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She gave him an 'out' after her cancer diagnosis. 2 years later, they exchanged vows

Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:13 am
Posted by TechDawg2007
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She gave him an 'out' after her cancer diagnosis. 2 years later, they exchanged vows originally appeared on goodmorningamerica.com

When Jillian Hanson and Max Allegretti walked down the aisle on Friday, Oct. 18, the young couple wasn't just celebrating their future -- they were celebrating life itself.

In July 2017, Hanson was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer. Facing a diagnosis at just 25, she had no idea what to expect, but she knew it wasn't going to be an easy road.

She offered her boyfriend an "out."

(MORE: Bride with stage 4 cancer enjoys 'beautiful' wedding despite doctors' urging her to push up the date)

"I brought it to the table and told him this was going to be a lot," Hanson shared with "Good Morning America."

But Allegretti didn't flinch. Instead, he dropped everything to be by his girlfriend's side, making it his mission to be her rock and support her throughout the highs and lows.

Starting in October 2017, Hanson underwent chemotherapy at Memorial Sloan Kettering Monmouth hospital.


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Throughout it all, Allegretti was by her side and did his best to keep their romance alive.

"Even though it was hard for Jil to go out and have energy, I tried to plan little things here and there, surprises, going to the movies … just to normalize the situation," he told "GMA."

"They tell you how sick you get during treatment, but no one can really prepare you for any of this," Hanson wrote in a personal essay. "He took care of me everyday and reminded me how beautiful I was -- even as my hair thinned and fell out, and my skin turned white as a ghost."

On her last day of chemotherapy on Feb. 28, 2018, Allegretti had a surprise up his sleeve: a proposal.

(MORE: Bride shaves her head 2 months before her wedding to honor late mother who died from cancer)

"I was thinking about it for a long time," Allegretti explained. "I spoke with her family and friends, and we all decided it would bring a lot more joy even to the special day it was going to be already."

In video of the proposal, Hanson is surrounded by her nurses and family when Allegretti walks in and asks for her hand in marriage. She was shocked. When she replied "yes," the room burst into cheers.

"I wasn't expecting it; he made this big elaborate plan of the day," Hanson shared. "That was the ultimate high -- getting engaged brought great light to me after a really dark spot."




Posted by drexyl
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:15 am to
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Posted by Sentrius
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:15 am to
There's not many men alive that's strong and faithful enough to stick around in such a crappy situation like he did.

He must really love her.

Congrats to them.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:19 am to
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(MORE: Bride with stage 4 cancer enjoys 'beautiful' wedding despite doctors' urging her to push up the date)


Doctors are idiots. Women are a brilliant and smell nice.
Posted by Meauxjeaux
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:19 am to
If you're looking for true strong men in this world, there's one.

ETA: and her too. Kick the shite out of cancer.
This post was edited on 10/22/19 at 10:20 am
Posted by Booyow
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:21 am to
Must be some fiya pussy. She probably does butt stuff too
Posted by OysterPoBoy
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:22 am to
I think they took this from A Million Little Things.
Posted by Hogbit
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:23 am to
This was a nice thread....and then you showed up. Downvoted
Posted by LaBR4
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:24 am to
Great story.

This post was edited on 10/22/19 at 10:26 am
Posted by 50_Tiger
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:27 am to
Man no fricking lie, this shite gives me hope.
Posted by Sentrius
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:28 am to
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He must really love her.



Also, I'll add that it takes a hell of a woman to be willing to let a great man go when faced with such a diagnosis.

Putting someone else's own happiness ahead of hers and letting someone go can also be a great act of love and she demonstrated that here and proved why she deserves him.

What a great match those two are.
Posted by FearTheFish
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:28 am to
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Booyow
Why?
Posted by Booyow
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:31 am to
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thread....and


Did you seriously just use a 4 dot ellipsis?!?!?

Posted by Sentrius
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:31 am to
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Why?



Some people just can't get their mind out of the gutter and have to sexualize everything and anything for any or no reason at all.
Posted by brgfather129
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:35 am to
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Must be some fiya pussy. She probably does butt stuff too


Trying too hard here. Go take a lap.
Posted by Konkey Dong
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 10:39 am to
Man you're really trying too hard
Posted by Thracken13
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 11:00 am to
my now wife told me when we started dating, that she was at high risk for cancer, and we have been married 6 years now and together 9. her mom beat cancer 3 times, and her sister has beaten it as well. i told her i was in it for the long haul, and if she got it - we would fight it together.

Posted by idlewatcher
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 11:21 am to
Did someone leave the window open? Rain is getting in my eyes

Very cool story....bro.
Posted by SprintFun
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 11:28 am to
Awesome story - very inspiring
Posted by Space Cadet
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Posted on 10/22/19 at 11:30 am to
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If you're looking for true strong men in this world, there's one.


I don't know, I'll bet I could kick his arse.




But yeah, he seems like a good dude. Always nice to read a happy story.


But I could totally kick his arse.

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