re: What do women want in men?

A shirt that looks good untucked?

Women want a "bad boy" who will be a "good boy" only for them .

OTOH Men want a "good girl" who will be a "bad girl" only for them.

Women want a big thick dick jammed up in them

A man who will pay for everything: Car, House, Bills, Etc Etc Etc While some idiot, that barely graduated high school, drives around in a 2018 Yukon F'ing all of her boyfriends.

But then she puts pictures of the "happy" family all over facebook and brags about how wonderful life is.

They have no earthly idea.

They think they know what they want and when they get it they change their minds.

They just want what they can't have. All boils down to that really.

Testosterone = capability

Capability = ability to take risks and come out OK, win, accomplish goal, survive in difficult situations, etc

Take risks & Survive / Thrive = edgy, don't always follow rules, don't have to always plays it safe

Don't follow rules / play it safe = Bad boy

Bad boy = what women want


Modern society has simply confused how we define capability, what it means to survive and thrive. Hence there is confusion on what 'bad boy' really symbolizes.

Men will tell you that with few exceptions a bad boy is not a team player, and takes bad risks, poorly thought out choices, and puts others in danger, is bad to have around and does not contribute to group or individual accomplishment, survival, thriving. Men intrinsically understand this. Women do not. Women are fooled by the nuances involved, just like many men are fooled by physical features on women and don't take time to consider that most super hot chicks have the personality of a garden gnome, and don't really know what chicks are going to be the right combination of sexy, great in bed, loyal, good wife, good mother.

i agree. that sounded really specific.

If you set the bar really low there is less chance of disappointment

Hangit, I'd rather spend the time on horse things

While it's not complicated what women want in men, it is hard to attain: they want a man that makes them feel special, most or all of the time.

This is the secret to how ugly-arse mofos land sexy-arse women. Money helps, but ultimately all the money does is make them feel special in multiple ways that the rest of us can't afford to do.

The challenge is that there is a degree of attrition: doing the same things that once made her feel ultra special will eventually lose effectiveness and you'll need to upgrade your game to keep the special going or she's finding some BBC or something of similar nature to make her feel special.