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re: Really need to vent, I'm in a dark place
Posted on 11/13/19 at 8:28 pm to OGJangalang
Posted on 11/13/19 at 8:28 pm to OGJangalang
sounds like this is what you wanted.
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Posted on 11/13/19 at 8:41 pm to Mud_Till_May
Sounds like she’s banging a coworker
Posted on 11/13/19 at 8:51 pm to OGJangalang
I’ve been there. 3 years and going. Nowhere to go but up.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 8:56 pm to Celery
Life sucks sometimes man. We all need help at times. Find a men’s group or support group or therapy. Making big changes in life begins in taking daily small steps. We are praying for you, keep us updated.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 8:59 pm to OGJangalang
I urge you to check yourself into a detox facility or in-patient addiction treatment center now. If not, you may just fall deeper into a dark place from which you may not survive. Get sober and then try cleaning up the mess that you’ve created starting with your family. Best of luck to you. It won’t be easy, but you have to decide what’s truly important to you.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:05 pm to Drury01
He doesn't need a detox center. In the movies they just sweat it out in bed one night, then they're good as new.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:05 pm to I B Freeman
quote:
What to do with people?
U let them become homeless and hope that is their rock bottom. Some straighten up...others live and die homeless in the streets.
This post was edited on 11/14/19 at 9:23 am
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:05 pm to OGJangalang
Well at least you had peace and quite to watch the game.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:13 pm to OGJangalang
Coming from a person who has lost it all and had to fight to get it all back, sparing the details.
Stop and think about what is really important. You have a kid(s) imagine not seeing them again, or hell not as much.
Stop and think about what is really important. You have a kid(s) imagine not seeing them again, or hell not as much.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:15 pm to OGJangalang
Praying and thinking of you, positive things happen to positive thinkers.
Always remember, if you are still breathing, you're in the game, it's not always sunshine and rainbows out there.
While there's life, there's hope.
Always remember, if you are still breathing, you're in the game, it's not always sunshine and rainbows out there.
While there's life, there's hope.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:17 pm to OGJangalang
You aren't alone.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:17 pm to OGJangalang
quote:
My wife had taken my children and left.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:20 pm to OGJangalang
Redemption is possible. I’m seven years sober and I dominating right now.
I’ve got the family back, I’m making half of 350 and I’m content most days. I don’t feel the need to create suffering for myself any more.
I’ve got the family back, I’m making half of 350 and I’m content most days. I don’t feel the need to create suffering for myself any more.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:21 pm to OGJangalang
quote:
Take this as your wake up call
To truely kick an addiction you usually have to hit the bottom.
Fighting addiction is seriously the thing I'm most proud of in my life. Nothing was more difficult.
You don't see the end, don't even know what direction to go in for change. But you know the positives, no matter how small. Just keep moving towards the positives.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:21 pm to OGJangalang
First, stop drinking. Get your mind right and decide that you are fricking done with alcohol. Join a gym for the evenings and get yourself jacked. Get a second job so you have plenty of extra cash.
Now realize your wife and kids are gone, but there are tons more out there that are better than the ones that left you. Upgrade on the mom then call the new kids whatever you called your old ones. Tell them it is just nicknames and it will help with the bonding.
The most important part is to ban yourself from booze, get physically shredded at the gym, and put away a ton of cash by year's end. Then, find the new woman and kids. By waiting until January, you can miss all the expense of buying them a bunch of Christmas crap.
And last, come back in a year and start this thread again. See how many fall for it next year.
Good luck.
Now realize your wife and kids are gone, but there are tons more out there that are better than the ones that left you. Upgrade on the mom then call the new kids whatever you called your old ones. Tell them it is just nicknames and it will help with the bonding.
The most important part is to ban yourself from booze, get physically shredded at the gym, and put away a ton of cash by year's end. Then, find the new woman and kids. By waiting until January, you can miss all the expense of buying them a bunch of Christmas crap.
And last, come back in a year and start this thread again. See how many fall for it next year.
Good luck.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:22 pm to Vastmind
quote:love this.
Redemption is possible. I’m seven years sober and I dominating right now.
I’ve got the family back, I’m making half of 350 and I’m content most days. I don’t feel the need to create suffering for myself any more.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 9:53 pm to shamrock
How do y’all know his addiction ain’t porn or other dudes? Lots of assumptions up in here
Posted on 11/13/19 at 10:03 pm to OGJangalang
Don’t know about other posters, but I’ve been there. I’ve been right where you are and it’s sucks. It’s very dark.
Make it through the night and tomorrow don’t do anything except check yourself into detox or treatment first thing before you can get drunk or high. If you feel like you’re not strong enough, call someone right now to come get you first thing in the morning. Many places will take you on the spot. At the very least go to a meeting and get a sponsor.
You’re not in this alone and it’s not something that’s meant to be fought alone.
There’s a new and exciting life waiting for you.
Go and take it.
Prayer said.
Make it through the night and tomorrow don’t do anything except check yourself into detox or treatment first thing before you can get drunk or high. If you feel like you’re not strong enough, call someone right now to come get you first thing in the morning. Many places will take you on the spot. At the very least go to a meeting and get a sponsor.
You’re not in this alone and it’s not something that’s meant to be fought alone.
There’s a new and exciting life waiting for you.
Go and take it.
Prayer said.
Posted on 11/13/19 at 10:25 pm to scottfruget
quote:
How do y’all know his addiction ain’t porn
Great point. Oddly enough people dont take porn addition seriously yet, generally speaking. It legitimately ruins people's relationships and lives.
This post was edited on 11/13/19 at 10:26 pm
Posted on 11/13/19 at 10:27 pm to OGJangalang
No where to go but up. Prove them all wrong, win back your kids. Your best is ahead of you
People are very forgiving and love a redemption story. It's a long road but start tonight. Keep yourself busy, read..etc.
I've been there a couple of times
People are very forgiving and love a redemption story. It's a long road but start tonight. Keep yourself busy, read..etc.
I've been there a couple of times
This post was edited on 11/13/19 at 10:28 pm
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