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Posted on 1/31/16 at 8:43 pm to
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59147 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 8:43 pm to
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Probably because they are decent people, not total narcissists.

Call me a narcissist then

I'll never frick up my life to this point
Posted by GO TIGERS GO
Member since Sep 2007
1030 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 8:45 pm to
Exactly what I'm doing
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297478 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 8:45 pm to
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Call me a narcissist then

I'll never frick up my life to this point



When you reach the adult phase of life, you may change your mind. I know a few guys out there with blended families and they're doing fine.
Posted by HogBalls
Member since Nov 2014
8927 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 8:46 pm to
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You're not fricking 20 year olds

You spent your whole life watching guys like me take the pussy home huh? Must have sucked for ya brah.
Posted by Chuker
St George, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2015
7544 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 8:50 pm to
I frickin love kids. But I don't want to feed and clothe anothers mans frickjob.



Eta, an exception could be made if said father had died.
This post was edited on 1/31/16 at 8:54 pm
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
64036 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 8:51 pm to
Youngest Lithette is 20 and don't really want to raise kids now so prefer GFs without kids now
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19323 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 8:54 pm to
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You spent your whole life watching guys like me take the pussy home huh? Must have sucked for ya brah.


You live in southern arkansas
Posted by Methuselah
On da Riva
Member since Jan 2005
23350 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 8:54 pm to
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Raising another mans kids
I have been laying here reflecting back on some of the relationships I've had in the last 6 or 7 years since my divorce. I've come to realiize I've let some damn good women go because I can't raise another mans kids.

I'm pretty sure that this has, in fact, been a concern of men as long as the species has existed. And it has probably led to most of the "sexual morality" laws throughout history. There is no evolutionary advantage in raising someone else's children.

The funny thing, though is, unless you plan on having some kids of your own in your upper 30's or beyond, or unless devoting your resources to these kids would somehow lessen the survival chances of biological children of yours, there is really no drawback to it for you. (the advent of birth control has really kind of lessened the importance of a lot of evolutionary urges when it comes to reproduction).
Posted by HogBalls
Member since Nov 2014
8927 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:00 pm to
I have kids of my own and I love them to death. I just can't bring myself to raise and love another mans kids. I've tried several times and can't do it.
Posted by mikrit54
Robeline
Member since Oct 2013
8664 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:02 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297478 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:02 pm to
Just sounds like an emotional hangup on your part.
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
11050 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:02 pm to
I had a deadbeat dad but I have a damn good stepfather who loved my mother until she passed away. My biological mother and father have passed away. He has been a father to me since I was 11 years old and has molded me into who I am today. He's a damn good man. I'm 35. If you can't love a woman because of her kids from a previous man/marriage you're just not ready to take on that responsibility. At least you can admit it. Don't lose a good woman because she has kids.
Posted by Tiguar
Montana
Member since Mar 2012
33131 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:03 pm to
Raising another man's seed is one of the most beta things around. Women want to sleep around with Chad Thundercock then find some stability to raise the offspring. Don't perpetuate the bullshite

NO HYMEN

NO DIAMOND
Posted by Slinky
Member since Dec 2013
3118 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:05 pm to
You're looking in the wrong places. I know plenty of women in their mid to late 20s that are single without kids.

And they're very attractive too.
Posted by Purple Spoon
Hoth
Member since Feb 2005
20238 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:06 pm to
Its called church.
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
108208 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:06 pm to
Well at least your honest and didn't go ruin some kids because you didn't want them. They were better off without you. In most cases they already have a fricked up dad. No reason to have a fake dad being an a-hole too.
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
64036 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:07 pm to


Shirley Q Liquir?
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22316 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:08 pm to
I just watched a documentary called Daddy's Home, starring one William Ferrell, about this very subject
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
75901 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:14 pm to
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I've come to realiize I've let some damn good women go because I can't raise another mans kids.
I'd do the same. You're never going to be the most important person in her life and you're only viewed as what kind of dad you can be to her kid(s). I couldn't deal with that shite.
Posted by Fight4LSU
Kenner
Member since Jul 2005
9973 posts
Posted on 1/31/16 at 9:16 pm to
I married a single mom of a 2 year old boy. Dad was never in the picture. I legally adopted him when he was 5. He's now 9.
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