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re: The age(s) between 75 and 85/90 are the worst.

Posted on 6/5/23 at 8:34 pm to
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51461 posts
Posted on 6/5/23 at 8:34 pm to
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Breaking News...People near 90 have bodies that are braking down

How can you get it wrong once and right once separated by only eight words?
Posted by TigerCoon
Member since Nov 2005
22439 posts
Posted on 6/5/23 at 9:22 pm to
you gotta get busy and rage against the dying of the light, man.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39877 posts
Posted on 6/5/23 at 9:37 pm to
I work in a nursing home on a contract basis and the state of some of these people is so sad. It’s the reason that I may retire soon — seeing my possible future is sad and depressing.
Posted by Utah Tiger
Palm Beach, FL
Member since Sep 2005
1146 posts
Posted on 6/5/23 at 9:54 pm to
After triple bypass surgery in his 60's my dad became health conscious at the age of 80. He lost 90lbs by exercising every day and going on a keto diet. He is in the pool 30 min a day. Lift's weights and is out dancing every week chasing the blue haired beauties. He has a lot of energy and follows three health guru's on you tube. I am very proud of him.
Posted by 053wab
Charlotte NC
Member since May 2023
269 posts
Posted on 6/5/23 at 10:04 pm to
My uncle (dad’s older bro) was a mean MF, fat, and looked like he worked at the Bada Bing. He had stroke in his late 50s.

He changed completely. Cleaned up, got healthy, divorced his mean second wife… then went on a poon streak in his 60-70s that lapped his nephew (me in my 20s -30s). Played golf all the time, always was out and about.

After he hit 80, his hearing went and he started to slip. Died at 91.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
104041 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 2:05 pm to
My mother is 84. Three years ago she was driving, cooking, managing her own finances. She started slowly slipping a little, but she was still driving and cooking up until last summer. My dad had covid last August. He recovered and is fine, but the stress seemed to put her in a tailspin. She doesn't drive any more, there are days when she's really confused, and she has occasional hallucinations. A couple of months ago she didn't recognize me, thankfully that episode passed.. Other times she seems nearly normal, but sometimes it's really bad. She's having confusion pretty bad today. She got the news that the husband of one of her good friends died, and I'm sure it was upsetting. Anything out of the ordinary is a stressor, and it doesn't necessarily have to be bad things. Holidays and visits from family can stress her. For instance, Mother's day she got confused for a while.

She's had some TIAs and she also has epileopsy. I guess her meds and possibly subclinical seizures could be contributing to some of it. Her Dr. is reluctant to put her through a bunch of tests and I basically agree. IDK what good a diagnosis would do at this point.

My dad is 87, nearly deaf unless his hearing aids are in, has bad arthritis but mentally sharp and still drives and goes into work most days. He's doing well, but of course the situation with my mother is hard on him and I worry about that too.

I don't want to live that long.
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
109332 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 2:09 pm to
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Waited 8 months for a laminectomy and fusion. Had it in March. Doctor says post op x rays look great, but I can’t walk without a cane.



Go see another doctor, Clean.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
60555 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 2:23 pm to
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I got 20 years to go until I hit that but geez, that is kinda scary.


Getting old is not for sissies

FWIW, middle age starts around 32 and ends in your late 40's. Early old age starts around 48 and ends around 68. Late old age goes from there till you take the dirt nap.

Keep occupied (mind and body) but genetics play the biggest part.
Keep up with checkups and catch stuff early
Gardening is probably healthier than the gym, I do not know why
Make some friends 10 - 20 years younger now, sucks to be the last to go
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
7477 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 2:41 pm to
It is crazy how fast it happens. My parents and my wife's folks are all 75-76 years old and the change just over the past year caused me to change our outlook for the coming years. We will visit whenever we can, vacation with them when we can, never be too busy for them, etc etc.

Many of my friends have already lost parents, and this year has been rough. I wonder how much your body is impacted by the psychology of losing friends?
Posted by Eurocat
Member since Apr 2004
16314 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 2:55 pm to
Ozzy Osbourne said he was "feeling good" while leaving the hospital in a wheelchair with wife Sharon following his "major operation." Ozzy, who’s 73, later tweeted "I am definitely feeling the love and support from all my fans and send everyone a big thank you for their thoughts, prayers and well wishes during my recovery."
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
104041 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 2:57 pm to
A couple of my mom's friends are still getting around on their own, both driving and have little part time jobs. I admit being a little jealous when I see them. OTOH I can think of at most one or two other people my extended group of acquaintances that still have both parents living, so maybe a lot of people are jealous of me.
Posted by Eurocat
Member since Apr 2004
16314 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 3:14 pm to
Concrete Tiger -

That was exactly my point, thanks for saying you are seeing it as well. Stay strong.
Posted by Eurocat
Member since Apr 2004
16314 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 3:15 pm to
Jim, if I may ask, how old?
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
104041 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 3:15 pm to
Mom is 84. Dad is 87. I am 62.
Posted by CouldCareLess
Member since Feb 2019
3167 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 3:18 pm to
Is there a TD special board for people like you?
Posted by Eurocat
Member since Apr 2004
16314 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 3:19 pm to
Yeah that is more or less where I would be if they were alive, I'm 57. Stay strong.
Posted by Eurocat
Member since Apr 2004
16314 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 3:19 pm to
quote:

Is there a TD special board for people like you?


Excuse me?
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69585 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 3:19 pm to
I work as an occupational therapist at a nursing home full time

Getting old can suck. Especially if you can’t wipe your own a-hole
Posted by Eurocat
Member since Apr 2004
16314 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 3:20 pm to
That can also be a weight issue for some.
Posted by LookSquirrel
Old Millville
Member since Oct 2019
7646 posts
Posted on 6/6/23 at 4:05 pm to
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I maxed out my bench today at 275. I turn 51 this year. I weigh 185 and am 6’1 and in very good shape


Dammit, I did not intend to reply in this thread BUT, you had to describe "ME", when I was 55.

I was in the gym 4 or 5 times a week and loved it when the younger guys would comment that they hope they look like me when they are my age then.

Here I am at 68 and retired, with a Shotgun(s), a Rifle(s) and a 4-wheel drive. A nice home and other "Stuff", complete with a beautiful wife of 44 years and 2 fine sons, plus a granddaughter.

Old football injuries caught up with me in 2019, resulting in couple surgeries later and life is much different.

Geaux figure...
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