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re: Should I be offended by an ex-girlfriend?
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:02 am to Warfarer
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:02 am to Warfarer
No need to be offended. Just post the link to her FB and the OT will straighten her story out. There are probably at least 6-8 OT posters that have given her a proper stretching in the past. Y'all can then swap stories aboot her.
Her deadbeat husband also posts here. Him and his mother DV'ed your OP.
Her deadbeat husband also posts here. Him and his mother DV'ed your OP.
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Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:12 am to Warfarer
I mean she sounds trashy af.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:18 am to Warfarer
It sounds like she doesn't even know what she defines as "a good man". If she has no idea what she defines as "a good man" then she's going to keep having trouble making a relationship commitment that isn't thrown into turmoil by her ex or some other guy. You don't need that drama.
Let her post be proof that you dodged a bullet.
Let her post be proof that you dodged a bullet.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:21 am to Warfarer
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My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago. We have stayed friends, for the most part, and still text from time to time
Stop this right now. Unless you still want to be with her, cut this out.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:21 am to Warfarer
Depends on who you want in control of your emotions. If you want to allow other people to control your emotional well being by all means be offended. On the other hand, if you are interested in being in control of yourself and your emotional well being it should be like water off a ducks back. She left you. It hurts but you can't control it, get on with life. Spend your time improving the things you can control and you will find, if you're honest, that you suddenly have no time to be offended by the words and actions of others that you can't control. It is far easier to spend resources on being offended than it is to focus on what you can control because the latter requires action on your part. Being offended is comfortable and easy, being in control of your emotions is a job but one that pays far better than the other...
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:25 am to Warfarer
If you care that she did not think you were good enough for her examine why. Were her expectations unreasonable or did you fail? If its the former, you can't control that. If its the latter, think of ways you are willing to improve. If there are none you simply weren't compatible other than physically which is not enough to sustain a relationship long. If there were areas you think you were responsible for clean that shite up next time around, if youre willing, and be thankful that she gave you a valuable lesson. The secret to happiness is to be happy, not offended. Its harder but it pays better.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:27 am to Beessnax
Also delete all contact information from your phone.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:28 am to Warfarer
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Should I be offended by an ex-girlfriend?
No, next question
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:28 am to Warfarer
Never go back never ever go back. Thats for her.
Man don’t read Facebook. People put that crap on there so others will feel bad for them. The only way that’s a shot at you is if she posted anything about the break up being your fault. If not…. Don’t read too much into it.
Man don’t read Facebook. People put that crap on there so others will feel bad for them. The only way that’s a shot at you is if she posted anything about the break up being your fault. If not…. Don’t read too much into it.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:28 am to Warfarer
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Should I be offended about this? I feel like all our friends in common have to think that I was the problem and that I treated her like shite when she posts things like this.
your first problem is giving a shite what insignificant people think about you.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:30 am to Warfarer
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God will send her a good man
So you’re saying you date black chicks?
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:32 am to Warfarer
I agree with everyone here! She did you a solid so take it and Run!! and when I say RUN I mean and don't look back!
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:33 am to Warfarer
Offended isn’t the right word. Relieved is the right word. Take a gander at the statistics on second marriages with kids.
God saved you.
God saved you.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:34 am to Warfarer
You should start by posting things on Facebook about finding a good woman who appreciates a strong man.
Basically everything she posts you should make it look like she is the problem.
Basically everything she posts you should make it look like she is the problem.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:35 am to Warfarer
This is the inherent bargain that is expected of men today, and it’s been carefully encouraged and promoted by social media and it is a clear message to all men and is reinforced as women repeat the “ no good men “ and “ bear or man “ narratives:
Expect nothing. Tolerate everything.
Expect nothing. Tolerate everything.
Walk away from this basic bitch . Dont worry about how it reflects on you because your boys already know how ridiculous modern women are. Go find a substantive woman who isn’t all over social media being current with the Lady cliches.
Expect nothing. Tolerate everything.
Expect nothing. Tolerate everything.
Walk away from this basic bitch . Dont worry about how it reflects on you because your boys already know how ridiculous modern women are. Go find a substantive woman who isn’t all over social media being current with the Lady cliches.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:37 am to Warfarer
Best way to get over one is get under another
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:38 am to Warfarer
Brah…
If you can’t handle her at her worst, you don’t deserve her at her best.
If you can’t handle her at her worst, you don’t deserve her at her best.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:41 am to Warfarer
Just a tip for you… if you’re dating someone old enough to have kids that are 9 and 6, then maybe you are dating women that are a bit older than you need to. It’s okay to date women in their 20s if you’re in your 30s. You have a wider dating age window than you think. You should use it.
This post was edited on 5/29/24 at 6:46 am
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:43 am to Beessnax
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1. Unfriend her on all social media
2. Stop talking about her
3. Find someone else to go out with
100% Scorched earth Policy is always best.
This post was edited on 5/29/24 at 7:01 am
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:45 am to Bullfrog
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If you can’t handle her at her worst, you don’t deserve her at her best
lol. Yeah. Another gem meant to reinforce what I suddenly realized is the current social media Lady message to men.
Expect nothing. Tolerate everything.
All responsibility on the man. And any sociopathic / bipolar behavior by her is really just a failure on his part. It’s a great system they’ve set up, isn’t it?
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