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re: The Pros And Cons Of A Guy Paying On A First Date

Posted on 6/20/16 at 4:39 pm to
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 4:39 pm to
quote:

Sex – I recently discovered that men pay for drinks and dinner in hopes to have sex.


So she is barely an adult?
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
24454 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 4:39 pm to
The man should pay for the first dinner, period. The woman should make a sincere offer but it shouldn't be serious. It's a way of showing you are a reasonable woman. I would never go to a super nice place on a first date anyway that's just stupid, it's not a good atmosphere for a first date for one.

Now anything after dinner like drinks or a movie is great for the girl to split or pay.
Posted by FavoriteAnon
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
345 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 4:41 pm to
how old are they baw? or should i say, paw?
Posted by terriblegreen
Spokane, LA
Member since Aug 2011
12453 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 4:42 pm to
I've been on a lot of first dates in the last few years. Never once has a woman reached for the check. In fact, they almost never pay on any date. I just accept it as the way it is. No big deal. It would be nice if they grabbed maybe 1 check out of every 10 or so.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
45988 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 5:24 pm to
Pros: sex
Cons: no sex
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40311 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 5:30 pm to
No, she's unattractive.
Posted by TigerStripes06
SWLA
Member since Sep 2006
30032 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 5:33 pm to
quote:

I adore when a man treats me like the princess I am and takes me out on the town


I hate this shite. You aren't a fricking princess.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
46209 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 5:33 pm to
quote:

she's unattractive.

OMG. Me, too. That's why he better put out when I pay for dinner.
This post was edited on 6/20/16 at 5:34 pm
Posted by CharlieDay
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2016
422 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 5:48 pm to
quote:

Not all of us take our dates to McDonalds, brah


Exactly what I was thinking. I don't think I've ever gone to a restaurant and paid under $40 for 2 in my entire dating life.
Posted by bisonduck
Oregon City, OR
Member since Apr 2011
14006 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 5:49 pm to
Pros and cons for paying for a first date?

I guess I like to fly by the seat of my pants a little more than most people. Haven't read and sounds excruciating.

Posted by bisonduck
Oregon City, OR
Member since Apr 2011
14006 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 5:53 pm to
quote:


I'm not gonna date a woman with this kind of an attitude in the first place.


No shite. You pay and if she gets offended, you dodged a huge headache.
Posted by SirWinston
Say NO to War
Member since Jul 2014
104464 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 5:59 pm to
if you're a big enough sucker to buy dinner on the first date you deserve to pay.

Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40311 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 6:13 pm to


I wouldn't get through the appetizer with you, Hottie McHotterson.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
46209 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 6:16 pm to
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I wouldn't get through the appetizer with you, Hottie McHotterson

That's Boobie McBooberson to you.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40311 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 6:18 pm to
I don't like to be obvious.


Unless that works...
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
46209 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 6:22 pm to
quote:

I don't like to be obvious.

Obvious is better. I'm too old for game-playing.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40311 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 6:22 pm to
It's just good manners.

Look, if I invite someone to lunch or dinner or whatever, I expect to pay and I am happy to do so.

I was joking about the author's looks, but I am willing to bet she's never been around men from the South.
Posted by KamaCausey_LSU
Member since Apr 2013
17836 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 6:28 pm to
quote:

return the favor in a different way with the implication

This post was edited on 6/20/16 at 6:32 pm
Posted by MottLaneKid
Gonzales
Member since Apr 2012
4543 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 6:28 pm to
When I go out with my girlfriend, I usually pay for our dates. When she decides to cook, I will buy the groceries. My thinking is that she is a woman who is a good friend for life. I'm not looking for a payback. She supports me in other ways besides financially. If I marry her, my paycheck will become our paycheck.

Love and respect goes beyond the cash in your pocket. Btw...we are waiting to get married before having sex.
Posted by RightHook
Member since Dec 2013
5560 posts
Posted on 6/20/16 at 6:37 pm to
pros - takes a women out on a date.
cons - chump
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