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re: Single men over 30: how is your dating life?

Posted on 6/1/21 at 10:14 pm to
Posted by TheCurmudgeon
Not where I want to be
Member since Aug 2014
1481 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 10:14 pm to
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was shocked after watching some men hust show up and women naturally enoyed their company.

I found once I relinquished my standards droves of women flocked to me.


This is the key decision to make. Period, full stop. If you look for or want a connection, compatibility, or substance, you're sleeping alone again.

The world has become a shite place, 90% of people are shite people, and if you have values or standards or value taking care of the ones you love or can change a flat tire, no woman cares. Not a single bit.

Yes, part of the definition of a "man" is he stands on his beliefs even when it's against his personal best interest, but when it comes to having a bed warmer or something more intimate, forget about finding a woman under 40 who cares about anything of substance.
Posted by White Bear
probably
Member since Jul 2014
17615 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 10:19 pm to
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I’ve discovered rather mid- late in life that I really don’t like the company of women very much .
This is completely normal. The only reason straight men tolerate women is for sex or the potential thereof.
This post was edited on 6/1/21 at 10:20 pm
Posted by Reservoir dawg
Member since Oct 2013
15125 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 11:58 pm to
The world is fricked up, so that means that the emotional/mental state of women is even worse.
Posted by TigahJay
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2015
11391 posts
Posted on 6/2/21 at 12:22 am to
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massive narcissist who expects a Instagram perfect life at all times

Refuse to date these

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woman who bases her entire personality around loving coffee and disney movies

I have dated a couple of these unfortunately...
Posted by IT_Dawg
Georgia
Member since Oct 2012
26701 posts
Posted on 6/2/21 at 6:30 am to
ill take a 7-7
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
102095 posts
Posted on 6/2/21 at 7:32 am to
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We're still together.


Posted by R11
Member since Aug 2017
5479 posts
Posted on 6/2/21 at 8:20 am to
I’m 45.
Married for 14 years and it just fell apart about 2 years ago.

I didn’t want to start over at all, keeping family together was most important thing to me till I just could t anymore bc I was miserable and unhealthy.

Dated 4-5 different women since last fall mainly through dating apps. I didn’t realize how easy it was and how other women still like me.
I didn’t come across any of them that were too nuts, just they weren’t for me long term.

Met a woman at a party earlier this spring and it changed my life. I have full intentions of marrying her. We live an hour apart, so we-aren't together everyday, which is not a bad thing perhaps.
I didn’t realize women like her existed.
Our kids are same age and we both have careers. Hit it off like I’ve never experienced. It’s difficult at times to be patient but it worth it I’d like to believe.

Fwiw I was one of those guys that always said I’d never get remarried if I got divorced.

Yeah ok
Let the right woman come along you’ll do whatever she says.
This post was edited on 6/2/21 at 8:22 am
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
7477 posts
Posted on 6/2/21 at 8:22 am to
At over 30, you really should target someone in their 60s with fat bank accounts, nice house, etc. If they have no kids or estranged kids, bonus! You but in your 15-20, live large and hit the single market again in your 50s.

Plenty of lonely VPs out there that need companionship.
Posted by charminultra
Member since Jan 2020
2792 posts
Posted on 6/2/21 at 9:42 am to
"You're both better different... in a different but better way!" - Phil Weston, Kicking and Screaming (2005)
Posted by WhiskeyTangoFoxtrot
in the transfer portal
Member since Dec 2009
2473 posts
Posted on 6/2/21 at 7:47 pm to
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Doublebagger


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slaying beasts no man would dare


name checks out!

Posted by Horsemeat
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Member since Dec 2014
15494 posts
Posted on 6/7/21 at 8:01 am to
Dating women mid-30's and above is like playing russian roulette, you have no earthly idea what you're going to get until 3rd or 4th date. I've had women break things off with me because I have no kids, as if that's some sort of a flaw.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64350 posts
Posted on 6/7/21 at 8:02 am to
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Yeah ok
Let the right woman come along you’ll do whatever she says.


I don't want to be that guy, but you might want to check the Financials on that one. You should really know what you're hitching yourself to.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
72404 posts
Posted on 6/7/21 at 9:19 am to
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At over 30, you really should target someone in their 60s with fat bank accounts, nice house, etc.


But what if they want to... you know... do it?

Posted by redfish99
B.R.
Member since Aug 2007
19400 posts
Posted on 6/7/21 at 9:25 am to
Rent the pussy by the hour. Then just hang.
Posted by evatra
Denver
Member since Jun 2021
8 posts
Posted on 6/26/21 at 8:38 pm to
I am married for more than 5 years now. We took it to the next level recently and registered on swingers date site. It was a really important and necessary decision for us, cause when the sex life gets boring, the whole marriage is in a danger. Can't say it was easy for me at the beginning but the moment i am very happy and feel that our relationships became more intimate)
Posted by UKWildcats
Lexington, KY
Member since Mar 2015
19934 posts
Posted on 6/26/21 at 8:42 pm to
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But what if they want to... you know... do it?

Posted by BeachDude022
Premium Elite Platinum TD Member
Member since Dec 2006
36406 posts
Posted on 6/26/21 at 8:47 pm to
I’m 40. I’m either on fire or ice cold. There is no in between. Right now, I’m currently on fire. And when I say on fire, meeting a lot emotionally unavailable women from 23-45 that just want sex.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
38696 posts
Posted on 6/26/21 at 8:53 pm to
I find, and have posted about it here, that location matters. Houma is terrible as it is inundated with single mothers looking for someone to pay the bills. If I'm traveling it is like shooting fish in a barrel and I'm nothing to look at
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
42099 posts
Posted on 6/26/21 at 9:03 pm to
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I am married for more than 5 years now. We took it to the next level recently and registered on swingers date site. It was a really important and necessary decision for us, cause when the sex life gets boring, the whole marriage is in a danger. Can't say it was easy for me at the beginning but the moment i am very happy and feel that our relationships became more intimate

Posted by Bawcephus
Member since Jul 2018
2747 posts
Posted on 6/26/21 at 9:22 pm to
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when the sex life gets boring


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