re: Someone explain "situationships" to me

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Men want purity. You marry a women that’s slept with 3-4-5-6 men good luck.

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I think that's a pretty normal and maybe even a low number for a woman in her 30's. And there's never a way to really know a person's body count with certainty because understandably sometimes people misrepresent that number.

Just my opinion.

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And there's never a way to really know a person's body count with certainty

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And that is a conversation to stay away from. On both sides.

men that are single in their 30/40's are either not mature enough to have gotten it together for marriage by then, or they're divorced and not ready to repeat that, so they're mostly just looking to get laid without commitment, but in general know that women aren't really down for that, so they "date without labels because we're too evolved for those" and
Women in their 30's are generally looking for commitment and don't want to be alone, so they are actively looking and fall for that no labels line because we've conditioned women to think that demanding matched effort makes them look desperate, and women that age still think they can change a man if they treat him well.

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And that is a conversation to stay away from. On both sides.

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I agree but I don't have a problem answering honestly when asked.

what up Lemmy

I'm pretty sure internet user georgia is a female, but regarding your response I think it is true more often than not based on my experience. Although it varies drastically depending on their personality.

Gone are the days of PawPaw/MawMaw love, high school sweethearts, and 50+ year marriages.

Its a shame that its slowly faded away, there needs to be a revival or reset, but hookup culture and the degradation of society has doomed the majority of the younger generations for finding love rooting on the foundation of God (it still happens however though, all is not completely lost)

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Women in their 30's are generally looking for commitment and don't want to be alone, so they are actively looking and fall for that no labels line because we've conditioned women to think that demanding matched effort makes them look desperate

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I think some women have been conditioned to push away men who put forth effort as "desperate", and instead find themselves attracted to men who string them along.

We can argue about the reasoning for that, but it's odd behavior for sure. It's counterintuitive to their goal of a stable and supportive long-term mate.