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The ethics of sex reassignment: disclose or not?
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:28 am
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:28 am
Everybody is going to know about Bruce but thousands of indiscriminate transgender males get surgically reassigned with no pub. As I shared previously, my uncle did. Now here is the dilemma: should they disclose their birth gender to their sex partners? If they do it will no doubt change how many OTers view them and they will be no better off than before. The whole point was to get reassigned, but if they disclose then they are no better than going drag. However if they don't disclose upfront they may risk losing their chance at a long term relationship. Should they disclose or not?
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Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:30 am to rebeloke
Isn't the building block of any serious relationship honesty?
Not telling someone you were born another sex is a pretty big detail to leave out
Not telling someone you were born another sex is a pretty big detail to leave out
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:31 am to rebeloke
There is no such thing as sex "reassignment" no matter what liberal term is applied to it.
You are what you are no matter what some quack doctor does to your plumbing. You are what your mama and daddy made you from first breath to last breath.
Have a nice day!
You are what you are no matter what some quack doctor does to your plumbing. You are what your mama and daddy made you from first breath to last breath.
Have a nice day!
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:31 am to rebeloke
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However if they don't disclose upfront they may risk losing their chance at a long term relationship.
Oh poor them.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:32 am to rebeloke
If they don't disclose it, the first time they have sex will.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:33 am to rebeloke
Yes, you must disclose. I don't think it's a first date type disclosure, but at some point before it becomes sexual and/or relationship they need to know.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:35 am to Napoleon
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If they don't disclose it, the first time they have sex will.
I would think so. I feel pretty sure that any artificial pussy made by a plastic surgeon is not gonna look like a real one.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:35 am to rebeloke
obviously this is something you disclose if you are in a serious relationship
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:35 am to rebeloke
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rebeloke
Your avi's misquoted. Doc says "I'm your huckle bearer."
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:36 am to Jcorye1
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I don't think it's a first date type disclosure
frick that.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:36 am to Salmon
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obviously this is something you disclose if you are in a serious relationship
In any relationship.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:36 am to Jcorye1
Who knowingly sleeps with a surgically reassigned male? Not a gay man, they like men. Not a straight man, they would think that was gay.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:37 am to Pavoloco83
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I would think so. I feel pretty sure that any artificial pussy made by a plastic surgeon is not gonna look like a real one.
There was an episode of Nip Tuck like that.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:38 am to Napoleon
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There was an episode of Nip Tuck like that.
yep
"shallow" vagina
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:39 am to rebeloke
It's usually pretty obvious just looking at them
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:44 am to rebeloke
I know someone who was born female, but thanks to hormones and surgery, didn't remain there. (S)he is now married to what seems like a normal woman. (S)he looks like a guy if you don't scrutinize (has small hands, wrists) too many features. I don't know how the plumbing works (and don't want to), or what part of it is fully functional and what part isn't.
As a person - is nice enough; seems happy.
Whole thing creeps me out.
As a person - is nice enough; seems happy.
Whole thing creeps me out.
This post was edited on 6/4/15 at 8:45 am
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:44 am to yellowfin
Drunk truckers are worse than sci-fi fans about suspending disbelief.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:51 am to rebeloke
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should they disclose their birth gender to their sex partners?
100%
If someone has had the surgery and doesn't tell a partner, they are pieces of shite.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:53 am to rebeloke
"Gender reassignment" is a made up PC term and can't really be done. Your mom can have a dick sewn between her legs and give herself hormone shots til she's as hairy as your dad. But at the end of the day if she quits pumping herself full of testosterone then her body is going to make estrogen again because she still has the same "XX" chromosomes she was born with. She's not a man, she's a woman with two plastic balls dangling between her legs.
Posted on 6/4/15 at 8:58 am to rebeloke
They should absolutely disclose. Don't blurt it out upon introduction; but don't hide it for months either. I would be really pissed off if I wasted time and money on a few dates, had sex and then found out it was a dude. Probably fighting mad.
On the other hand, I also think I would be able to tell and would not even be attracted if we spent any time sober together.
On the other hand, I also think I would be able to tell and would not even be attracted if we spent any time sober together.
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