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re: Single men over 30: how is your dating life?

Posted on 6/1/21 at 3:48 pm to
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58671 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 3:48 pm to
Thanks for the bump, Nick.
Posted by HogX
Madison, WI
Member since Dec 2012
5045 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 3:55 pm to
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As a recent divorced baw with grown kids I have no real intention of ever dating again. I’ve discovered rather mid- late in life that I really don’t like the company of women very much . I’m pretty psyched about my career, drinking whiskey with my friends, going to ballgames, traveling the world and hanging out with my dog though.


Right on.

I've been separated for 5 years or so now. The first couple of years I was very worried about dating and getting back into the scene. After a couple of....not great....experiences, I pretty much just said 'frick this' and just worried about myself and doing what I want to do.

It's been the best years of my life since then. Do your thing, baw.
Posted by charminultra
Member since Jan 2020
2528 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 4:25 pm to
Not Dallas unless you want a cake-faced, non-ambitious gold digger. If you're not jacked, rich, or both, you're fricked. and I'm a mid 20's guy
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
34810 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 4:28 pm to
I’m 40. It’s a shite show so I’ve quit. I just like to get laid and move on at this point in life.
Posted by squid_hunt
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2021
11272 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 4:29 pm to
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Guys I don't know what to say about all the professional women hate but this is what not dating a business woman just because she has a career sounds like.


If I wanted a roommate, I'd put out an ad. If you like business women, go for it. I'll pass, thanks.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
16484 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 4:31 pm to
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I've been separated for 5 years or so now.


Separated for five years? Still holding out hope to work it out one day?
Posted by HogX
Madison, WI
Member since Dec 2012
5045 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:04 pm to
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Separated for five years? Still holding out hope to work it out one day?


Poorly worded, 5 years since when we first separated. Divorced for like 3.5 years.
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
34810 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:07 pm to
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Not Dallas unless you want a cake-faced, non-ambitious gold digger. If you're not jacked, rich, or both, you're fricked. and I'm a mid 20's guy


Dallas def has a unique dating scene. I can’t even sum it up. It’s just...different.
Posted by Rocky Gamucci
Member since Sep 2019
110 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:16 pm to
honestly, in my 30s I have more opportunities with women than I ever did in my 20s, the period in which I was so thirsty. Paradoxically, it's probably because I quit caring so much.

It's like this video
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29451 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:24 pm to
I started typing up a long story about my latest experience in online dating but it's easier if I just say there are no words to explain how fricking crazy women are.
Posted by Doublebagger
Member since Mar 2021
960 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:30 pm to
Im a manlet below 6'. So im having trouble finding women. Ive been shilling for women my whole life and white knighting has not worked with the women I was naturally attracted to.

I was shocked after watching some men hust show up and women naturally enoyed their company.

I found once I relinquished my standards droves of women flocked to me.
And it was here I began to rebuild my life , jumping back into the fighting pits and slaying beasts no man would dare.

Who knows where it goes from here after all the battle scars. I keep hoping I will keep pushing and find my way towards the end of this unforsaken path.

Pray for me lads.
Posted by Bomont
Member since May 2021
975 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:36 pm to
and endless tacos y cerveza
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
29279 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:39 pm to
Pretty dry.

I can slowly feel the window closing as far as finding a soul mate . But I try to enjoy life and do what I want even though the loneliness sets every now and then and I see my peers and I sometimes feel like a failure .
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20098 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:43 pm to
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Pretty dry. I can slowly feel the window closing as far as finding a soul mate . But I try to enjoy life and do what I want even though the loneliness sets every now and then and I see my peers and I sometimes feel like a failure .

Went to a friends house few weeks back. He has kids running all over the place causing chaos, he told me he never sleeps, and is having trouble covering tuition and daycare. And his wife isn’t “classically beautiful”. Never been so happy to be single.
This post was edited on 6/1/21 at 5:45 pm
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
19214 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:44 pm to
Just stop trying

That’s the truth.
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:47 pm to
That's why I dream of north Carolina arkansas, Orlando, Tampa or Toronto
Posted by mytigger
Member since Jan 2008
14846 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 5:56 pm to
quote:

As a recent divorced baw with grown kids I have no real intention of ever dating again


Give it a minute. Your dick will start thinking for you soon enough.
Posted by goofball
Member since Mar 2015
16859 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 6:26 pm to
I hear it’s like shooting fish in a barrel in that age group. But some in this thread say otherwise.

Maybe it’s a regional thing.
This post was edited on 6/1/21 at 6:27 pm
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
6489 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 8:00 pm to
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honestly, in my 30s I have more opportunities with women than I ever did in my 20s, the period in which I was so thirsty. Paradoxically, it's probably because I quit caring so much.


That's because your 30's are when the Sexual Market Value proposition for men and women flip.
Posted by JustLivinTheDream
Member since Jan 2017
3496 posts
Posted on 6/1/21 at 8:52 pm to
I'm 30 and single. Dating just isn't worth it to me at this point.
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