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re: To have kids or not?
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:13 am to lsunurse
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:13 am to lsunurse
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Maybe you shouldn’t have better phrased your original post to something like “the love you have for a child is unlike any other love you can feel”
Huh?
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Quit crawfishing
Quit bitching. I don't have kids and it's pretty damn simple to understand that raising something from the time it's 20 I ches long and completely dependent on you is pretty damn different than marrying anlgher adult that you get along with.
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Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:14 am to lsunurse
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Quit crawfishing
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lsunurse
Maybe I could’ve phrased it better. You can love coffee. Love your parents. Love your poodle. Love the beach. Etc. But you don’t understand how strong love can be until you’ve had a child. Better?
You’re such a miserable person
This post was edited on 6/16/19 at 11:18 am
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:16 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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I don't have kids and it's pretty damn simple to understand that raising something from the time it's 20 I ches long and completely dependent on you is pretty damn different than marrying anlgher adult that you get along with.
Dude you SUCK at reading comprehension.
His post was saying one cannot understand love in general unless they have a child.
THAT was the thing I was correcting. And others (that are PARENTS) also corrected in this thread.
His post implies that those of us without kids don't understand what real love is. Which that is some smug bullshite right there that is all.
Maybe learn some basic reading comprehension before you chime in next time champ.
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:18 am to lsunurse
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Dude you SUCK at reading comprehension.
You just SUCK in general
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:19 am to Tyga Woods
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But you don’t understand how strong love can be until you’ve had a child. Better?
No not better.
So now you are saying I can never grasp how powerful love can be? Just because I'm not a parent?
Try again
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:21 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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You just SUCK in general
coming from
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Mingo Was His NameO
holds no weight on here
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:21 am to lsunurse
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So now you are saying I can never grasp how powerful love can be? Just because I'm not a parent?
Exactly
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:22 am to Grassy1
I saw a woman at Albertsons with 5 kids. All age 1-5. The gestation timeframe hardly even made sense. I have come to believe that there is a secret plan to breed out the Anglo at any cost and as soon as possible.
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:26 am to Kentucker
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We’re fast approaching 8 billion people on planet earth. At some point we will have to institute population control, else we’ll prove Soylent Green to have been a prophetic movie.
Fretting about overpopulation, is a perfect guilt-free— indeed, sanctimonious— way for "progressives" to be racists.
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:26 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
I agree with you but for me, my kids and wife were the catalyst that drove me to be as successful as I could be. I’ve never in my life had more motivation than to provide them with the best life possible.
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:28 am to Gabriel Susan Lewis
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I have come to believe that there is a secret plan to breed out the Anglo at any cost and as soon as possible.
It will happen, but mostly because Anglos have grown too selfish to prioritize family.
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:34 am to Tyga Woods
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You’re such a miserable person
Life has given me a VERY VERY shitty hand lately so I've earned the right for a little misery right now.
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:36 am to lsunurse
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Life has given me a VERY VERY shitty hand lately so I've earned the right for a little misery right now.
What a shitty attitude
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:47 am to Mingo Was His NameO
I'm sure it is..but it's how I currently feel.
Life has beaten the hope out of me right now.
Life has beaten the hope out of me right now.
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:47 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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Life has given me a VERY VERY shitty hand lately so I've earned the right for a little misery right now.
What a shitty attitude
I agree. Think about the hands dealt to Steve Gleason, Elizabeth Smart and Steven Hawking. They got dealt 2-7 offsuit with 3 aces on the flop. Attitude is what you use to get out of misery and a shitty one allows you to wallow and stay in the misery.
This post was edited on 6/16/19 at 11:48 am
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:51 am to Grassy1
Have 3 and they are amazing.
I honest don’t even know what my life would be without them.
Sure, at times, wish i were free to do whatever i wanted but in the end, they have made my life better and I’m glad i made those decisions
I honest don’t even know what my life would be without them.
Sure, at times, wish i were free to do whatever i wanted but in the end, they have made my life better and I’m glad i made those decisions
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:54 am to lsunurse
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Life has given me a VERY VERY shitty hand lately so I've earned the right for a little misery right now.
I hate to hear that and hope things get better for you soon. Directing that misery at others isn’t going to make you feel better though....it’ll actually do the opposite. Been there.
Posted on 6/16/19 at 11:56 am to Fat and Happy
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Have 3 and they are amazing.
I honest don’t even know what my life would be without them.
Sure, at times, wish i were free to do whatever i wanted but in the end, they have made my life better and I’m glad i made those decisions
About the free time part. After Katrina, I had to move to another city for work away from my family for a few months. There were five others in the same boat. It was like summer camp for grown up married men the first few weeks hitting the bars every night. Then it was like, Can we just go home and have a beer?
I have twins in college. We had an opportunity to adopt brothers who are now 4 and 5. When making that decision I realized my happiest times were coaching my older kid's ballgames and other events involved in their lives. IT is not for everyone but it brings an incomparable form of fulfillment and happiness along with the extra worry and responsiblity.
Posted on 6/16/19 at 12:01 pm to lsunurse
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I'm sure it is..but it's how I currently feel.
Life has beaten the hope out of me right now.
I'm very sorry you feel this way. Just keep thinking about the positives you have. I know what you are going through is shitty, and I first hand know how hard it is when you feel like absolutely nothing is going right. And you're lonely and no one understands. But I do. I am going through the same thing and have been for years.
Try not to be bitter. There is hope. Things will get better. Getting mad at people here who make comments you don't agree with won't help. And when you show it upsets you they will just keep digging.
I do understand what you are going through plus some, if need someone to lean on you know how to contact me. I know I wish people would have offered me the same, so please don't take the offer as me being mean. I just don't want you to feel alone.
Posted on 6/16/19 at 12:17 pm to HoustonChick86
Thanks HC, you have always been kind to me but called me out when I needed it.
I’m not in a good place right now and this place only brings out the bitterness even more from me. Maybe I need a break from here. Take it easy OT
I’m not in a good place right now and this place only brings out the bitterness even more from me. Maybe I need a break from here. Take it easy OT
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