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re: Planning on having a first date with a girl. Then she says to just meet at her house?

Posted on 6/28/25 at 4:58 pm to
Posted by Philzilla
Member since Nov 2011
2177 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 4:58 pm to
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Shes telling me now she can read me tarot cards.

run away
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
60587 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 4:59 pm to
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What do you do?


Everybody go, hotel, motel Holiday Inn
Ya see if your girl starts actin up, then you take her friend


Was good advice ages ago, still good today (cept no mo Ho liday Inn so gotta find a new place to hang and bang.
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
9452 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 5:12 pm to
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Planning on having a first date with a girl. Then she says to just meet at her house?


Ok.

quote:

And by the way shes having friends over?


Oops. Friend-zoned on the first date. Eject.
Posted by LetTheTigerOut
Member since Dec 2019
775 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 5:36 pm to

first date + meet at her house + friends over + strangers

Have a great time!





p.s. It was nice knowing you.








Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
54565 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 5:43 pm to
I'm here for the gang bang
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
168258 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 6:48 pm to
Not ideal but you have a chance to do a huge aura gain.

-Show up with some food or bottles and show up late.

-Apologize for being late and say this is the third gathering you’ve attended today.


-have a few simple but funny stories to tell, but make sure the delivery is mellow. Don’t laugh at your own jokes.

- order an uber xl for everyone. Say “lets do this again soon.”

You will be smashing by midnight.
Posted by Morgus
The Old City Icehouse
Member since May 2004
9709 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 6:56 pm to
Definitely wear a suit and tie and show up with flowers.
Posted by Bryno1960
Off River Road
Member since Aug 2013
3194 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:41 pm to
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Shes telling me now she can read me tarot cards.


This would be a big no and red flag for me.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
194045 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:41 pm to
Posted by Tiger in Texas
Houston, Texas
Member since Sep 2004
21943 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:44 pm to
If she has a bunch of her girlfriends over, they are probably there to check you out to see if you are legit. Who's to say things don't work out with your date, but one of her friends ends up liking you?

But, in today's world, if they offer you something to eat or drink, just say no, and drink the beer you brought and never put the open can down or out of your hand!
Posted by TaderSalad
mudbug territory
Member since Jul 2014
25794 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:51 pm to
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You will be smashing by midnight.


With a 300lb man named Filipe
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
99847 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 8:03 pm to
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And by the way shes having friends over?



quote:

Shes telling me now she can read me tarot cards.


You’ve walked yourself into a coven



Enjoy being the sacrifice to the demon they’re going to conjure up
Posted by Sunnyvale
Member since Feb 2024
2038 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 8:08 pm to
UPDATE
- A lot of the great tigerdroppings users here are Spot on.

I got there. We started talking and the sociable friend started non stop grilling. I could not finish my tarot card reading. Like an interview. She just kept firing questions. I answered everything truthfully. But she was on me like white on crime and just kept at it non stop thorugh out the evening. She was hunting for the red flags. The girl I went to see didnt care, she was into me. We go to the pool and she is grabbing everything beneathe the water. She is rubbing up against me. Like a cat in heat. Eventually the girl im there to see got so drunk she basically has to go inside and is done for the evening. So its just me and the friends, then I leave. Friends were cool. Would hang with all of them again. Had a good time and enjoyed the conversation.

Users that were right :

-Yes she was in her 30s, I was expecting a date but she changed the plans, I showed up.

-Showing up with booze and food would have been the best move to make. If they would have taken a break from drinking and ate some food, the evening would have been a little easier.

-Did not get sacraficed to deamons
-Am not missing a kidney

But I didnt know the plan was for a pool party.

This post was edited on 6/28/25 at 8:09 pm
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
99847 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 8:08 pm to
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This is a bigger red flag than wanting her friends to meet you.


OPs night

They’ll feed him a great meal and all have sex with him and get him feeling top of the world. Then the drugs hit, and next thing he knows he is tied to a wooden table with a pentagram carved into it, a cast iron pot under his head, and the girls chanting Latin phrases. Then he feels the knife slice his throat, and all goes dark
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
103393 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 8:16 pm to
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Did not get sacraficed to deamons
-Am not missing a kidney


Night's not over yet.
Posted by aTmTexas Dillo
East Texas Lake
Member since Sep 2018
22110 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 8:17 pm to
Go and check out the lay of the land. I'm sure you will find some prospects.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51543 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 9:20 pm to
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Did she by chance recently get scammed for $17k?

Oh hell yeah!
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
12661 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 9:27 pm to
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How old is this group? My son is 30 and this kind of thing is very common with his group. He was dating this girl for a while and everytike they did something together it was in a big group. I have friends with kids in their 20s and they've all noticed this as well. My theory is that this age group does not know how to handle communication one on one due to social media and texting non stop. So they hang out in groups to avoid uncomfortable one on one, face to face interaction.


As someone with mild social anxiety. It's not even anxiety now at 40.

It's Social Irritability. I don't got much patience for that crap anymore.

I would have just said no thanks. I'm good. Try again dating when I was in my mid-20s.

Kids these days are weird and awkward.

Back in "my day", early 00s, I'd only do one on one dates if I was really interested and serious about her. Casual hang out would mean I am unsure how I felt and I want the option to bail. This was early 00s logic though.
This post was edited on 6/28/25 at 9:28 pm
Posted by Rip Torn
Member since Mar 2020
5536 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 9:39 pm to
If she is into tarot cards then there is at least a 15% chance you are walking into an orgy but most orgy people are not attractive so keep that in mind lol
Posted by TutHillTiger
Mississippi Alabama
Member since Sep 2010
49726 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 9:50 pm to
Geaux and be very very cool to her friends, it’s just like a job interview bro
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