re: PSA There is a bell curve in effect when dating women. You're welcome.

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A hot girl gets hit on/asked out constantly.

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And so do the average-looking girls. Have you ever seen just how many matches an average-looking skinny girl gets on a dating app like Bumble or Tinder? It's absurd. If you compare those numbers to a true hotty with similar screeners and geographic range, there's not much disparity. However, if you flip the gender from male to female, the average-looking dude can count his weekly matches on one hand while the hot guy has dozens and dozens of women to choose from.

Average-looking women get hit on constantly if they're not total ice-queens.

Yeah if you’re averagely attractive woman and not a damn hippo you’ll have a shite ton of guys hitting on you. Most of them will be trash but the numbers are there.

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Acutally the name is derived from it's inventor Alexander Graham Bell who also invented another household item you may be familiar with. The graphophone.

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According to a quick google search, He didn’t Invent that. It was however, invented at the facility he established.

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The Graphophone was the name and trademark of an improved version of the phonograph. It was invented at the Volta Laboratory established by Alexander Graham Bell in Washington, D.C., United States.

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On the right you have the hot women who guys assume are unattainable or hooked up already so they are intimidated to approach them.

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This is wrong because it assumes guys have insight into their attractiveness and know to play only in their "league." They don't and a huge number will hit on the hot ones constantly. Your theory also ignores the number of contacts people make on a weekly basis just going about their business. If just 5% of the men a hot girl encounters in a month hit on or flirt with her you're looking at at least five men per month. Sixty guys per year.

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maybe ONLINE but i bet 95% of those chickenshits wouldn't walk up to a woman IRL and say a word.

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Ding, ding we have a winner! It's all about the walk up game now, any girl getting bombarded with dick pics on insta isn't typically going to be interested without a $$ handout. Those aren't the girls you'd want to be around anyways. It's really not hard to approach a smoke and get attention back because it is so uncommon now.

Sigh. Far lefter checking in...

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get attention back because it is so uncommon now.

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this is definitely true

i'd say going up to girls in bars is way more uncommon than it used to be. girls look surprised and kind of flattered when they're approached these days. apps dominate the single world, especially in college towns and big cities.

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This is wrong because it assumes guys have insight into their attractiveness and know to play only in their "league."

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you're doing it wrong.


seriously.

your 'game' can literally be asking the hot bank teller how her weekend was or other small talk to pass the time.

chicks LOOOOOVE for guys to ask them questions and if you return a week later and remember her answers and bring up those topics again its almost 100% odds she'd agree to a date.

not every hot girl wants a guy who can 'play in their league' by coming up and bragging about their boat, their trip to the bahamas, etc.

they are attracted to the guy who remembered their answers from the prior week and asks how those things turned out.

eta don't try to come off like a dan bilzerian wanna be. just because her previous boyfriend jetted her off to europe every month on his private jet doesn't mean you don't have a shot with her.

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they are attracted to the guy who remembered their answers from the prior week and asks how those things turned out.

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This. If you see a hot girl at a bar you frequent with any frequency, talk to her. If she's even remotely friendly, ask her questions, and remember the answers. Next time you see her there, ask her follow up questions based on those answers. She'll likely be pretty impressed.

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A hot girl gets hit on/asked out constantly.

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True. My sister was/is very good looking and was approached constantly. I saw men and friends make fools of themselves taking their shots only to go down in flames.

It's crazy too how often I'd see old friends and the conversation would eventually turn to her and I'd hear their stories of unrequited love. I've even had old teachers talk about her. Insane.

She knew how to use it to made HUGE tips as a waitress in high school though. Big bucks.