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Serious sad thread, OT Divorced baws unite!
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:34 am
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:34 am
Wife and I have been separated for a few months.
Found out tonight she's going on her first date with a new man since we separated.
Other than alcohol and finding new strange, how have ya'll dealt with that?
It hurts like a motherf&%ker
Found out tonight she's going on her first date with a new man since we separated.
Other than alcohol and finding new strange, how have ya'll dealt with that?
It hurts like a motherf&%ker
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Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:35 am to King Jaffe Foffer
Any kids involved?
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:36 am to King Jaffe Foffer
I’d advise Ambien, going to sleep, and seeking a therapist.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:36 am to King Jaffe Foffer
Sorry.
Time to move on and forget about her.
Time to move on and forget about her.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:36 am to King Jaffe Foffer
If you ain’t at peace with God, you need to patch it up.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:37 am to King Jaffe Foffer
Trust me she had that man for awhile now. Let her go and move on my man. Don't let her bring you down. Trust me it can be kinda fun watching her train wreck after the divorce. If you have kids take care of them first then take care of yourself next. Oh yeah hit some strange and you will be ok. Good luck 
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:38 am to King Jaffe Foffer
Are separated with a chance of getting back together or are you separated awaiting for your divorce to become final?
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:38 am to King Jaffe Foffer
A date after being separated for only a few months? Dude, move on. She obviously stopped loving you long ago is she’s seeing someone already. Go find some young poon and spray her guts until you forget the bitch’s name.
Sorry about it all, baw. I hope you’re doing ok.
Sorry about it all, baw. I hope you’re doing ok.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:39 am to hottub
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Any kids involved?
No kids, thank god.
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Are separated with a chance of getting back together
I thought so, but I guess it's not anymore.
I know it would be a clean(ish) break and this has been coming for a while, but it still sucks. I really have been wanting to make this marriage work, but nothing I've done has been enough. I've tried to make the best of the separation, but I just don't see how this goes well for me in the short term.
I can look forward to maybe things being better in the future, but right now is an absolute b&%#h.
This post was edited on 2/18/18 at 12:40 am
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:41 am to King Jaffe Foffer
So she has already moved on why are you upset obviously she is not? Do something you couldn't do while you were married. Go see some titty's or go have a beer with some old friends etc.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:43 am to King Jaffe Foffer
I would put the bottle down and go to bed. Never been though it but if you were good to her and tried to make it work, you should sleep well at night.
She will learn very quick that the grass isn’t greener and will be begging to come back. At that time you should tell her to pound sand because you have moved on in life.
Best of luck.
She will learn very quick that the grass isn’t greener and will be begging to come back. At that time you should tell her to pound sand because you have moved on in life.
Best of luck.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:43 am to FLBooGoTigs1
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go have a beer with some old friends etc.
Did that last night. This was never something I was prohibited from doing.
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Go see some titty's
I would, but the titty bar selection in Zamunda leaves much to be desired.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:46 am to King Jaffe Foffer
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I would, but the titty bar selection in Zamunda leaves much to be desired.
Can't be worse than BR strip clubs
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:47 am to King Jaffe Foffer
I've never been through a separation or divorce and pray I never will, but if I was in your shoes I'd put that woman out of my mind as quickly as possible.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:48 am to Eightballjacket
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but if I was in your shoes I'd put that woman out of my mind as quickly as possible.
Any advice on how to do this other than the tried and true methods of booze and strange?
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:49 am to King Jaffe Foffer
My ex did the same. She saw greener pastures and I went on with my life and my kids. Twelve years of marriage I felt I wasted some good years. Hit the gym and move on. Plenty of dating sites and places to go to meet ladies. Honestly enjoy YOURSELF time there is plenty of time for another relationship when you want that. BTW how old are you? If you don't mind me asking
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:52 am to King Jaffe Foffer
no advice
just sorry youre going through a shite show because of a broad
just sorry youre going through a shite show because of a broad
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:52 am to FLBooGoTigs1
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BTW how old are you? If you don't mind me asking
late 20's.
Like I said, I know things should get better and I've got a lot in front of me and all that jazz, but it still sucks in the here and now. We haven't even told our families about being separated yet.
I'm just looking for healthier coping methods than repressed rage, alcoholism, and failed attempts at picking up women in bars.
This post was edited on 2/18/18 at 12:54 am
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:54 am to King Jaffe Foffer
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I really have been wanting to make this marriage work
Don't do this.
Enjoy your life and love your kids.
Posted on 2/18/18 at 12:54 am to King Jaffe Foffer
Bruh, time heals all wounds.
You will be better off it sounds.
Hang in there.
You will be better off it sounds.
Hang in there.
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