re: The past has caught up to me. (updated 10/10/18)

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Embrace it. I know people who have gone through this and it's been a positive in their lives.

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yeah, she probably only wants your kidney or liver.

I had a friend, that was adopted, find a sister from a DNA test this past summer. It was pretty incredible for him. congrats

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Why are you being asked to take a DNA test to verify you are her brother?

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She wants to be absolutely sure and she’s paying for the test.

Does she look like you? Will the test be able to determine if you are identical or fraternal?

Does she like anal?

I'd want hers as well, personally.

I know someone who was adopted and recently found his bio family. It's worked out well. He was raised in a wonderful family and they were fine with him finding the bio folks. Interesting story.

2nd page and IDGAF...in dis biotch.

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I fully get the wanting to make sure your related. I would just be a little thrown off if someone claiming to be my sister called me out of the blue and told me to take a DNA test on their dime

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I didn’t really want to make a big post about all the details, i wanted to keep it short for everyone suffering with ADD, but I did meet with the woman for a couple of hours at my mom’s house before i agreed to take the test.

As an adoptee who also has always known, I set out on the search a few years ago and found my birth mother. We met after a few years, along with my maternal grandparents, my wife, and my son. It was awkward, and my life would have been much different, but I wanted my son to have the opportunity to meet his grandmother and great grandparents. Good luck to you.