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So I'm watching When Harry met Sally and I began to wonder

Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:25 pm
Posted by tduecen
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:25 pm
Is it really possible for men and women to be JUST friends without any sexual attraction as they mention in the movie. It seems for women that it can happen, but for men, they are usually going to be attracted to the woman at some point.

So what does the great and wise OT say

- Men and woman can be just friends
- Nah they end up fricking
- They quit talking
- The man gets put in the friendzone
Posted by LZ83
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:26 pm to
The last 3 of your 4 assessments are most likely.
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:28 pm to
quote:

Is it really possible for men and women to be JUST friends


NO.

Dude, it's clearly explained right there in the movie.

pay attention.





I mean look at Sally, tell me you don't want to bang her?

This post was edited on 7/27/18 at 3:29 pm
Posted by Slagathor
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Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:29 pm to
quote:

Men and woman can be just friends
until
quote:

they end up fricking




When she gets sick of him
quote:

The man gets put in the friendzone

and then eventually
quote:

They quit talking
Posted by MorbidTheClown
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:29 pm to
if one is hideous
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:33 pm to
quote:

if one is hideous


This is the correct answer
Posted by Displaced
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:35 pm to
False, the ugly one will always want to bang the other one.
Posted by idlewatcher
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:37 pm to
It's tough. 3 of my BFF's who were women got the shaft....literally.
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:38 pm to
quote:

So I'm watching When Harry met Sally


You have the Gay.
This post was edited on 7/27/18 at 3:38 pm
Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:39 pm to
You can be friends with a woman without the sexual tension if it’s a good friend’s girl and that’s your code, or if you’ve already banged her.


Otherwise the tension eclipses everything.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:40 pm to

quote:

It's tough. 3 of my BFF's who were women got the shaft....literally.





Rudy Ray Moore fricked them?
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:44 pm to
Do you hate great movies?
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:46 pm to
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False, the ugly one will always want to bang the other one.




Well sure, but they're too insecure to ruin the friendship by trying.
Posted by STLDawg
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Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:50 pm to
If they are both attractive they will frick. If the female is attractive, the guy will want to frick her. If she is not attractive, he probably won’t be her friend, but if he is he will want to frick her.
Posted by mikelbr
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 3:51 pm to
quote:

You can be friends with a woman without the sexual tension if it’s a good friend’s girl and that’s your code, or if you’ve already banged her.



You know my dearest gal pal. She's damned cool and attractive and I would never touch her. Granted, she's married to the Oregon State Streaker but we were friends for 10 yrs before that.

Posted by Funky Tide 8
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Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 4:03 pm to
I have many good friends that are girls that I haven't fricked. Most of them are very attractive. I would frick them if they asked, but I probably know too much about them at this point to want to date them.

Its not that hard to look at them as just people that I like and care about as friends instead of female frick dolls. There are other females for that.
Posted by TouchedTheAxeIn82
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Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 4:05 pm to
quote:

Is it really possible for men and women to be JUST friends without any sexual attraction as they mention in the movie. It seems for women that it can happen, but for men, they are usually going to be attracted to the woman at some point.

You didn't state it quite right. Harry's assertion was that if a guy is sexually attracted to a woman, he can't really be friends with her. And it's obviously true.

However I've gained a bit of perspective. I'm very close friends with an ex-girlfriend. I'm still attracted to her, but the vibe between us is "been there, done that" and there's no tension at all. So I think if you've already sampled the goods, you can indeed be friends even if you still find them attractive.


Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 4:06 pm to
quote:

Its not that hard to look at them as just people that I like and care about as friends instead of female frick dolls.


I could hear your fedora tipping when I read this.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 4:08 pm to
quote:

I could hear your fedora tipping when I read this.




Think what you want, bud, but most of them are people that I've known my whole life. Only a fricking dickhead would drop a long friendship just because they don't want to frick you.

also, it is an excellent tool in that I've gotten lots of arse via their various girlfriends.
This post was edited on 7/27/18 at 4:12 pm
Posted by EA6B
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Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 7/27/18 at 4:09 pm to
quote:

Is it really possible for men and women to be JUST friends without any sexual attraction as they mention in the movie


Only if one of the two are gay.

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