re: Tucker Carlson is a Simp.

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All of you "just find a good girl" yahoos are clueless.
You're assuming that she will never change (and that's even if she actually was the good girl that you thought she was).
Gray Divorces are increasing faster than any other age demographic.
A lot of so called traditional women have turned into raging feminists over the last decade, which is why Gray Divorces are sky rocketing.
Imagine busting your arse for 30 or 40 years, being the provider, only to have this chick destroy you financially at 60.
Until the courts are fixed/balanced intelligent men will continue to take a hard pass on that raw deal.

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Tucker is a dumbass.
"Yeah, the courts are unfair to men and totally stacked against men, but men should just puss out and accept that raw deal and get married anyway".
What a f'ing moron

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Holy shite, your age and lack of relationships is showing its arse in this thread.

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A Systems Analyst who makes well into the 6 figures

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Nice try.

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Disgracedcuckguy confirmed by the nice try.

How ya been pal? Disappeared after Trump got shot. The election must have drove you bonkers seeing him win.

He’s gotta have an army to bust people online, come on Tate you know how he rolls.

Mgtow, the red pill, Jordan Peterson, and even idiots like Andrew Tate have their positives and negatives. As currently set up, marriage heavily favors women. Historically, marriage was more even, but not very respectful of women's rights. A woman can currently cheat on a man, accuse him of heinous acts, get borderline full custody of the kids, bend him over with both child care and alimony, get him fired from his job, and face zero repercussions. That's insanity.

I'm getting married in the next 60 days, but it's to someone I have known for half a decade and shares similar values. She's my best friend, and we have talked about kids, our future, politics, and various other stuff. She's actually the one suggesting a pre-nup as her family has a charitable foundation and other items that should be protected. Even with all of that, I am still entering into this marriage with an understanding of the personal and financial risks involved, even if I feel they are miniscule with her.

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Would a real man enter into a business deal where his business partner gets all of the profit while he assumes all of the risk ?

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You are so focused on money and worldly possessions that you cannot see the forest through the trees.

Marriage isn’t just a deal about dollars and cents. Marriage is about the joining of two people to become one in order to better both people and their lives, about creating an environment that fosters the raising of children that grow up to improve the world around them, about setting examples for the children, people, and community around them.

If you are more worried about money, marriage is wrong for everyone. Being married requires you to make tough decisions about opportunities and sometimes compromise on and even forego these financial opportunities to provide a better, stable life for those around you.

A few times I’ve been offered promotions to move to houston from where I currently live. It would have resulted in me getting pay raises and status, but it would involve me essentially cutting my children’s ties with their best friends, making my wife find new employment from a job she currently truly enjoys, and moving 6+ hours away from family on both sides (now we are between 50-80 minutes away from mine and my wife’s parents). The significant pay raises of 10-15% just were not worth the turmoil, hardship, and stress that the rest of my family would endure.

That’s the thing about marriage that, when a man is paired with a good woman, modern people just do not understand. It’s no longer about what you want. It’s not about what she wants. It’s not about what the kids want. It’s about what’s best for your family in totality from a monetary, social, family, and spiritual perspective and many men and women today are just too selfish to recognize that

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So…Johnny is holding off asking Suzie to marry him because he is already worried about half THEIR stuff being divided and him having to pay child support for HIS own kids in a divorce he has a 25% chance of occurring?

Marriage is a SACRAMENT. When we approach it that way and not as a CONTRACT, then we fight hard for it and aren’t worried about it being torn asunder.

Meet better women who you will give your life for and they in turn who respect you. Be a man.

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I don't understand this line of thinking. It is both a joining of a couple and a contract. Someone being worried about getting screwed in the court system is a valid concern, especially when the current dogma is divorcing when midlife crisis occurs. I have many 35-50 year old friends that are women, and portions of them descend on happily married individuals like locusts trying to cause a divorce, it's like a hive mind. It is a risk that must be taken into account.

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Because while the guest is correct that all the courts and divorce laws are slanted heavily against men, Tucker is also correct that men need to get married and have children. I didn’t understand what being a father meant to a man until I had my own kids, and now I recognize that this is men’s calling. It’s our best way to prepare our legacy and future, and it guides the decision making to one that makes a society one wants to live in. A society full of single men that just want to frick is a heartless society and while being pleasurable from a hedonistic perspective, will ultimately be terrible for the well being of all who live there.

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The trials and responsibilities of marriage and family grow a man (and women) in unfathomable ways that otherwise is hard to accomplish. And that’s not to denigrate the single or childless but it’s a fact.

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I don't understand this line of thinking

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Fair enough. All depends on your world view.

I view marriage as one of the seven Sacraments of the Church. It’s holy and a symbol of the relationship of Christ with the Church, His Bride.

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On one hand, you have traditional religious conservatives who believe in families and lots of kids. On the other hand, you have the "men go their own way" movement, who want to forego any long-term relationship with women based on their total abdication of traditional values and gender roles.

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I would've made a terrible husband in my 20's, and an even worse father. Best thing for me was getting married and having the kid in my early 30's.