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re: So we went to pizzeria this eve and had the opportunity to get waited on by a tranny

Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:43 am to
Posted by Klark Kent
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:43 am to
agreed. common ground, you and i don’t find that often these days.

can we also assume the “line” will continue to move over the next decade or so?
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:46 am to
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can we also assume the “line” will continue to move over the next decade or so?


as in more acceptance? sure

and as long as they are not actively harming anyone and are able to perform their jobs effectively, I don't view that as a bad thing

Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:46 am to
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But easy enough for us to say right?

Let's say you're hiring a nanny and interviewing 3 candidates. You get to evaluate them on the phone and in person in an interview. One is trans. You can't spot a deficiency for the job during the process.

Is it rational to use bias in deciding against hiring them?
I’m not sure if rational is the right word, but it is probably a reflection of my own insecurities, biases, and laziness when I choose not to hire the tranny just because he/she is a tranny.
Posted by mmmmmbeeer
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:47 am to
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As a general rule? I’m not sure. I can’t think of a job off the top of my head.


I actually think there are a lot of jobs where professionalism trumps personal expression.

As an example, I was taking my daughter and her friend to school last year, both 15yo girls. Daughter gets a text from someone in class that Mr. SoandSo is wearing heels. Much to the chagrin of my daughter and her friend, who gave me hell for being "anti-trans", I was livid that this male teacher was wearing heels in class. I wasn't upset by him being trans or what have you, I was upset that his expression would clearly lead to an enormous distraction to students who are there to learn, not admire/disdain his choice in footwear.

The girls were clearly pissed at me and they made me feel like I was turning into an old, crotchety Trump guy. But I still believe that personal expression should be limited in professional environments. I wouldn't be cool with a straight female teacher wearing Daisy Dukes to class, nor a straight male teacher wearing skin tight jeans to highlight his junk. There's a time and a place.

A pizza place? Express yourself all you want unless there is a uniform mandate.
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:50 am to
I’d rather have great service from an LGBT than mediocre from a straight. I’d take more issue if a server had BO.

That said, the OP has every right to not patronize the pizza joint. Free country….
Posted by Codythetiger
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:50 am to
I wouldn't support mental illness either
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:50 am to
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as in more acceptance? sure

We can actually see the line move in real time. The tactic now, and in the future, is being accepting of these groups isn't sufficient. You have to be anti-racist, anti-transphobic, etc in order to achieve the perception of being "tolerant". So unless you're actively promoting these groups and trying to destroy everyone who disagrees with their lifestyles then you're a nazi.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:52 am to
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I like pizza too, but what do you do if you have your young children there with you who have never experienced such a thing when, as we all know, they are plenty perceptive enough to note an incongruity in the situation. Do you have "the talk" with them right there over pizza, even if the talk must necessarily include your voicing disapproval of the situation? Do you simply ignore it, knowing your children will likely be very confused over their observations? Or do you leave?
I guess it depends on how the kid is. I would assume that most young kids would probably just assume that they tranny was a really ugly woman
Posted by Ssubba
Member since Oct 2014
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:53 am to
I guess it's good OP left instead of staying and then not tipping.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:54 am to
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quote:
demand everyone else deal with it."
On some level we all have to learn to deal with people and their mental issues. This isn’ta whole lot different other than it looks a lot more strange outwardly.

It’s such a minuscule part of society, but as usual, we are letting politicians, cable news hosts, radio talk show hosts, etc. use it as a wedge issue for their own gain while dividing society more.


This is very, very different. Nobody has riotous marches for bipolar people. Nobody creates a nationwide campaign to protect schizophrenics and portrays them as the victim of hatred (when their victimization is largely within the community).

I strongly disagree on this being a mere wedge issue. Mandating that people accept you can change your sex is a litmus test for liberalism. "Trans people are bad" is not a hill worth dying on. "We've reworked science to allow for gender dysphoria such that it's not considered mental illness despite extremely high suicide rates, correlated issues, etc." is a hill worth dying on.

Truth matters. Not my truth or your truth, actual truth. And actual truth, as you seem to acknowledge, is that transgenderism is the product of mental defect. A society that not only lies about that but calls you a bad human being for saying that is much more than a wedge issue.
Posted by mmmmmbeeer
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:55 am to
quote:

We can actually see the line move in real time. The tactic now, and in the future, is being accepting of these groups isn't sufficient. You have to be anti-racist, anti-transphobic, etc in order to achieve the perception of being "tolerant". So unless you're actively promoting these groups and trying to destroy everyone who disagrees with their lifestyles then you're a nazi.


I think the "line" will stop moving when people just learn to stfu and accept others for who/what they are. Like, what, 2-3 years ago you had a rash of freaking "bathroom bills" that were the result of nothing more than straight anti-LGBTQ fearmongering. Hell, it's STILL a talking point on the right. Culture wars drive votes (left and right).
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:55 am to
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I’m not sure if rational is the right word, but it is probably a reflection of my own insecurities, biases, and laziness when I choose not to hire the tranny just because he/she is a tranny.



I don't know if it's rational either.

But I wouldn't judge a parent negatively for making that call based on information known, would you?
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:55 am to
exactly. but we won’t admit that in this thread.
Posted by Esquire
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:58 am to
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You missed the point completely, and I'm thinking willfully because you don't like crazy people being equated to other crazy people of a different flavor.


Except you aren’t equating them, I am.
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:58 am to
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accept others for who/what they are


unless they disagree with your beliefs, correct?
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:58 am to
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But I wouldn't judge a parent negatively for making that call based on information known, would you?
Probably not.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
85778 posts
Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:58 am to
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I think the "line" will stop moving when people just learn to stfu and accept others for who/what they are. Like, what, 2-3 years ago you had a rash of freaking "bathroom bills" that were the result of nothing more than straight anti-LGBTQ fearmongering. Hell, it's STILL a talking point on the right. Culture wars drive votes (left and right).



So when sensible people bend to the will of an aggressive group of people who demand the first group change their thinking, the line will stop moving?
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
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Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:59 am to
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“maybe trannies aren’t suited for this role/job”


Wet Nurse?


Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
137992 posts
Posted on 7/26/21 at 9:59 am to
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Truth matters. Not my truth or your truth, actual truth. And actual truth, as you seem to acknowledge, is that transgenderism is the product of mental defect. A society that not only lies about that but calls you a bad human being for saying that is much more than a wedge issue.

For the most part, "gender dysphoria" is an identical mental condition to anorexia. A person sees themselves in the mirror, is convinced they're severely flawed, and goes to extreme measures to change their body into the vision they have in their head. It's pretty insane to watch the medical world go to the ends of the earth in order to make this mental condition not only normal, but celebrated. It's also bizarre to watch them seek out and destroy anyone who opposes something as insane as giving a child puberty blockers.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
85778 posts
Posted on 7/26/21 at 10:00 am to
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Wet Nurse?



How dare you!

-Some people (seriously, such are the times)
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