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re: Relationship Advice / PI Recs?

Posted on 9/24/21 at 2:10 pm to
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
2960 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 2:10 pm to
At this point does it really matter if she is cheating or not? Let’s say you pay a bunch of money and find out she isn’t cheating and is now just a sketchy, absentee, celibate OT 8? Where does that leave you?

If this is how things are now, WTF do you think its going to be like if you marry her?

Bail.
Posted by Stiles
Member since Sep 2017
3454 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 2:22 pm to
quote:

She's ensured me there's nothing wrong, but again, things still feel off to the point where I think there could be another guy. Obviously she has denied this when confronted.

Oh yeah, you’re on the right track. Always believe what a woman says, never how she acts.

quote:

Does anyone have any advice?

Yeah, it’s a horrible idea. Deep down, I think you know it too and are just trying to hear options rather than following your instinct.

Quit putting the pussy on a pedestal, save the money not getting a PI, and give her 2 weeks notice to get her shite out. I would even offer to help to get her out faster.

Sadly, with all the advice given here, and your gut telling you what to do, you won’t do it.
Posted by maisweh
Member since Jan 2014
4222 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 2:28 pm to
She belongs to the street now
Posted by Vade95
Da Parish
Member since May 2020
53 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 2:29 pm to
This must be a troll but I hope it isn’t.
This post was edited on 9/24/21 at 2:32 pm
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
32101 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 2:29 pm to
I have literally the best advice in the world to give in this situation, but it does us no good unless there are pics of said gf involded.
Posted by Guido Merkens
Member since Mar 2006
4362 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 2:30 pm to
Whether she is cheating or not, run away.

She is not into you.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
46663 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 2:43 pm to
quote:

I've been thinking about hiring a private investigator to follow around to put my concerns to rest

YES
quote:

Does anyone have any advice?

PUT A GPS TRACKER ON HER CAR
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6453 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 2:45 pm to
quote:

About 6 months ago my gf (no pics but she's about an 8 lol) moved into my house, where we have been living together full time.

We dated for about 3 months before the move but she got kicked out of her parents house (long story) and we decided it was time to take the plunge to cohabit.


Well that's not going to end poorly
Posted by AlexBillings
Member since Jul 2019
23 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:01 pm to
Thanks for all of the advice guys! She is away on a bachelorette trip (go figure) this weekend, but I'm going to text her, and tell her we need to talk when I get off work Monday. Pray for me, and I'll try to post an update soon.
Posted by Nguyener
Kame House
Member since Mar 2013
21057 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:05 pm to
quote:

She's been staying away at "friends" houses for "girls nights" at least one night a week, and goes for "walks" for like 2 hours at a time, sometimes a few times a week. All of this paired with a decreased drive has my head really spinning.. The secks has become less and less frequent


quote:

being used. I pay for the entire house, utilities, groceries, meals out. Everything. I just feel like there has to be more to the story.


She’s cheating on you, she has no respect for you, she talks about you behind your back constantly, and you’re nothing more than a meal ticket at this point.

Ask her to split the bills and I bet she dumps you in less than a day.

If I was you. I’d change the lock on the door and when she tries to get in text her “Nah, fam. We done. Pick up ya shite at goodwill.”
This post was edited on 9/24/21 at 3:08 pm
Posted by Nguyener
Kame House
Member since Mar 2013
21057 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:09 pm to
quote:

she got kicked out of her parents house (long story)


I’ve got nothing but time. Go ahead.
Posted by TchoupitoulasTiger
NOLA
Member since May 2011
1298 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:11 pm to
quote:

give her 2 weeks notice to get her shite out.


If he does do this then he needs to get everything valuable out of the house. From my experience… might want to set up a camera or two inside of the house just to cover your arse.
Posted by saturday
Pronoun (Baw)
Member since Feb 2007
7786 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:11 pm to
My frick buddy lives with her boyfriend because she got kicked out of her parents house. I kind of feel bad for her boyfriend but he sounds like a chump from what she says about him


Edit: it can't be your chick bc you say she's an 8, the chick I'm talking about is a 5 tops
This post was edited on 9/24/21 at 3:13 pm
Posted by Mottleduk
Moss Bluff
Member since Nov 2009
561 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:12 pm to
Dodge this bullet now and thank yourself later. This chick isn’t even close to doing all of the sketchy shite she’s capable of. The absolute worst thing you could do with a broad like that is put a ring on her finger. She’ll really turn into a dick magnet, then. Save your money. These bitches ain’t loyal.
Posted by CFDoc
Member since Jan 2013
2244 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:17 pm to
I mean, how many red flags do you need? You’re at at least a baker’s dozen or so right now.
Posted by KTShoe
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2020
535 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:22 pm to
Why would you text her and not wait till she is back to talk? You’re only going to make things worse especially if there isn’t anything going on. That’s something an insecure college kid would do.
Posted by USMEagles
Member since Jan 2018
11811 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:24 pm to
It's possible she's avoiding sex because recent activities have caused some sort of noticeable change in her vaginal biome.
Posted by bbarras85
Member since Jul 2021
2336 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:29 pm to
quote:

She is away on a bachelorette trip (go figure) this weekend


I don't even know what to say to this.

She's getting railed this weekend by random dudes....facts.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88780 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:30 pm to
OP has to be a troll
Posted by RoscoeHarper
Edmond, OK
Member since Aug 2011
4930 posts
Posted on 9/24/21 at 3:31 pm to
Change the locks while she's gone.
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