Favorite team:St. John's
Location:Zamunda
Biography:I tied my shoes once. It was an overrated experience.
Interests:Sowing thine royal oats
Occupation:Supreme Ruler of Zamunda
Number of Posts:13
Registered on:12/18/2017
Online Status:Not Online

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You’re shunning the people who will always be there for you, and that will help you more than anyone on this board can.


The sad part is her family was always more "there for me" than my own.

I'm going to really miss spending time with her parents and all her cousins. Just great people all around.

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I am still really close with all 9f my ex's family even though we divorced 9 years ago.


How did you manage this?

Also, I may have a chance to make a big career move in a few months time, relocate to a new city not long after the likely divorce would be finalized. Has anyone on here ever done that? Started fresh in a new city after a divorce? If so, did it help or hurt?
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BTW how old are you? If you don't mind me asking


late 20's.

Like I said, I know things should get better and I've got a lot in front of me and all that jazz, but it still sucks in the here and now. We haven't even told our families about being separated yet.

I'm just looking for healthier coping methods than repressed rage, alcoholism, and failed attempts at picking up women in bars.
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but if I was in your shoes I'd put that woman out of my mind as quickly as possible.



Any advice on how to do this other than the tried and true methods of booze and strange?
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go have a beer with some old friends etc.


Did that last night. This was never something I was prohibited from doing.

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Go see some titty's


I would, but the titty bar selection in Zamunda leaves much to be desired.

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Any kids involved?


No kids, thank god.

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Are separated with a chance of getting back together


I thought so, but I guess it's not anymore.

I know it would be a clean(ish) break and this has been coming for a while, but it still sucks. I really have been wanting to make this marriage work, but nothing I've done has been enough. I've tried to make the best of the separation, but I just don't see how this goes well for me in the short term.

I can look forward to maybe things being better in the future, but right now is an absolute b&%#h.
Wife and I have been separated for a few months.

Found out tonight she's going on her first date with a new man since we separated.

Other than alcohol and finding new strange, how have ya'll dealt with that?

It hurts like a motherf&%ker :banghead:
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Prince Hakeem's run was short. 238 posts in 8 days. At least 4 avi changes.


My son posts! AND WAS BANNED!!!!?
My duties bring me to the capital, they do not mandate my squiring about town experiencing its pleasures. Such conduct is done by and for my own furtherance alone.

However, if we could proceed from petty bantering about semantic affairs and instead focus on the task at hand, locating a suitable establishment for merriment suitable for an evening's entertainment, it would be most appreciated.
We is only used in the royal context when in reference to affairs of state decided upon by the King in furtherance of his kingly duties. As a monarch acting in his personal capacity in furtherance of a purely self-furthering agenda divorced from the affairs of state, I is the more appropriate first person pronoun.
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El Cid is nice to go to this time of year


The El Cid is a residential complex, not an establishment for recreation and socialization. I will not suffer your insolence any more than necessary. I suppose you wish to challenge me to some form of fisticuffs at a local eating establishment named after a small, spiny mammalian.
What establishments should I frequent on a night such as this so as to further my cause in sowing thine wild oats?

re: Old Toys....

Posted by King Jaffe Foffer on 12/20/17 at 8:54 pm to
What's that light blue beauty next to the jeep?