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re: Unmarried women with no kids are the happiest population subgroup, expert says

Posted on 5/18/20 at 7:20 am to
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135055 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 7:20 am to



Somehow I believe this was written by an angry spinster with lots of cats who hasn’t been given a proper orgasm since the Reagan administration
Posted by Twenty 49
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2014
21538 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:09 am to
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I swear childless people are starting to become like atheists and vegans.


The old saw is that these folks (and cross-fitters)always mention that they are in those groups.

But quite a few of them try NOT to mention it because people who have kids, are religious, eat meat, etc. will immediately start to question and challenge them. (That's not healthy, You don't know what you are missing, They're the greatest joy of my life, You should try our church, etc.)

The same people who will badger them to eat meat or have kids will say vegans/childless/etc. are "ramming it down our throats" if they so much as mention it.
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
10226 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:18 am to
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Do you even r/childfree, bro?


It's a creepy sub. It oozes of insecurity. Not sure why, but if you don't like kids you don't need to put it on blast. If someone asks, sure, but some of them make threads wanting people to praise them because they hate kids.

I don't particularly like children either, but when someone asks me if my wife and I are going to have kids, I usually just hit them with a "not anytime soon." Because that's the truth. I don't want them at this second, but in 2-3 years, who knows? I don't feel like I'd be a good parent. Maybe when I feel like I can properly care for a child I'll give it a shot.

I have no disdain for those who don't want to have children. However, I do have disdain for those who have children because they felt like it's what they were supposed to do, or accidentally had a child and now they are treating it like it's an extension of themselves. Mostly because their parenting skills are reflected in their kids.
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
21757 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:19 am to
that’s a typo. They are the most miserable people to be around
Posted by VABuckeye
NOVA
Member since Dec 2007
38283 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:23 am to
My daughter (30) is unmarried and without children. She seems miserable half the time. She suffers from depression and I often wonder if she had a partner in her life if she'd be a happier person.
Posted by oleheat
Sportsman's Paradise
Member since Mar 2007
14872 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:29 am to
"Expert" says.


Most people know someone from every walk of life who is as miserable as hell. Same goes for someone who is completely happy.

Yet there's always someone sitting in their office at NYU trying to lump everyone together- for grant money.
This post was edited on 5/18/20 at 8:34 am
Posted by Ronaldo Burgundiaz
NWA
Member since Jan 2012
6795 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:41 am to
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Unmarried women with no kids are the happiest population subgroup, expert says
This is how social science works.

Expert crafts idea in his mind. Then goes searching for data that validates that hypothesis. Often, this requires some manipulation of data, such as loaded questions on their surveys. "Do you support common sense gun laws?" "SEE America wants common sense gun laws!"
Posted by LoveThatMoney
Who knows where?
Member since Jan 2008
12790 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:44 am to
Generally speaking, single women with no kids are terribly Unhappy. Psychologists for generations have confirmed this. The biological clock is a real thing.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
42795 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:48 am to
I bet you a single, gainfully employee 32 year old in a big city with trendy night life and activities is possibly happier/more free than a married one.

But at 37, when she’s looking to finally settle down, let’s see
Posted by rondo
Worst. Poster. Evar.
Member since Jan 2004
77520 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:51 am to
quote:

Some years ago there were articles about research showing that people are happier if they:

1. Are married

2. Live in a small town

3. Have a pet

4. Do not watch or read the news





Sounds like me if you call Baton Rouge a small town
Posted by LarryDavid
Los Angeles
Member since Sep 2010
4207 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:54 am to
All the ones I know put at least one selfie on Facebook a day in a pathetic attempt at attention and spend the rest of the time complaining about the most illogical, senseless and absurd things imaginable.
Posted by Lonnie Utah
Utah!
Member since Jul 2012
35298 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 8:55 am to
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I'm happier with no kids.


But how do you really know if you've never had kids?
Posted by olddawg26
Member since Jan 2013
26890 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 9:02 am to
In your 20’s and 30’s I think it’s pretty normal to get why having no kids is a lot more spontaneously fun and free. I think later on in life you start realizing that while traveling and boozing/socializing has its fun, at that point you could be experiencing the world with your children, which is amazing.

It usually goes “frick having kids”, “I’m never having kids”, “I doubt I’ll ever have kids”, “I dunno maybe one day”... then you either have kids or you don’t. Around age 45 you start realizing most normal people your age are spending their time with their kids while setting time aside to still do things like socializing and traveling.

The hardest thing is the first few years of putting your life and hobbies on hold while the kid grows up a little. It’s a sacrifice you have to make if you plan on being 65+ and watching your family grow and not be the weirdo at the bar everyday.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21084 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 9:09 am to
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The guy who wrote this...


And we’re done here.
Posted by TigerCoon
Member since Nov 2005
22476 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 9:13 am to
I seriously seriously doubt this.
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
22346 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 9:16 am to
fat, ugly, unfrickable chicks always tell you life is great, because they might start believing it if they say it enough.

"We surveyed 5000 single women with a BMI over 35, all of them said their lives were amazing. In other news, the sky is blue."
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 9:22 am to
quote:

Speaking to The Guardian,


Never believe anything put out by this rag.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 9:24 am to
quote:

I'm happier with no kids.


Have you had kids to be able to compare?
Posted by bad93ex
Walnut Cove
Member since Sep 2018
36770 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 9:37 am to
quote:

according to one expert


People should just stop reading at this point.
Posted by Arkapigdiesel
Faulkner County
Member since Jun 2009
15776 posts
Posted on 5/18/20 at 9:39 am to
quote:

Like I always say, the only thing worse than being single is being in a shitty relationship.

Can't imagine throwing kids into that equation

You speak the truth.
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