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re: Sister cried when I didn't want to hold her baby
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:31 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:31 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
you kind of suck at life
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:37 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
Children and babies are pure and a true gift in a shitty world. Sucks you miss out on the opportunity to feel true joy.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:37 pm to donRANDOMnumbers
my sister believes in emotional manipulation in order to trample people's personal boundaries regarding their bodily autonomy.
i should have asked her how she would feel if 15 years from now, her kid gets cornered by a classmate who starts touching him, and when her son says he doesn't want that, the classmate starts weeping and accusing her son of being rude for not letting his bodily autonomy be engrossed upon.
Because that's essentially what she did to me. Her kid can't even understand the world yet, and he is already being shown that personal boundaries and comfort zones don't matter if they make someone else upset.
This is how kids get molested by relatives. This is why teens end up in exploitative relationships with long-lasting trauma. That's how you end up with people in abusive relationships long into their 20s or 30s because they didn't know they could say no and protect their comfort zone and wellbeing. Because they're show time and time again that people's bodies are only theirs until someone turns on the waterworks, and then they're supposed to shut up, give up all their boundaries, and placate that person.
Is that what my sister wants to teach her kids? Really? That's what she's setting him up for? i'm not the a-hole. She is.
i should have asked her how she would feel if 15 years from now, her kid gets cornered by a classmate who starts touching him, and when her son says he doesn't want that, the classmate starts weeping and accusing her son of being rude for not letting his bodily autonomy be engrossed upon.
Because that's essentially what she did to me. Her kid can't even understand the world yet, and he is already being shown that personal boundaries and comfort zones don't matter if they make someone else upset.
This is how kids get molested by relatives. This is why teens end up in exploitative relationships with long-lasting trauma. That's how you end up with people in abusive relationships long into their 20s or 30s because they didn't know they could say no and protect their comfort zone and wellbeing. Because they're show time and time again that people's bodies are only theirs until someone turns on the waterworks, and then they're supposed to shut up, give up all their boundaries, and placate that person.
Is that what my sister wants to teach her kids? Really? That's what she's setting him up for? i'm not the a-hole. She is.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:41 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
quote:
my sister believes in emotional manipulation in order to trample people's personal boundaries regarding their bodily autonomy.
i should have asked her how she would feel if 15 years from now, her kid gets cornered by a classmate who starts touching him, and when her son says he doesn't want that, the classmate starts weeping and accusing her son of being rude for not letting his bodily autonomy be engrossed upon.
Because that's essentially what she did to me. Her kid can't even understand the world yet, and he is already being shown that personal boundaries and comfort zones don't matter if they make someone else upset.
This is how kids get molested by relatives. This is why teens end up in exploitative relationships with long-lasting trauma. That's how you end up with people in abusive relationships long into their 20s or 30s because they didn't know they could say no and protect their comfort zone and wellbeing. Because they're show time and time again that people's bodies are only theirs until someone turns on the waterworks, and then they're supposed to shut up, give up all their boundaries, and placate that person.
Is that what my sister wants to teach her kids? Really? That's what she's setting him up for? i'm not the a-hole. She is.
We get it. You're a loser and a weirdo. Just accept it and move on.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:44 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
I’m quite confident you have autism.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:46 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
Is your goal to die alone with nobody around you?
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:47 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
quote:
Idk, am I the a-hole here? Should I have sucked it up just because it's my nephew?
Nice to see you getting downvoted into oblivion.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:47 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
quote:Yes.
Idk, am I the a-hole here?
Damn dude.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:47 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
IMO, i bet you were both a-holes. You were probably rude about it but it was also shitty of her to try to force you to do something you don’t want to do then make a big scene about it. You both probably communicate poorly and i bet your parents did, too. I will agree with you that forcing physical affection is a bad idea, no matter the situation.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:48 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
After reading this, here's a scene from GLT24's adolescence:
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:49 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
I too don't care for children and babies. But you should be willing to hold your sisters child for a minute to make her happy
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:49 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
these threads always confuse me
like does everyone not know GTL's schtick yet?
or is everyone just LARPing here?
like does everyone not know GTL's schtick yet?
or is everyone just LARPing here?
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:55 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
quote:
GreatLakesTiger24
Why are you and your alter downvoting everyone that confirms you are an a-hole?
Don't ask a question if you don't want to know the answer.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:58 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
I'd love nothing more than to hold my infant children again.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 2:01 pm to Ignatius Reilly
quote:This
I'd love nothing more than to hold my infant children again.
The three types of worst dreams are those with now dead folks in them, those with my kids when they were young, or almost anything involving Arkansas.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 2:04 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
Even Scar pretended to care about his nephew to his brother & wife while Mufasa was still alive. You are definitely the a-hole.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 2:05 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
You’re an a-hole for sure
But your sister sucks too.
Post a pic of her so we can she just how bad.
But your sister sucks too.
Post a pic of her so we can she just how bad.
Posted on 12/1/21 at 3:45 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
Babies are gross. I have 4 kids...love them all.
But babies are still gross.
Especially someone else's babies.
Yuck....I think it's all the uncontrolled fluids.
But babies are still gross.
Especially someone else's babies.
Yuck....I think it's all the uncontrolled fluids.
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