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Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:04 am to Guido Merkens
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:04 am to Guido Merkens
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Daddy issues are a motherfricker
And a husband replaces a woman's father as her role model / protector so if she has negative feelings toward her dad, they will project onto rintin at some point when times get hard or she can't get her way or hates her Mom Body.
So much truth to this.
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:06 am to rintintin
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I honestly don't like her around with my friends because of her preponderance of getting pissed off for miniscule things.
The word you are look for there is "propensity"
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:07 am to rintintin
Rin,
Ive been giving you shite all thread but honestly throwing this girl out into the literal cold during the one time of the year where you want to have that special someone is about as shite of a thing a man could do to a woman he supposedly love.
Bro I could look away all the other shite because thats your prerogative but damn dude I dont think that's gonna do well for you in the Karma bucket.
Ive been giving you shite all thread but honestly throwing this girl out into the literal cold during the one time of the year where you want to have that special someone is about as shite of a thing a man could do to a woman he supposedly love.
Bro I could look away all the other shite because thats your prerogative but damn dude I dont think that's gonna do well for you in the Karma bucket.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:08 am to rintintin
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Yes, I probably should've done it sooner, when I knew I wouldn't marry her
Its like your mind keeps telling you to hold on a little longer to make sure leaving is the right decision. Been doing this for a year myself. Its not fair to either one of us considering she has no idea, and I'm playing daily mental gymnastics. After reading the OP, it felt like I had written it.
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 10:09 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:09 am to 50_Tiger
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Bro I could look away all the other shite because thats your prerogative but damn dude I dont think that's gonna do well for you in the Karma bucket.
He was working on the lease, maybe he couldn't afford to do it any other time?
I think everyone agrees here though, he needs to do it today. Tonight, get it over with it. Today, 24 days before Christmas is much better than tomorrow or next week. At least she can partially recover by Christmas and be around family to get over it over the Holidays.
She'll probably have a BBC gangbang on New Years and send the OP pics too.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:10 am to rintintin
EDIT: wrote the below before reading entire thread. You should break it off and sounds like you have given it a long hard agonizing think. Best of luck to you and hopefully you will find someone to experience a lifetime with.
I said those same things about my wife before we were married and almost broke up with her. Not sure how old you are, but if you are early to mid twenties then sounds lke you need to move on. It is very hard to find someone to love in this life and be with all the time. Being married will never solve things like: wanting to be alone at times, getting in fights and wondering why the hell you married her, wanting to bang other chicks. However, if you find someone you can talk to and have fun with just going to a movie, that is your girl/soul mate. We all get old and everyone changes, but the end goal should be the same (i.e, live life with your best friend, share the journey). I am happily married, had several bumps along the way and may face several more. I I could not imagine not being with my wife but the day I got married, I still had some nervousness about the whole thing.
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I love being home alone
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not wanting to hurt her.
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I do care for her.
I said those same things about my wife before we were married and almost broke up with her. Not sure how old you are, but if you are early to mid twenties then sounds lke you need to move on. It is very hard to find someone to love in this life and be with all the time. Being married will never solve things like: wanting to be alone at times, getting in fights and wondering why the hell you married her, wanting to bang other chicks. However, if you find someone you can talk to and have fun with just going to a movie, that is your girl/soul mate. We all get old and everyone changes, but the end goal should be the same (i.e, live life with your best friend, share the journey). I am happily married, had several bumps along the way and may face several more. I I could not imagine not being with my wife but the day I got married, I still had some nervousness about the whole thing.
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 10:40 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:11 am to rintintin
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rintintin
So will we get an update tomorrow?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:11 am to rintintin
If she really has emotional issues; don't do this at Christmas. It's been 4 years, 30 more days won't kill you; but I promise you the blow-back will be 1000x worse if this break-up takes place between now and Jan 3.
Its your life - if you don't want to be with her, it's your choice. But for both your sakes, think twice before you break it off during the holidays. It could get extra messy.
Its your life - if you don't want to be with her, it's your choice. But for both your sakes, think twice before you break it off during the holidays. It could get extra messy.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:12 am to rintintin
She knows you're on here, and it would be funny if she checks your posting history and breaks up with you. You'll get what you want but it will make you look like a tool.
