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There are so many sad and devastating things in the world

Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:37 pm
Posted by Roll Tide Ravens
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2015
42277 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:37 pm
but I don't know if, illness wise, it gets much worse than Alzheimer's disease. To see someone still alive, but lose everything that makes them who they are. Seeing someone you love wither away, even though they are still there physically. To know, that there is literally no way to halt its progression like is possible with other illnesses.

I'm not taking away from the other illnesses and how horrible they are. Alzheimer's just has unique things that make it hard to bear in its own way.

Sorry for the depressing post, sometimes you just gotta talk.
Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33053 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:40 pm to
It's very hard on a loved one. I pray for a quick and merciful end, but it just goes on and on. My best wishes to you.
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134860 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:40 pm to
I agree. I truly wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
Posted by cheesesteak501
The South
Member since Mar 2014
3152 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:46 pm to
There's a guy with Alzheimer's who comes into my restaurant every single day around noon, gets a cup of water and walks around the whole place, then leaves. The nicest guy.
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
23378 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:46 pm to
My Aunt has Alzheimer's. It is a terrible disease.
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
14808 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:47 pm to
Idk your situation but you are getting a prayer, baw.
Posted by lsuguy84
CO
Member since Feb 2009
19655 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:47 pm to
Sorry for your struggle. It's real. As with every illness or disease, it has its own unique circumstances to overcome. I hope it's not your mother given the timing of the post, and if it is I'm very sorry to hear that.
Posted by SerenityNow
Chicago
Member since Feb 2008
2418 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:51 pm to
I'm with you. My mother is 68 and in a nursing home. Her dementia kicked in at 60 and it got really bad about 3-4 years ago.

She is currently in a place in Alabama where the cost is more affordable so I'm not able to see her much, which is somewhat of a relief and utterly awful all at once.

I'm hoping for a peaceful end. She would be mortified that she turned out this way.

Stay strong.
This post was edited on 5/14/17 at 3:53 pm
Posted by shinerfan
Duckworld(Earth-616)
Member since Sep 2009
22273 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:54 pm to
Saw my mom this morning and its heartbreaking. She doesn't have Alzheimer's, just run of the mill age related dementia but her mind is gone. She's rarely clear on who I am. Sure wish I had found more time to spend with her when she was sharp and funny and full of unlikely stories about the family history in Ireland.
Posted by Bushmaster
19th Hole
Member since Oct 2008
39621 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:54 pm to
Damn sorry to hear that. Has to be very difficult. Prayers.
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
43334 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 3:56 pm to
quote:

Saw my mom this morning and its heartbreaking. She doesn't have Alzheimer's, just run of the mill age related dementia but her mind is gone.


Same with my grandmother who I'm closer to than my actual mother. It's really, really rough.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
Undisclosed Secure Location
Member since Feb 2008
18632 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 4:37 pm to
Toss up for me between that and Lou Gehrig.
Posted by VABuckeye
Naples, FL
Member since Dec 2007
35523 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 4:41 pm to
ALS aka Lou Gehrig's disease. It's horrible.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175830 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 4:43 pm to
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Roll Tide Ravens

very sorry to hear
Posted by goldshellback
Up da bayou a ways...
Member since Mar 2015
292 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 4:46 pm to
My dad had a stroke three years ago and Alzheimer's hit almost instantly thereafter. It's killing us watching the strong, righteous man that raised us wither away like he is.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
38750 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 4:48 pm to
it runs in my family
my grandmother held on almost 15 years is full stage dementia
not only had she forgotten who she was, it went on so long I damn near forgot what she was like before

I know it's coming for my dad who's 72 and still works every day
and I know it's coming for me

I've declared specific instructions in my will that when it does happen to me I am to be relived of my post
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26532 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 4:49 pm to
I don't know ALS is pretty bad as well.. They lose their entire self, but their brain is totally aware of everything wrong with themselves... With Alzheimer's, at least they get to a point where they're not aware anymore...

But they're both terrible..
This post was edited on 5/14/17 at 4:50 pm
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9784 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 4:50 pm to
While I am so happy to be spending this special day with my family, I can't help but think of a friend who's 7 year old only child, who was recently diagnosed with DIPG is probably spending her last Mother's Day with this precious child. Too many sad things like this in the world. You just have to appreciate every day of healthy living.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8374 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 4:51 pm to
Yes sir. It's a terrible disease. Watched my grandfather go out with that. Probably the only thing worse from the victim perspective would be ALS which is my worst nightmare.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 5/14/17 at 4:52 pm to
ALS to me is worse on the person who has it
Dementia is worse on the family. :(
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