re: Relationship help

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You know how I know she’s fat?

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Cuz there is no pics?

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how much of a head case am I being? I feel as if I’m being self destructive due to my previous relationship’s problems.

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Part of it could be that you're not ready for any relationship yet. Part of it could be that you're insecure, so you're trying to push her away before she pushes you away. Part of it could be that you know that you don't really like her, but you just can't pinpoint the big reason why.

In any case, this relationship probably isn't going to work out. I would recommend being open and honest with her about what you are feeling and what you are thinking with her. It may turn out that your issues are rooted in misunderstandings that can be easily cured, or it may be revealed that the two of you have serious compatibility issues. Either way, both of you will feel better after talking it out whether or not the two of you go your separate ways.

You thinking of the old chick while banging this new chick? Sounds like you need to be honest with her. Tell her you feel she’s a person you want to live out your wildest perverted fantasies. Get it all out of your system so you can find a nice new girl

Honestly... You always project the bad shite on the new person.

It is what it is.

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the type that would bend over backwards for me

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He ain't lying.

She bent over backwards for me too.

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She did that for some of us, too. It was aight

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I should have read further.

I can't believe I stole this douche's joke.

It's official; I'm a douche. I'm prolly the last one to find out.

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I agree man. that’s definitely part of the problem. it’s hard when the ex does nothing but try to weasel back in

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This is the 14th to oldest trick in the book. She wants you to hit it, not because she wants you, but because she wants to ruin your new relationship. She will make damned sure your new girl finds out that you hit that 4 days ago.

You trusted her, she stomped on your heart, and you are considering letting her back in. The fact that you are letting her ruin your new relationship makes me wonder if the window tastes worse with fresh Windex when you lick it?

Walk into the bathroom. Look in the mirror. Say to yourself, "I'm a loser asking relationship advice from strangers on a message board."

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I know i’ve come to the right place. I got out of a long term relationship recently (no pics) and begun dating someone new (no pics). Everything has been great and she is the type that would bend over backwards for me. I have done nothing but find small things to cause problems. I consciously feel as if I don’t want problems with this girl although it seems I cause nothing but problems. I need to ask the OT.. how much of a head case am I being? I feel as if I’m being self destructive due to my previous relationship’s problems.

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1. How long of a relationship did you have with your ex?
2. How long between your breakup with the ex and beginning something with this new gal?
3. Why did you and your ex break up?

You're doing this because you feel like you're better than her or deserve better than her. You're probably constantly comparing her to your ex which in itself is stupid because well, shes your EX....Do yourself a favor and your current girlfriend an even bigger favor and find a way to end the relationship amicably. You'll never be happy with her if you're not happy now....