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The oddity of women valuing physical appearance less than men do

Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:13 pm
Posted by Mr Butters
Louisiana
Member since Jul 2022
89 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:13 pm
I find it weird that girls sometimes date ugly men and become emotionally attached to them. Men don’t do these things typically.

For example, the women I work with will gossip and talk about all of the things going on in some ugly dude’s life. They’ll talk about his new haircut, his personal life, his friends, his family, the way he acts at work, etc. In a way, the ugly men still have a certain power over the women and a certain pull on them.

However, men never really do this. If there’s an ugly girl in the office, we don’t obsess over their personal life or anything else about them. We just let them be and don’t talk about them much. They have no pull on us, and we don’t feel a need to interact with them.

Just an observation on the differences between the way that males and females interact and feel attraction to the opposite sex.
This post was edited on 7/27/22 at 7:15 pm
Posted by DontThreadOnMe
Member since Jul 2022
364 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:16 pm to
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In a way, the ugly men still have a certain power over the women and a certain pull on them.


It's called money.
Posted by Ghost of Colby
Alberta, overlooking B.C.
Member since Jan 2009
11193 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:17 pm to
The O-T and Tiger Droppings have been overrun by shitty posters and bots.

I’m taking a timeout until Chicken regains control once he returns from his Destin vacation.
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
28708 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:17 pm to
If they let you overhear their gossip then they are manipulating you.


ETA: Either that or they think you're a woman.
This post was edited on 7/27/22 at 7:19 pm
Posted by meauxses
Member since Nov 2012
2695 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:18 pm to
This is really shitty to say but I think ugly men aren’t as unattractive as ugly women.

Fat dudes aren’t as bad as fat girls.
Posted by Billy Mays
Member since Jan 2009
25277 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:19 pm to
Women value different things than men.

We are visual, hunter/gatherers.

Women are more communal, thoughtful, and nurturing. They are probably saying that about the ugly guy bc they are looking for the positives in people instead of writing them off for superficial reasons.
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
28708 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:20 pm to
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Women are more communal, thoughtful, and nurturing. They are probably saying that about the ugly guy bc they are looking for the positives in people instead of writing them off for superficial reasons.
Do you know any women?
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30008 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:20 pm to
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It's called money.


they dont care about mens looks, just their bank accounts

but their looks and other womens looks, are psycho level obsessions with them
Posted by Mr Butters
Louisiana
Member since Jul 2022
89 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:20 pm to
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I’m taking a timeout until Chicken regains control once he returns from his Destin vacation.


Bye. Don’t let the door hit you in the arse on the way out.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98184 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:20 pm to
Men need a healthy partner to birth their offspring, which correlates with attractiveness. Women need a secure environment to raise those offspring, which doesn't correlate with attractiveness. All things being equal, women want an attractive partner too, but they value stability and security above attractiveness.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
39283 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:22 pm to
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It's called money.

Oh, junior! You have much to learn. It’s also called confidence, charisma, power and charm. I’ve known short, ugly, men of middling means who could pull tail like no one’s business.
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
7312 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:23 pm to
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However, men never really do this. If there’s an ugly girl in the office, we don’t obsess over their personal life or anything else about them. We just let them be and don’t talk about them much. They have no pull on us, and we don’t feel a need to interact with them.


My honest opinion is that this guy likely has something that others do not. And it may just be as simple as empathy for other humans, and the ability to talk to women.

I'm sure many people on this board post in jest, but half the posts here make me want to vomit when I see the response towards women. Many of you just don't get it.
This post was edited on 7/27/22 at 7:24 pm
Posted by Cymry Teigr
Member since Sep 2012
2103 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:26 pm to
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All things being equal, women want an attractive partner too, but they value stability and security above attractiveness.


Studies say otherwise:

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The results showed that as long as a man was considered attractive or moderately attractive, both mothers and daughters would pick the guy who had the most desirable personality traits. But when an unattractive male was paired with the most highly desirable personality profile, neither daughters nor mothers rated him as favorably as a potential romantic partner, compared with better-looking men with less desirable personalities.


quote:

The study suggests that if a man is considered at least moderately attractive, then his personality matters to women, Fugère said. If a man is viewed as less than moderately attractive, it doesn't seem to matter as much to women what his personality is like, Fugère explained.


livescience
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124185 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:27 pm to
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Oh, junior! You have much to learn. It’s also called confidence, charisma, power and charm. I’ve known short, ugly, men of middling means who could pull tail like no one’s business.



Preach brother Penrod!
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
51600 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:29 pm to


I'm $ure he ha$ one helluva per$onality.
This post was edited on 7/27/22 at 7:30 pm
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260477 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:34 pm to
Women are attracted to security.
Posted by JackieTreehorn
Malibu
Member since Sep 2013
29080 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:36 pm to
Women are just as shallow as men. But instead of looks it’s about money.
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
5441 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:37 pm to
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All things being equal, women want an attractive partner too, but they value stability and security above attractiveness.

Bingo.
Posted by drizztiger
Deal With it!
Member since Mar 2007
37065 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:40 pm to
This seems like another alter troll post.

There are differences between women and men, but it really has nothing to do with OP.

Women are going for their highest plateau, but understand they have a safety net. Lots of leg-humpers as a fall back.

Men do the same thing, but in a different way.

I don't know what office you work in, but sounds terrible.
Posted by dexy82
Madison, WI
Member since Sep 2004
1820 posts
Posted on 7/27/22 at 7:44 pm to
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will gossip and talk about all of the things going on in some ugly dude’s life



Yeah, that doesn’t happen in my world
Toads are toads all over the world

To add to that
I try my best not to be shallow, but my seed wants to bust in some nice lookin’ guts

It’s science!!!!
This post was edited on 7/27/22 at 7:47 pm
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