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re: What do you say to your child when life’s unfair?

Posted on 10/23/20 at 2:58 pm to
Posted by Saskwatch
Member since Feb 2016
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Posted on 10/23/20 at 2:58 pm to
quote:

Gaston


If you want to mad and sky scream about COVID then go ahead. It won't make you a better parent to your son though. This is something that even professional teams are having issues dealing with, much less a high school.

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Gut punch for my son, and all his friends who are so proud of him. Rarely do 8th graders get to fully play varsity. Need them to win tonight, to see it happen now.


Whether they play tonight or not your son will wake up tomorrow. Whether he plays varsity as an 8th grader or 9th grader that will make no difference by the time he's a 10th grader. There isn't a hall at SSC where all the 8th graders who ever played varsity ball have their name and picture etched into forever. You are really getting wrapped up in this over nothing.

He still gets to kick whenever they play next even it it's not this year. Your son will be fine.


*I do know Thomas G btw... Small town. My mother grew up in the same small town.

This post was edited on 10/23/20 at 3:00 pm
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
82565 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 2:59 pm to
Tell him at least he doesn’t have juvenile diabetes that that other dude’s kid.
This post was edited on 10/23/20 at 3:00 pm
Posted by tgrmeat
Member since Sep 2020
5051 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:03 pm to
Both of you need to get over that. He's an 8th grader. He's got 4 more years to play. If he's as dramatic as you about this, he's in for a long tough road in life.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
70075 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:08 pm to
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Thursday he gets his new uniform, number 99
Good number there.

Tell him to keep his head up.

If that doesn't work, take him to a Mexican whorehouse and get him laid.
This post was edited on 10/23/20 at 3:09 pm
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
31777 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:09 pm to
If he hasn't figured out that life is unfair by this point then he ain't very bright.
Posted by BottomlandBrew
Member since Aug 2010
28376 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:10 pm to
That's it? That's the issue?

Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18415 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:11 pm to
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What do you say to your child when life’s unfair?
I don’t know Thomas all that much, but his place is fun.

Son finished Junior High football Tuesday night, with his best showing at QB all year...very accurate, calm...they lost every game this year and outside of a couple onside kicks, he didn’t get to do much with his foot.

Wednesday at school an assistant coach told him that the head coach expected him at practice...I brought him cleats, he kicked the ball really well. Head coach tells him after practice that he’ll definitely play Friday/today.

Thursday he gets his new uniform, number 99, and kicks exceptionally well with the special teams coach. Dead center, over the uprights from 44yds....set to play tonight.

Kid who isn’t at school today’s parents calls in at 11:00 and say he tested positive. We’re on our way to school to bring my boy his gear and we get a text...it’s so over, quarantined for 14 days, season ends next Friday unless they win tonight.

Just talked to the coach, he says show up in 14 days...confident they’ll win.

Gut punch for my son, and all his friends who are so proud of him. Rarely do 8th graders get to fully play varsity. Need them to win tonight, to see it happen now.

I know this all didn’t make sense, but oh well.


wait wait wait

You can't handle THIS on your own without seeking advice from internet strangers and running out of your house to drink about it like a fricking baby?

I feel sorry for your kid.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
68929 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:11 pm to
quote:

Gaston


Let me ask you one simple question:

Would you prefer your son figure out life isn’t fair when he’s a 14 yr old kid still living at home, or a 24 yr old adult out in the real world?
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41065 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:12 pm to
An 8th grader getting playing time on varsity, and a full fresh uniform, 2 days after finishing a season at QB...not big to a 14 yr old? It literally disappearing 3 hours before your first travel varsity game day events started.

Life was unfair today.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:14 pm to
And tomorrow will be another day and will be fine.

So you, a grown man, tell your 14yo son, “life isn’t fair and that tomorrow will be another day and will be fine”
This post was edited on 10/23/20 at 3:14 pm
Posted by hashtag
Comfy, AF
Member since Aug 2005
30191 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:14 pm to
searched 7 pages looking for "Life's hard, then you die." Apparently my dad does NOT post on here.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
82565 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:14 pm to
And a stronger, wiser parent would be able to put your kid’s experience in perspective and use it as a teaching moment for him.

Instead you’re getting drunk and feeling sorry for yourself.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41065 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:14 pm to
I always have a few beers with lunch on my every-other-Friday off.
Posted by BottomlandBrew
Member since Aug 2010
28376 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:16 pm to
quote:

Life was unfair today.


Unfair is a tad hyperbolic. Life was a bit of a disappointment today. I get that as 14 year old that's a big deal, but in the grand scheme of things he has a plate full of food, a roof over his head, and apparently parents that love him enough to start some shite on a message board for him.
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
35929 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:21 pm to
This whole thread was about your 8th grader not being able to play in one football game?

Posted by GetMeOutOfHere
Member since Aug 2018
898 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:26 pm to
quote:

An 8th grader getting playing time on varsity, and a full fresh uniform, 2 days after finishing a season at QB...not big to a 14 yr old? It literally disappearing 3 hours before your first travel varsity game day events started.

Life was unfair today.


This about him or you?
Posted by rockchlkjayhku11
Cincinnati, OH
Member since Aug 2006
36686 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:27 pm to


this was somehow even more pathetic than i imagined it to be. holy shite,
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41065 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:27 pm to
On high school varsity as an 8th grader...the last two games of the season.

The whole idea of that opportunity disappearing wouldn’t be a loss to a 14 yr old boy?
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
75016 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:30 pm to
Oweo is a far, far better poster than this self-important d-bag. His stories are better, funnier and not nearly as pathetic. What an attention-seizing simp...

Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
281843 posts
Posted on 10/23/20 at 3:30 pm to
To suck it up, try harder. Thts life.
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