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re: This is the hardest thing I have ever been through.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 7:22 pm to Hoova1202004
Posted on 8/12/22 at 7:22 pm to Hoova1202004
I have no words brother but thoughts and loving prayers for y’all.
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Posted on 8/12/22 at 7:27 pm to Hoova1202004
Everything will be ok. My dad passed away 3 years ago and I kept trying to talk my mom into selling the house. When she finally did, she felt so peaceful
Posted on 8/12/22 at 7:30 pm to Hoova1202004
My thoughts go out to you. Losing a spouse in a happy marriage has to be one of the hardest and most brutal thing a person can go thru. Maybe the only equal would be losing a child.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 7:55 pm to Hoova1202004
God’s peace be with you. Praying for you and your family.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 8:16 pm to Hoova1202004
I haven’t read the responses but I just came to reassure you that there’s no shame in the way you are feeling. Continue to vent any way and anywhere you feel comfortable doing so. I can’t imagine your pain, but I can assure you that over time it will get better to a certain point that is much improved from what you feel right now. No one should have to deal with what you and your children are dealing with, but continue to be strong for them. It seems like you are doing a great job. God bless you and your family.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 8:22 pm to bengalman
Damn, that hits hard. I get angry with God because I’m still single. Losing the love of your life is tragic. Praying for your family.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 8:31 pm to Hoova1202004
It’s been 18 months now since i lost my wife of over 35 years to her third bout with cancer. Yet it still seems like a dream that happened yesterday. I have moved - youngest daughter and i bought each others house-, been down to btr several times to visit both our families, and i tey to see my grandkids every day. Nothing fills the void, and i still have days filled with tears. It all helps, but there is no cure. Keep moving forward, raise y’all’s kids and take care of yourself, do what she would want you to. It doesn’t get easier, not gonna lie, but you will learn how to cope more with each passing day. Above all, keep your eyes and heart on the cross. God bless you brother in the same boat.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 8:32 pm to Hoova1202004
Talk to your wife everyday she's listening
Time does heal but never forgets
Don't try and stop your emotions let it rip...its part of healing/coping
Sounds like you have others around you that love you...lean on them
Time does heal but never forgets
Don't try and stop your emotions let it rip...its part of healing/coping
Sounds like you have others around you that love you...lean on them
Posted on 8/12/22 at 8:36 pm to Hoova1202004
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I forgot to add since she passed away the bedroom lamp has been on. I didn’t want her to be in the dark. Tomorrow night the room will be dark…and that hurts a lot.
Make the lamp the last thing you take from the house. When you unplug the lamp to leave, ask her if she is ready to go.
You don't have to leave her there. Take her with you. Our spirits are eternal.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 8:37 pm to Hoova1202004
heavy stuff. sorry my friend. i hope you find some peace soon. its wonderful that you have your kids for comfort. best regards to her, and hope your move goes well as it can.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 8:40 pm to ValZacs
god damn,,, I hurt for you,
losing a spouse or child the fricking worst
losing a spouse or child the fricking worst
Posted on 8/12/22 at 8:42 pm to Hoova1202004
Prayers man...it will get better.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 8:43 pm to Hoova1202004
This hurts to read, I can’t imagine what you’re going through
I’m very sorry
I’m very sorry
Posted on 8/12/22 at 9:18 pm to Hoova1202004
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Over 18 years went by in the blink of an eye
It's just incredible how life passes you by, and as you get older, the years seems to just fly by. I am deeply sorry for your loss. Prayers for you.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 9:19 pm to Hoova1202004
I have shared this often, with folks of many denominations. It is from my tradition and has been a great comfort to me and many dear friends. Soldier on my friend, in her name:
The departed whom we now remember have entered into the peace of life eternal. They still live on earth in the acts of goodness they performed and in the hearts of those who cherish their memory. May the beauty of their life abide among us as a loving benediction.
The departed whom we now remember have entered into the peace of life eternal. They still live on earth in the acts of goodness they performed and in the hearts of those who cherish their memory. May the beauty of their life abide among us as a loving benediction.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 9:21 pm to Hoova1202004
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Posted on 8/12/22 at 9:22 pm to Hoova1202004
A prayer has been said for you.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 9:23 pm to Hoova1202004
I’m sorry about your wife.
I pray for your peace. May those items you find bring you joy.
No one can take away your memories.
I’m completely serious.
Furthermore, buy a scanner and digitize everything you can.
I pray for your peace. May those items you find bring you joy.
No one can take away your memories.
I’m completely serious.
Furthermore, buy a scanner and digitize everything you can.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 10:15 pm to Hoova1202004
Stay strong. This hurt me just reading it. Sounds like you got a great son.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 10:22 pm to Hoova1202004
Hang in there Bud
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