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re: Serious sad thread, OT Divorced baws unite!
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:54 am to King Jaffe Foffer
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:54 am to King Jaffe Foffer
Keep your mind busy and not think about it
Sorry dude..it’s tough but time heals all wounds
Sorry dude..it’s tough but time heals all wounds
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Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:55 am to King Jaffe Foffer
One gear in life: forward
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:55 am to King Jaffe Foffer
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Any advice on how to do this other than the tried and true methods of booze and strange?
That’s the million dollar question and there really isn’t any good answers. Time is the only thing that makes it better. Don’t do anything stupid and try to make yourself better in the meantime. Be positive and know that at some point you’ll look back and really this had to happen to allow you to be in whatever happy and content place you end up. That day will come but you’re going to have some shitty ones in between.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:56 am to King Jaffe Foffer
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haven't even told our families yet
Can you get any pics of her out with her new man?
If you do then you got some leverage and then she looks like the arse not only to her family but single horny females you may know. You see where I am going with this
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:57 am to King Jaffe Foffer
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We haven't even told our families about being separated yet.
I’m not a divorcee, but I’d get that out of the way as soon as possible. This isn’t a negotiation with the Ex. Text her you’re letting the cat out of the bag, and she needs to as well. You’re shunning the people who will always be there for you, and that will help you more than anyone on this board can.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:58 am to King Jaffe Foffer
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I'm just looking for healthier coping methods than repressed rage, alcoholism, and failed attempts at picking up women in bars.
my bf went through a bitter divorce with kids involved
he got into hiking, joined a running club, and did things outside of his comfort zone
he met someone new a year later and couldnt be happier
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:59 am to King Jaffe Foffer
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Any advice on how to do this other than the tried and true methods of booze and strange?
Put your energy into something productive, particularly something in the self-improvement lane: new certification for work, the gym, finish a restoration, see a financial planner and plot out a new plan to be a trillionaire, yada yada yada
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:02 am to OMLandshark
I am still really close with all 9f my ex's family even though we divorced 9 years ago. More than with her family than the ex. I can't stand the bitch.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:04 am to FLBooGoTigs1
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I am still really close with all 9f my ex's family even though we divorced 9 years ago. More than with her family than the ex. I can't stand the bitch.
Well, this could still be the case on his end, but he needs to tell his side of the family about the divorce, and it’s her responsibility to tell her side of the family.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:05 am to OMLandshark
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You’re shunning the people who will always be there for you, and that will help you more than anyone on this board can.
The sad part is her family was always more "there for me" than my own.
I'm going to really miss spending time with her parents and all her cousins. Just great people all around.
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I am still really close with all 9f my ex's family even though we divorced 9 years ago.
How did you manage this?
Also, I may have a chance to make a big career move in a few months time, relocate to a new city not long after the likely divorce would be finalized. Has anyone on here ever done that? Started fresh in a new city after a divorce? If so, did it help or hurt?
This post was edited on 2/18/18 at 1:07 am
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:06 am to King Jaffe Foffer
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The sad part is her family was always more "there for me" than my own.
I'm going to really miss spending time with her parents and all her cousins. Just great people all around.
Well, FLBooGoTigs1‘s post should give you some sort of a hope, although I don’t know your situation well enough to know if it’s a good idea.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:07 am to King Jaffe Foffer
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I'm just looking for healthier coping methods than repressed rage, alcoholism, and failed attempts at picking up women in bars.
Don't let her take another minute of your life. Get rid of that anger
This post was edited on 2/18/18 at 1:08 am
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:13 am to FLBooGoTigs1
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Trust me she had that man for awhile now. Let her go and move on my man. Don't let her bring you down. Trust me it can be kinda fun watching her train wreck after the divorce. If you have kids take care of them first then take care of yourself next. Oh yeah hit some strange and you will be ok. Good luck
This. This. This. Same old story, only the names change. It happens all to often. Let her go and concentrate on you and your kids. Exercise does wonders for your physical and mental health in this situation. Good luck brother
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:14 am to King Jaffe Foffer
Starting fresh sounds good. My brother did this. He divorced after a few years of marriage and thankfully no kids were involved. Just keep this last marriage in the back of your mind and maybe fix some things that you can do to make the next one work. Remember you can control what you do not always what the other person does. Divorce is just a part sometimes of that shitshow we call LIFE. Find happiness and enjoy it married or not.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:18 am to RogerTheShrubber
Seen a lot of problems from parents, both divorced and non-divorced, with their kids. Just watched a family dealing with a 16 year old who has been charged with two felonies. Bleak situation... As a parent, you've got to get in front of this kind of BS.
Get over it, and be a parent for your kids and make them tow the line. Everyday. Kids need supervision, and they need a parent to show them how things should be done. The kids might act like you're an idiot, but that's your job. Embrace it, and coach them into how they can become responsible and productive adults.
Get over it, and be a parent for your kids and make them tow the line. Everyday. Kids need supervision, and they need a parent to show them how things should be done. The kids might act like you're an idiot, but that's your job. Embrace it, and coach them into how they can become responsible and productive adults.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:19 am to King Jaffe Foffer
Tiny wiener huh?
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:20 am to djangochained
I bet he’s more of a man than you, coward.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:21 am to King Jaffe Foffer
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It hurts like a motherf&%ker
I bet. Your still-wife is probably getting the deep D right about now, while you hang out with us. Also, how do you know? She told you? If so
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:21 am to Paul Allen
Speaking of little men, what’s up bitch
Posted on 2/18/18 at 1:24 am to djangochained
djangochained stop
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