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re: What are your thoughts on people who never have children?

Posted on 9/30/21 at 8:44 pm to
Posted by Steadyhands
Slightly above I-10
Member since May 2016
7053 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 8:44 pm to
quote:

Seems like most people on this board have kids.

Curious to get people's thoughts when they come across people in their late 30s or early 40s without kids.


We had our kids young enough that the best should be empty the year I turn 40. Will still have to provide some support I am sure. By that I mean the youngest will be 18 and off to college or wherever. Just have two kids though.

We will be young enough to still go out and live some great experiences traveling wherever.
Posted by Huey Lewis
BR
Member since Oct 2013
4944 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 8:45 pm to
quote:

Jesus of Nazareth--by all contemporary accounts arguably the most righteous and selfless person in the history of the world--had no children.


Traveled around from town to town with a bunch of dudes, performing magic.

I bet he was a snappy dresser if you catch my meaning.
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
11591 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 8:47 pm to
quote:

They never figure out the true meaning of life.

When you love something else more than you love yourself it changes you in a good way.

Why did it take kids for you to love something more than yourself?
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
11591 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 8:48 pm to
quote:

We had our kids young enough that the best should be empty the year I turn 40. Will still have to provide some support I am sure. By that I mean the youngest will be 18 and off to college or wherever. Just have two kids though.
You have a "best" kid?

ETA: Sorry, I'm guessing that was a typo for "nest".
This post was edited on 9/30/21 at 8:50 pm
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
23979 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 8:49 pm to
quote:

Why did it take kids for you to love something more than yourself?


Apparently I was selfish

Plus I was an arrogant a-hole most of my life
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
11591 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 8:52 pm to
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Traveled around from town to town with a bunch of dudes, performing magic.

I bet he was a snappy dresser if you catch my meaning.
I am picking up what you are putting down.
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
11591 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 8:53 pm to
quote:

Apparently I was selfish

Plus I was an arrogant a-hole most of my life
Why "apparently"?

I know a lot of arrogant assholes who have kids. Many of them are actively posting in this thread.

Being a dad and being an arrogant a-hole are not mutually exclusive. According to this thread, there is probably a fairly high correlation.
This post was edited on 9/30/21 at 8:57 pm
Posted by CP3LSU25
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2009
52570 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 8:54 pm to
What are your thoughts on people who have kids and use your tax payers money to have them in the hospital then feed them with your tax money.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27736 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:02 pm to
They’ve learned the true meaning of life.
Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
30192 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:03 pm to
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I know a lot of arrogant assholes who have kids. Many of them are actively posting in this thread.

You probably need to call it a day and hit the showers.
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
12081 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:05 pm to
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This post was edited on 12/18/21 at 10:30 pm
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
11591 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:06 pm to
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You probably need to call it a day and hit the showers
Thanks, pops.
Posted by BeepNode
Lafayette
Member since Feb 2014
10005 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:06 pm to
I think they performed a life hack by simply opting out.
Posted by Blitzed
Member since Oct 2009
21784 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:11 pm to
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I respect their position. I'm jealous of the free time and money. I'm sad they don't experience the love of a parent for a child.


I will not have children and I feel the reverse of this. I know what I’ll miss and I think about it maybe once a year as I wonder what kind of father I would be. Then I forget about it when I start buying myself shite and basically doing whatever I want.

I don’t see why anybody would have a problem with either.
This post was edited on 9/30/21 at 9:12 pm
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
11591 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:22 pm to
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I’d never tell them because to do so would be rude; but I pity them.

British-American social norms are so weird.

"I care about you so much that I won't be honest and truthful with you. I don't want to make this awkward for me, so I won't even try to be helpful to you or tell you how I really feel to your face."

#friendship
This post was edited on 9/30/21 at 9:34 pm
Posted by DarVienasAlus
Owasso
Member since Aug 2020
30 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:26 pm to
I am one of those folks. I am 57 and I have no children. When I was young, I just assumed that I would get married at the appropriate age and then have kids. I never put a lot of thought into it.

Growing up, my family life was perfect. I have an older brother and my parents gave us such a good life that it is hard to describe in a limited forum. My point is that my decision on kids had nothing to do with growing up.

It is just something I’ve never wanted to do but never developed any hard stance against having kids.

I don’t have any regrets and I don’t anticipate having any in the future.
This post was edited on 9/30/21 at 9:30 pm
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
19875 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:43 pm to
quote:

Now being close to 40. I wish i could have found someone.


Dude. Shut the frick up. Hit the gym. Dress nice. Hit on women.

You’re not old. Jesus Christ.
Posted by Grinder
Member since Nov 2007
2314 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:49 pm to
No kids here.

Wife and I both have great jobs. Lots of free time and disposable income. Funny to read people on here say they feel sorry for us.

Plenty of nieces and nephews to spoil.

Life is good.
Posted by Philzilla2k
Member since Oct 2017
11633 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 9:55 pm to
quote:

Jesus of Nazareth--by all contemporary accounts arguably the most righteous and selfless person in the history of the world--had no children.

Dan Brown would like a word.
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
30622 posts
Posted on 9/30/21 at 10:01 pm to
The world is overpopulated as it is and the last thing we need is to be worried about not having enough humans. We are a cancer upon this planet and IMO less is better, far far less.especially in Asian and India but everywhere has too many.
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