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re: Paying your kids for good grades

Posted on 3/14/22 at 12:44 pm to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 12:44 pm to
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How old are the kids? 1k maybe if they’re in ap classes in highschool.



only way I would even consider that(still wouldn't do it,) is if they were in one of those AP programs that had you graduating hs as a college sophomore or with an associate's degree
Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
7316 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 12:51 pm to
quote:

how you think them kids be getting As, baw?

A gift card at a nails place is very effective.
Posted by ToucanBill
Houston
Member since Feb 2014
80 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 12:56 pm to
If the parents were planning to pay for college, they might get off cheaper by giving their kid $1000/yr and motivating them to make good grades which could lead to a scholarship and the parents not having to pay for college. There are other ways of looking at it. Also, they don’t have to spend as much money for Christmas or birthdays if the kid buys what they want with the money they earned.
Posted by zippyputt
Member since Jul 2005
5773 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 12:56 pm to
I paid $100 a semester for all A’s. It was a reward, not a motivator. Also paid for 30 and up on ACT.
Posted by WildTchoupitoulas
Member since Jan 2010
44071 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 12:57 pm to
Good grades, just like doing chores, were expected. Nobody got paid for that. "Some things you're just supposed to do because it's the right thing to do, not just to get paid." was what I was told.

Not doing chores and getting bad grades was where the pay came in. And I was the one paying for it.
Posted by WildManGoose
Member since Nov 2005
4568 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 12:59 pm to
quote:

Also, I double whatever money they save at the end of each year. One of my children won't spend a dime, and is draining my wallet. I had to double $500 last year. The other blows his money as soon as it hits his hands. He doubled $5 last year.
I think I'm going to steal this idea
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
13885 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:12 pm to
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Also, I double whatever money they save at the end of each year.........I think I'm going to steal this idea


It's getting expensive with my oldest. It started out doubling $50, and now she's up to doubling $500. Next year, it will be $1000

She'll have enough to buy a car at 16.
The other child will be riding his bike and flipping burgers....
Posted by armsdealer
Member since Feb 2016
11508 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:27 pm to
quote:

or new CD


A what?
Posted by ATLabama
Member since Jan 2013
1602 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:38 pm to
If you consider the cost of a scholarship it may be the best money you'll ever spend as a parent.
Posted by MikeBRLA
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2005
16473 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:40 pm to
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but the parents went into a spill


Spiel, not spill.



In any case, $1,000 is excessive.
Posted by ItNeverRains
37069
Member since Oct 2007
25471 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:41 pm to
My kids get $25 for A’s and $10 for B’s. I’ll up it in high school. If they get a free ride best money I ever spent
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
1722 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:42 pm to
I like to make spending/fun money tied to behaviors like chores and grades, as opposed to an allowance or just buying them what they ask for. That said, $1000 is a lot, but i guess that is relative depending on your income and budget. $1000 may be pocket change for kids who go yachting or country clubbing with their private school friends.
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6283 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:44 pm to
We weren’t. It was expected.
Posted by NASA_ISS_Tiger
Huntsville, Al via Sulphur, LA
Member since Sep 2005
7983 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:47 pm to
Hell I tried to bribe my son with a pair of Air Jordan's that he wanted if he made all A's. Nope. He BARELY made a C in one of his classes...and that was only after much help from me because he didn't turn in assignments. Oh well...saved me $400. He started out good..and then lost sight of the prize....
Posted by Styxion
St. George, LA
Member since Sep 2012
1597 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:51 pm to
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all As for the year, her parents were giving her $1,000.


Damn. I used to get like 10 bucks if I had all A's for a quarter. A grand for the year. I would have been rich.
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
18773 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:57 pm to
We do that with our 7 year old (not any where close to $1000 though). It teaches the value of money as well as motivation to get good grades. He is saving all his money for toys for summer.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
4790 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 1:59 pm to
When I was just a young baw I would hear my dad beating the shite out of my two older brothers for Ds and Fs. I knew all I had to do was get Cs or better.
Posted by transcend
Austin, TX
Member since Aug 2013
4166 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 2:09 pm to
Told my kid he's getting a PS5 if he gets straight As all year. Nothing wrong with motivating someone to work harder for compensation. We do it at work all the damn time so why would it be different for kids in school?

ETA: he's gotten them every period the last two years, so something I'm doing is working :p

ETAA: I might be fricked with PS5 supply issues
This post was edited on 3/14/22 at 2:11 pm
Posted by dfunklsu
Somewhere down in Texas
Member since Sep 2004
566 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 2:17 pm to
I use to get $10 per A. But would also earn a belt if I brought home a D.
Posted by msudawg1200
Central Mississippi
Member since Jun 2014
9418 posts
Posted on 3/14/22 at 2:17 pm to
I posed this offer to my father back in the 80's. His reply was I'm not going to reward you for making the grades you're supposed to make. He also came back with another deal of I'll pay you put you'll have to pay for your car note and insurance. I quickly said we'll keep our old deal of I make A's and B's because I'm capable and I'm supposed to in order to play sports and not get my arse beat.
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