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re: The 'Overparenting' Crisis In School And At Home

Posted on 1/31/19 at 3:30 pm to
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Member since Apr 2012
17751 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 3:30 pm to
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This is a serious issue. I doubt it will change though.



There's a serious groundswell towards anti-participation trophies... I'm hopeful


I would also like to point out that many millenials have fought in two wars so there are some out there with quality/depth of character.
Posted by FatBoy62
Arkansas
Member since May 2018
783 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 3:32 pm to
The best book I've ever read "Disciplines of a Godly Man" has the best analogy of parenting to follow. The author states that raising a child is like holding a wet bar of soap... squeeze to tightly and the soap shoots out...hold it to loosely and you'll drop it. A firm but gentle grip is required and the same goes for children.
Posted by VABuckeye
NOVA
Member since Dec 2007
38283 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 3:35 pm to
I agree with everything you and the article are saying except for one thing.

College kids have been bringing laundry home for mom to do for as long as I can remember and I'm an old fart.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16791 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 3:54 pm to
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I don't have any kids.


As a parent, I give you full authority to say whatever you want to these lazy arse parents. Parents use to bitch at me when I was childless for giving them shite, now that I am a parent, I see that I was right, they are lazy. You can't fix the crazy ones though that live through their kids, no hope for them, at least the lazy ones just need to put a little more work in.

Advise these lazy bastards until they scream mercy.


This post was edited on 1/31/19 at 3:55 pm
Posted by tiger turney
River Ridge
Member since Dec 2016
392 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 4:29 pm to
Agree 100% with this
Posted by scottfruget
Member since Nov 2010
3392 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 4:38 pm to
I laugh at the thought that somehow public schools will teach a child to become an adult. The entire system was created to extend the length of childhood and create obedient servile workers. Congrats to the feds. Their system has worked flawlessly.
Posted by CBarkleytruth
Member since Dec 2014
1721 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 4:44 pm to
Dude you are the lamest frick on here. I guarantee that IRL your situation isn’t even close to as perfect as you continuously claim
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 6:06 pm to
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In other ways though, this generation is urgently trying to forget certain human truths. That’s largely how I view Jordan Peterson


Peterson’s view of Michaelangelo’s Pieta in regards to parenting is absolutely staggering.

A mother’s sacrifice
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
30562 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 6:09 pm to
This is brand new information.

Teachers have seen this trend for years.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16791 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 6:14 pm to
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Teachers have seen this trend for years.


Teachers whine about fricking everything, it's hard to take them seriously on anything. Don't ever friend one on Facebook, them and nursing students.
This post was edited on 1/31/19 at 6:16 pm
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
30562 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 6:18 pm to
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Teachers whine about fricking everything, it's hard to take them seriously on anything. Don't ever friend one on Facebook, them and nursing students.


I am a teacher. I don’t need to whine about these helicopter parents. They make themselves look bad, and their kids are the ones to suffer.
Posted by glorymanutdtiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2012
4611 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 6:25 pm to
You do start a lot of threads about kids and parenting while stating that you don't want to have kids.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
30562 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 6:37 pm to
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You do start a lot of threads about kids and parenting while stating that you don't want to have kids.




What the hell are you talking about? I went back to May, didn’t see any threads that I started about this sort of thing. I don’t start many threads to begin with...
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
74547 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 6:41 pm to
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We parents are overprotecting, overdirecting and doing a lot of hand-holding, ostensibly in furtherance of kids' safety — physical, emotional — and security — emotional, academic, reputational, professional, financial. But also in furtherance of our own ego


I see this all the time and it’s terrible parenting. My philosophy is it’s my job as a father to prepare them to be good, honest, kind, hard working, and productive members of society. And you can’t do that if you spend their childhood making all their decisions instead of teaching them how to make good decisions for themselves.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 6:42 pm to
Pretty sure he was talking to pecker since pecker started this thread
Posted by glorymanutdtiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2012
4611 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 6:48 pm to
I'm talking about pecker
Posted by Antonio Moss
The South
Member since Mar 2006
49577 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 6:51 pm to
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Teachers whine about fricking everything, it's hard to take them seriously on anything. Don't ever friend one on Facebook, them and nursing students.


To be fair, this is confirmation bias.
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43482 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 7:24 pm to
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It's much easier to buy your kid Fortnite


But Fortnite is free
Posted by ChenierauTigre
Dreamland
Member since Dec 2007
34743 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 7:36 pm to
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How do you handle these issues with your kids Peck? Do you just yell at your kids while they drip down the crack of your girlfriends arse?


Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
109158 posts
Posted on 1/31/19 at 7:37 pm to
I agree, but these same experts or their peers pushed for everyone needs a trophy or they will have hurt feelings.

Squash all discipline because it will scar them.

Running an assignment to school has happened forever and kind of a dumb one, but I get the idea and don't disagree at all.
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