The grass always seems greener but it really isn't. Sounds like she's a pretty good chick.
I also agree with a previous post that one of your friends will end up with her.
The grass always seems greener but it really isn't. Sounds like she's a pretty good chick.
I also agree with a previous post that one of your friends will end up with her.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:13 am to rintintin
OP, if you're not happy you can't force anything. Do the right thing and break it off. You may regret it later but that doesn't mean it wasn't the right thing to do. Maybe you have some growing up to do, maybe she does.
Maybe you'll end up getting back together but don't listen to people telling you to stick it out just because she's a great person. Someone can be a great person and still not be a match for you.
Maybe you'll end up getting back together but don't listen to people telling you to stick it out just because she's a great person. Someone can be a great person and still not be a match for you.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:15 am to rintintin
You are mean and you will regret it if you break up (at least when you become a grown up man).
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:16 am to 50_Tiger
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Rin,
Ive been giving you shite all thread but honestly throwing this girl out into the literal cold during the one time of the year where you want to have that special someone is about as shite of a thing a man could do to a woman he supposedly love.
Bro I could look away all the other shite because thats your prerogative but damn dude I dont think that's gonna do well for you in the Karma bucket.
Because of the time of the year, he should bite the bullet and ride it out and be miserable for her sake?
Earlier this summer I was dating a girl for 2 months or so. Went to break up with her and she was crying because both of her roomates were in her friends wedding but she didn't get asked. She was devestated.
So I should have bitten my tongue for the time being because it was a bad time? The next day we were going to New Orleans with some other couples to eat and drink. I should have bitten my tongue even though I had zero interest in being with her or even being there with the group?
Just ride it through the weekend in my case. Just ride it through the holidays in OPs case.
Grow some balls people. If you're not happy, do something about it. frick the standard.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:16 am to rintintin
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they will project onto rintin at some point when times get hard or she can't get her way or hates her Mom Body.
So much truth to this.
So, the real issue is that she got fat, isn't it?
Maybe we don't want the pics then.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:16 am to yoga girl
I am convinced that regret is a fundamental component of adulthood
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:22 am to thegreatboudini
boudini its not about frickin the standard its about being a good human being. Cool youre done with it. Timing is absolutely awful. You really want to frick with a persons complete being, do exactly what he is about to do. That frickin woman will need 100 BBC's too begin to start feeling worthy again.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:25 am to yoga girl
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You are mean and you will regret it if you break up (at least when you become a grown up man).
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yoga girl
If I needed any more reassurance, there it is
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:25 am to rintintin
I won't comment on everything else in this thread, but something a few of you are saying annoys the hell out of me. Relationships/marriage are hard work? It is a stupid saying and it is bullshite. Sure, there are fights and disagreements that couples go through. But if it is a constant struggle, or even if you find yourself at odds with each other 10% of the time, then you fricked up. The right relationship is easy as can be 99% of the time.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:27 am to Rouge
I can't believe half the OT feels for this chick.
She hates his friends and is jealous when they do stuff together- STRIKE 1
No sex for a month and they are under 30 - STRIKE 2
Financially Irrespnsible chick - Ball 1(may be allowed if she is OT 7 or higher)
He hates being home with her - Ball 2 (apparently this is common)
Daddy Issues involving abuse - STRIKE 3
Cut this chick loose tonight - she had 4 years to get it together
She hates his friends and is jealous when they do stuff together- STRIKE 1
No sex for a month and they are under 30 - STRIKE 2
Financially Irrespnsible chick - Ball 1(may be allowed if she is OT 7 or higher)
He hates being home with her - Ball 2 (apparently this is common)
Daddy Issues involving abuse - STRIKE 3
Cut this chick loose tonight - she had 4 years to get it together
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 10:28 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:29 am to rintintin
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Trust me, I've thought long and hard about this.
I've read through your replies to other posts and this does seem to be a constant. However, in your thinking through it, have you discussed, with her, the issues the two of you are having?
If these issues have been brought up and discussed in a mature and sober manner then she shouldn't be so surprised and hurt when the finality of a break up occurs.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:29 am to rintintin
Maybe already asked and answered, but do you have kids with her?
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