delivered by mail. It never crosses my mind that I'm missing out on a "thank you". I'm interested in the item I'm purchasing, not some type of gay little affirmation.
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
29922 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:41 am to
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It's called customer service, courtsey and this happens everywhere. It's sad that you think the degradation of society is ok.

It's called you being sad for not being fluffed by those you consider below you.
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It's not about effort given, it's about being a civilized courteous person regardless the depth of your relationship with that person.

Go back and read what I posted again, as you've entirely missed my point. What I said has absolutely nothing to do with the "depth of relationship" and everything to do with the difficulty or inconvenience of a task. As I said, some people consider it to be more courteous/polite to respond with no problem/etc in certain situations than it is to say thank you. You can yell at clouds about that if you'd like, but it doesn't make you right and them wrong. Language and culture are funny that way.
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attempting to label everything/one that isn't daisy pumping as a melt shows just how far down the common sense trail you are. you can do better but won't becasue it's just too much trouble for you to use your brain.

More melt plus multiple misspellings/typos. Melt with a bit of extra melt on top
Posted by WaterSplashesBack
Member since Sep 2024
809 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:44 am to
Sorry to hear you have givrn up on being a courteous and functiong member of society. That's the weakest move of sll.
Posted by TheDeathValley
New Orleans, LA
Member since Sep 2010
18922 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:44 am to
I do not care if they tell me thank you or go frick yourself.

They are there to get a paycheck. I am getting a product/service. If the product/service is fine, then I really do not care if they thank me for buying something. Especially at a large corporation that the employee has no loyalty to.

Posted by Bigfishchoupique
Member since Jul 2017
9119 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:45 am to
“ you good “ you good “ you good “. This is what I get all of the time. It’s terrible.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
74994 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:49 am to
The checkout machines tell me thank you. I thank them back, that way if Skynet does happen, I end up in the zoo, not dead.
Posted by theGarnetWay
Washington, D.C.
Member since Mar 2010
26818 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:50 am to
Mind kind of employee:

Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
16508 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:50 am to
Be thankful if you’re not robbed and shot.
Posted by Smeg
Member since Aug 2018
12373 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:51 am to
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"You didn't make the noise, Bundy" - WaterSplashesBack


I can't believe I'm agreeing with JoshJr. I'm buying a pack of light bulbs because I need them, not because I want to be fluffed by some worker.
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
29922 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:56 am to
And for those that are curious, "you're welcome" has been the common response in English to "thank you" for about the last century. It didn't really exist before that in that context.

And in some other languages (French and Spanish immediately come to mind), "it's nothing" (de rien/de nada) is the default response to being thanked. More elaborate responses are considered very formal at best and sarcastic at worst.

But yes, it's definitely the end of polite civilization as we know it that people are responding to thank you with anything other than OP's preferred you're welcome
Posted by WaterSplashesBack
Member since Sep 2024
809 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:57 am to
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I do not care if they tell me thank you or go frick yourself
well you are full of shite. If you were told gfy you would be livid. That being said, gfy.
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
29922 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:57 am to
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I can't believe I'm agreeing with JoshJr.

One day, one of you will notice that isn't my username
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
29922 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:58 am to
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well you are full of shite. If you were told gfy you would be livid. That being said, gfy.

What OP wants when he goes shopping:

Posted by WaterSplashesBack
Member since Sep 2024
809 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 8:59 am to
No problem .
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
29922 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 9:00 am to
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No problem .

You're still not doing it quite right, but keep giving it a go, and I'm sure you'll get it

Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
16663 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 9:01 am to
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What has happened to the custom/courtesy of telling a customer THANK YOU after a purchase?


Probably because they're a random employee making $8/hr. They don't give a shite that you bought something or not. It's not like they're the business owner who is very grateful for all the business. The random employees are just counting down the minutes til they can go home.

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wtf happened to saying "you're welcome" when someone says thank you to a person. It has now become "no problem".


You do realize these 2 phrases are completely interchangeable, right? They relay the same meaning.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
34338 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 9:03 am to
shite, if I get words spoken in the English rather than an unintelligible grunt, I'm pretty ok with that, tbh.
Posted by TheDeathValley
New Orleans, LA
Member since Sep 2010
18922 posts
Posted on 10/14/24 at 9:11 am to
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well you are full of shite. If you were told gfy you would be livid. That being said, gfy.



It really is no sweat off of my brow.
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