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re: Sister cried when I didn't want to hold her baby

Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:31 pm to
Posted by donRANDOMnumbers
Hub City
Member since Nov 2006
17360 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:31 pm to
you kind of suck at life
Posted by Signal Soldier
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Member since Dec 2010
8551 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:37 pm to
Children and babies are pure and a true gift in a shitty world. Sucks you miss out on the opportunity to feel true joy.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59116 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:37 pm to
my sister believes in emotional manipulation in order to trample people's personal boundaries regarding their bodily autonomy.

i should have asked her how she would feel if 15 years from now, her kid gets cornered by a classmate who starts touching him, and when her son says he doesn't want that, the classmate starts weeping and accusing her son of being rude for not letting his bodily autonomy be engrossed upon.

Because that's essentially what she did to me. Her kid can't even understand the world yet, and he is already being shown that personal boundaries and comfort zones don't matter if they make someone else upset.

This is how kids get molested by relatives. This is why teens end up in exploitative relationships with long-lasting trauma. That's how you end up with people in abusive relationships long into their 20s or 30s because they didn't know they could say no and protect their comfort zone and wellbeing. Because they're show time and time again that people's bodies are only theirs until someone turns on the waterworks, and then they're supposed to shut up, give up all their boundaries, and placate that person.

Is that what my sister wants to teach her kids? Really? That's what she's setting him up for? i'm not the a-hole. She is.
Posted by MightyYat
StB Garden District
Member since Jan 2009
25029 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:41 pm to
quote:

my sister believes in emotional manipulation in order to trample people's personal boundaries regarding their bodily autonomy.

i should have asked her how she would feel if 15 years from now, her kid gets cornered by a classmate who starts touching him, and when her son says he doesn't want that, the classmate starts weeping and accusing her son of being rude for not letting his bodily autonomy be engrossed upon.

Because that's essentially what she did to me. Her kid can't even understand the world yet, and he is already being shown that personal boundaries and comfort zones don't matter if they make someone else upset.

This is how kids get molested by relatives. This is why teens end up in exploitative relationships with long-lasting trauma. That's how you end up with people in abusive relationships long into their 20s or 30s because they didn't know they could say no and protect their comfort zone and wellbeing. Because they're show time and time again that people's bodies are only theirs until someone turns on the waterworks, and then they're supposed to shut up, give up all their boundaries, and placate that person.

Is that what my sister wants to teach her kids? Really? That's what she's setting him up for? i'm not the a-hole. She is.


We get it. You're a loser and a weirdo. Just accept it and move on.
Posted by Van Wilder
Member since Jul 2014
248 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:44 pm to
I’m quite confident you have autism.
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22292 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:46 pm to
Is your goal to die alone with nobody around you?
Posted by aubiecat
Alabama
Member since Jul 2011
5883 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:47 pm to
quote:

Idk, am I the a-hole here? Should I have sucked it up just because it's my nephew?

Nice to see you getting downvoted into oblivion.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
126228 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:47 pm to
quote:

Idk, am I the a-hole here?
Yes.

Damn dude.
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2436 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:47 pm to
IMO, i bet you were both a-holes. You were probably rude about it but it was also shitty of her to try to force you to do something you don’t want to do then make a big scene about it. You both probably communicate poorly and i bet your parents did, too. I will agree with you that forcing physical affection is a bad idea, no matter the situation.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72899 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:48 pm to
After reading this, here's a scene from GLT24's adolescence:

Posted by Sneaky__Sally
Member since Jul 2015
12364 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:49 pm to
I too don't care for children and babies. But you should be willing to hold your sisters child for a minute to make her happy

Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85392 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:49 pm to
these threads always confuse me

like does everyone not know GTL's schtick yet?

or is everyone just LARPing here?

Posted by aubiecat
Alabama
Member since Jul 2011
5883 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:55 pm to
quote:

GreatLakesTiger24

Why are you and your alter downvoting everyone that confirms you are an a-hole?
Don't ask a question if you don't want to know the answer.
Posted by Ignatius Reilly
NOLA
Member since Nov 2015
153 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 1:58 pm to
I'd love nothing more than to hold my infant children again.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72899 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 2:01 pm to
quote:

I'd love nothing more than to hold my infant children again.
This

The three types of worst dreams are those with now dead folks in them, those with my kids when they were young, or almost anything involving Arkansas.
Posted by lowhound
Effie
Member since Aug 2014
9680 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 2:04 pm to
Even Scar pretended to care about his nephew to his brother & wife while Mufasa was still alive. You are definitely the a-hole.
Posted by p&g
Dixie
Member since Jun 2005
12995 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 2:05 pm to
You’re an a-hole for sure

But your sister sucks too.

Post a pic of her so we can she just how bad.
Posted by Roovelroe
Mandeville
Member since Jan 2005
4372 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 3:45 pm to
Babies are gross. I have 4 kids...love them all.
But babies are still gross.

Especially someone else's babies.
Yuck....I think it's all the uncontrolled fluids.
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
162878 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 3:46 pm to
sociopath troll.
Posted by mcpotiger
Missouri
Member since Mar 2005
8922 posts
Posted on 12/1/21 at 3:48 pm to
A Hole
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