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Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:14 pm
Posted by Hewonbyalot
Member since Aug 2021
330 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:14 pm
Since our children have reached legal adult status, we need to revise our will. The attorney who previously did it no longer practices.

Would something downloaded online and notarized suffice?

We have real property and investment/retirement accounts, that's about it.

We have two children and want them to serve as co-executors, and everything we own divided 50/50 between the two of them.
This post was edited on 6/18/26 at 1:16 pm
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
72984 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:17 pm to
Whatchoo talkin bout
quote:

Wills
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Posted by wesfau
Member since Mar 2023
2492 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:27 pm to
Don't try to do important legal shite on your own.
Posted by Zappas Stache
Utility Muffin Research Kitchen
Member since Apr 2009
43219 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:29 pm to
quote:

Would something downloaded online and notarized suffice?


Texas allows this and even provides the boiler plate on their web site. Not sure if Louisiana allows it though.
Posted by Hewonbyalot
Member since Aug 2021
330 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:35 pm to
Yes, very important, but very simple.
No shared financial partnerships with anyone else in anything.
Everything divided equally between two beneficiaries.
No debt.
Posted by VOLhalla
Knoxville
Member since Feb 2011
5167 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:35 pm to
quote:

We have two children and want them to serve as co-executors


What if there is some sort of ambiguity and they disagree? You should have one executor with a backup. You know who can give you advice like that? An attorney.

Ask your local bar association for recommendations and go to an actual attorney
Posted by wesfau
Member since Mar 2023
2492 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:37 pm to
There are lots of considerations and scenarios that could foul your plan. Best to talk it through with someone who knows what those pitfalls look like.

Or trust that when the money hits the table everyone will be cool.

Spoiler: they will not, regardless of the quality of their relationship.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19641 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:43 pm to
quote:

Would something downloaded online and notarized suffice?


What state are you in? Some allow holographic wills; meaning if it's entirely written in your handwriting and signed by you at the end it doesn't need to be notarized.
Posted by Recognizable Poster
Geaux Tigers
Member since Mar 2026
744 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:45 pm to
I suggest hiring an experienced wills/estate law practicioner to handle this matter.

You may want to establish a living trust.
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
46239 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:51 pm to
Yes, definitely do something on your own that involves transferring all of your worldy possessions you've worked your entire life for to your children just to save a grand or two
This post was edited on 6/18/26 at 1:52 pm
Posted by Master of Sinanju
Member since Feb 2012
12181 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 1:53 pm to
Put something in the will like whoever gives you grandkids first gets everything.
Posted by OffTheRails
Member since Apr 2025
125 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 2:02 pm to
So do they know who gets the engagement diamond?

Or other particular items they could fight over. The only item I wanted from my grandparents was an antique clock. Cousin took it.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
75277 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 2:03 pm to
quote:

Would something downloaded online and notarized suffice?
The layperson who attempts to play lawyer has a fool for his client.
Posted by OffTheRails
Member since Apr 2025
125 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 2:04 pm to
Olographic. Not a Hologram.
Posted by Seth Bullock
Member since Nov 2024
370 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 2:06 pm to
Spoiler: they will not, regardless of the quality of their relationship.

Disagree.

Parents were divorced so have been through it twice with my sibling. Zero issues either time. One parent had no will, other's was very general terms, "to be divided equally between A & B"
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19641 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 2:20 pm to
quote:

Olographic. Not a Hologram.


No, I meant what I typed. It’s called a holographic will in Tennessee
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
17677 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 2:23 pm to
Hire a professional. Does your beneficiary on your investment account supersede your will?
Posted by armytiger96
Member since Sep 2007
2706 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 2:43 pm to
quote:

We have real property and investment/retirement accounts, that's about it.


Retirement accounts and Life Insurance policies are governed by beneficiaries listed with the respective accounts not the will.

So the only asset you mentioned that would be covered by the will is "real property." Unless you want to modify the division of the property I'm not sure why you would need to update your will. I fail to see where kids age comes into play unless you were giving the property to their steward and not to your kids?
Posted by armytiger96
Member since Sep 2007
2706 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 2:44 pm to
quote:

Does your beneficiary on your investment account supersede your will?


Yea
Posted by geauxpurple
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2014
17491 posts
Posted on 6/18/26 at 2:47 pm to
The good news is that even if you screw it up (which is not unlikely) the result will probably be the same anyway as your children are your heirs in the nearest degree. If you and your wife want to leave ownership to each other when the first one dies, that is a different story.
If you have valuable assets, go to a lawyer and get a real will instead of trying to save a few hundred bucks.
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