re: Serious sad thread, OT Divorced baws unite!

Hit the gym, eat healthy and you'll feel good and have more confidence. Don't drink more and over-eat because you're depressed. You'll just regret it and stay in a funk...plus you'll look like shite.

Meeting a new woman is the best way, hands down.

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I'm still thinking that's what canteen may have meant

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its a new world baw

just kiddin

meant best friend

but he is going to propose to his new girlfriend and they’re talking kids and a whole new life

life has a way of self correcting i guess

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Other than alcohol and finding new strange, how have ya'll dealt with that?

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Put the bottle down. Seriously. I went through something similar and started drinking a lot to deal with it and now I feel like I wasted a whole year of my life. What pulled me out was me trying to improve myself as much as possible. I got really in to the gym, fitness, went back to school, basically just being everything I knew I could be. Stay busy. If you have too much free time there are plenty of ways to volunteer your time.

Dude it's over, time to move on. Sounds like you did all you could do. Time to start looking out for #1. Close out any joint bank or credit card accounts you have. Hide any assests you can. Don't look for answers at the bottom of a bottle. Keep your mind and time occupied. Maybe get a second job. Go out on some dates, maybe you will find someone else.

Here's one to make you feel better.

Caught my wife of 23 years sleeping with another man. Caught her at his place once and GPS tracked her to his place a second time.

I went a solid month trying to get her to go to counseling and to work on our marriage. We have three kids ages 20, 17 and 14. She was cold as a stone. I knew it was over but it hurt like hell.

After losing 14 pounds and not sleeping for a couple of weeks, I finally decided I was done. She had left the house so I turned her phone off and told her good luck. I knew she didn't have a pot to piss in and the guy she's seeing is going through a divorce himself with two very young children.

She showed back up about 5 days after leaving, broke. Said her truck had broken down on her and that she had the right to stay in the house until we legally separated. Now if you think going through this shite is tough under normal circumstances, try doing it with a cheating whore living under the same roof with you.

My kids hate her. We live in a small town and everyone has found out about. My 14 and 17 year old want to live with me. Do what I did. Get an attorney, protect yourself, lose some weight, start exercising, eat right, quit drinking and hit every piece of young arse you can find.

I'm happier know than I've been in probably 10 years. Good luck.