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re: Sensitive topic: does anyone here have a family member they legitimately hate?

Posted on 4/8/15 at 6:54 pm to
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 6:54 pm to
I don't, but my dad had a cousin who basically mooched off of everyone in the family and it pissed my dad off. He would call up my grandma and try to get money out of her (she never gave him any). He was a deadbeat dad and an all around crappy person. He died a few years ago, though.
Posted by HarryBalzack
Member since Oct 2012
16229 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 6:57 pm to
My sister-in-law is a pox upon society, as is my youngest sister.
Posted by AmosMosesAndTwins
Lake Charles
Member since Apr 2010
19013 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:16 pm to
My brother's wife is an abhorrent a-hole sprinkled atop mother fricking count stuffed with homemade bitch. My family is only trashy because she married into it.
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
60419 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:18 pm to
I learned a long time ago that when you truly hate someone, it bothers you a whole lot more than it bothers them...

now, I am not not a dumbass and once someone does me wrong, I am pretty much done with them...however, I typically try to keep from being particularly bitter at anyone for very long....
Posted by Dirty Don
Zachary
Member since Apr 2014
527 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:24 pm to
Yes, my mother. She abused me and my brother when we were 9 and 11 as a way to get back at my father for leaving her. I haven't spoken to her in years. Her death will bring no tears to my eyes
Posted by Pax Regis
Alabama
Member since Sep 2007
14821 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:27 pm to
Father in law. List of grievance is too long but sum it up like this: lazy, government dependent whiner who complains constantly about how the government and the American taxpayer isn't taking good enough care of him. Ironically he hasn't filed a tax return in about 20 years. Not hasn't paid taxes mind you - hasn't even filed a return.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:29 pm to
Yes, she has a bunch of mental illnesses. She is very fricked up in the head and cannot survive in society. Unfortunately, she always looks for a scapegoat to her actions.

Ex: Parents sent her to a $20k/yr high school. She didn't go to school most of the time. They continually told her that she had a minimum number of days needed to pass the semester. She got booted for attendance her senior year, and blamed it on both my parents and the school. She tells people that she graduated and acts like it, but she got her GED.

My parents then donated money to College of Charleston to get her in, and she supposedly "graduated" in two years. My dad went up to move her out when she was done. She hadn't packed a single thing and was sleeping when they got there. They got into an argument about it and she drove back to New Orleans....leaving my parents to pack and move every bit of her things.

My aunt owns a big art gallery in New Orleans. My sister's "degree" is in art management or some shite. Both my dad and aunt tried to get her to work there, but gave up after six months of her not returning calls.

She hasn't worked anywhere longer than a month her entire life. She gets fired for not showing up
This post was edited on 4/8/15 at 7:32 pm
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27574 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:30 pm to
Cousin is a meth head. He is just a cousin so "hate" is strong as he has no direct impact on my life.

He is slowly killing my aunt though. Her husband died young so her life is already ruined. Now all she has to look forward to is this frick bleeding her dry. poor woman probably prays that she dies before he does.
Posted by Dorothy
Munchkinland
Member since Oct 2008
18154 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:33 pm to
Some of these stories are so sad, it makes me want to encourage some of you to just move past the bitterness and let it go. It's not worth it to waste your time on these people. That's easy for me to say from behind my keyboard though.

That being said ( ), my stepmother is an absolute bitch who nobody but her selfish spoiled son will miss when she dies. I haven't spoken to her since my father's funeral over 10 years ago; since she had her son call me and threaten me, we have only communicated through lawyers.
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
66447 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:36 pm to
Damn, man. My sister has some alcohol issues, was coddled too much, and has come close to bringing us all down with her, but she generally has a good heart. This thread is depressing.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:37 pm to
quote:

it makes me want to encourage some of you to just move past the bitterness and let it go. It's not worth it to waste your time on these people
Hard to do when you are constantly put in situations where you see them.

I just ignore the bitch. When she talks to me, I never acknowledge or answer. Half of the time, she'll flip out because of it and cause a big scene, and half of the time she'll flip out and just curse at me. When she causes a scene, people leave the house....even at parties. She'll just turn and start ripping into random people who are in the other room
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
295413 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:37 pm to
Don't let no one make you hate.
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:44 pm to
I've got an uncle that i wouldn't say I hate, because I don't actively think about him. I really don't what happens to him, but feel bad because his kids seem to have grown up to be relatively good people.
Posted by AUin02
Member since Jan 2012
4526 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:53 pm to
Uncle. Haven't spoken to him in 17 years. When my grandmother was in a car wreck and had to be put in a nursing home as a result he emptied her bank accounts, said she owed him. He straight up stole from and abandoned his mother over money he didn't even need.
Posted by geauxjuice
t(-.-t)
Member since Jan 2007
4338 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 7:57 pm to
i have a super douchey cousin who gets a bunch of DUIs and treats women like objects. he also fronts like he's a hard-working good ol' boy (wears work boots, drives a pick up etc) but he's really a secretary.

have a love/hate relationship with my father. he was absent my entire childhood trying to play music that no one wanted to hear but now he tries to guilt me into visiting him to make up for lost time. recieved absolutely 0 support from him growing up.
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 8:01 pm to
POS father in law never had paid child support for nine kids three different families with no father figure. Once tried to gain sympathy from wife's grandparents so he faked having cancer. Piece of shut skim of the earth faked having cancer!!!
Once called my brother in law said he will come pick him up to go to the LSU football game. A thirteen year old boy is standing by the door all day waiting for his "dad" to pick him up. Halftime that little boy is still waiting at the door. He looks at me "my dad isn't coming is he?" No buddy he's not. frick that dude!!! I hate him with extreme passion
Posted by Captain Lafitte
Barataria Bay
Member since Nov 2012
6528 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 8:37 pm to
Yeah, a couple of cousins I like to disown.

A second cousin who would sue anyone although he is at fault. My dad hates him more since they're about the same age and knows a lot more about him than I do. Everything he gets his hands on turns to shite. His mother was a cook at my high school and she had two rental homes to supplement her income and he fricked up those. SOB is dirty both morally and hygienically.

A first cousin that's damn childish, self-centered bitch. Especially causing a scene at her brother's funeral who was KIA in Baghdad and had a wife and three very young boys. A lot more shite I could get into but I don't feel like getting into.
This post was edited on 4/8/15 at 8:40 pm
Posted by boddagetta
Moulton
Member since Mar 2011
10059 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 8:56 pm to
I don't hate my little brother, but I basically have no use for him. He's screwed me over one too many times over the years including one time a few years ago that is completely unforgivable. I haven't spoken to him in over a year.

Last time we talked he cussed me out because I wouldn't let him borrow my boat so him and his buddy could go fishing. He's gotten a couple of DUIs and also wrecked multiple vehicles while drunk where he didn't get a DUI charge. No damn way I was letting him go anywhere with my boat.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
175692 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 9:02 pm to
I'm surprised no one said their wife.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
125829 posts
Posted on 4/8/15 at 9:05 pm to
quote:

I wouldn't slow down if I saw my bow legged aunt crossing the street.
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