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Parent's; how do you deal with child moving to another state?

Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:27 am
Posted by muttenstein
Member since Oct 2012
2810 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:27 am
My son is moving from Georgia to Tampa Florida in February and I am having a tough time with it.

Words of encouragement are all appreciated.
This post was edited on 11/3/24 at 8:36 am
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
91980 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:28 am to
Is this an adult child? College? Young child moving with an ex?
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
44036 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:29 am to
You raise them to fly & be successful

Enjoy their ride
Posted by TBoy
Kalamazoo
Member since Dec 2007
25982 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:30 am to
I have one on the west coast, one on the east coast, and one on the Gulf coast. They all know where home is.
Posted by Ikneauxnuffin
da bayou
Member since Dec 2019
729 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:33 am to
Let your son enjoy his new endeavors and you find ways to enjoy your now available time.
Posted by muttenstein
Member since Oct 2012
2810 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:34 am to
26 with a great job.
Posted by ItzMe1972
Member since Dec 2013
11404 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:35 am to
My daughter moved to Dallas from Lafayette and married a guy from there. It tore me up.

They moved back and live a couple of miles away. The grandkids are over frequently.
Posted by LSUDAN1
Member since Oct 2010
10186 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:35 am to
My son moved out of state for college. It was hard but it was time for him to grow up. He needed it. Him and his mom are like water/vinegar around each other but he calls and talks to her every day now.
Posted by thegreatboudini
Member since Oct 2008
6907 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:36 am to
quote:

26 with a great job.


Jesus man, he's 26. Enjoy your life and let him enjoy his.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
54825 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:41 am to
Where are you at in Georgia? Tampa is a pretty easy drive.
Posted by muttenstein
Member since Oct 2012
2810 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:41 am to
That’s the thing. I an happy and proud; just the distance is depressing.
Posted by ItzMe1972
Member since Dec 2013
11404 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:43 am to
26 with a great job.
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My nephew (sister's son) moved to FL for an engineering job. He worked there for 5 years and asked if he could move back and work remote.

They said that would work and he's "back home."
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
16167 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:43 am to
For god sakes grow a pair. He’s moving tops 8 hours away. Not to damn Abu Dhabi
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
91980 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:44 am to
Good for him!

You just have to wish him the best, be there for him when he has questions, and let the man spread his wings.

Are you in GA…so at least pretty close…looks like a lot of trips to FL in your future.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
74929 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:44 am to
quote:

26 with a great job.


Be proud of your child, and encourage him to really experience his new state. FaceTime or talk once or twice a week, and be there, but whenever it gets tough (it always does) let him know that nostalgia is a powerful drug.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
58936 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:46 am to
quote:

26 with a great job.
not being a jerk, but why would you need him to be home? I miss my daughter but she is making her own way. Now if or when grandkids come, I may have to relocate.
Posted by contraryman
Earth
Member since Dec 2007
1889 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:46 am to
He is an adult and needs to find his own path. It is difficult to have them tell you they are going to come to visit you and then go home but it is better than having them being held to the path you have made. Life is about untiring something then letting it go to see if you did a good job.
Posted by GeauxTigers123
Member since Feb 2007
2271 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:47 am to
Personally, if I was you I would be going to South Florida every few months.

Id go see the kid, play golf, check out the west coast, east coast, miami, drive down to the keys.

Kid may not live there forever so I would use it as a good launching point.
Posted by lepdagod
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
4286 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:48 am to
Depends on the situation... if we talking a child(0-18)... that ain't happening...
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
281843 posts
Posted on 11/3/24 at 8:52 am to
quote:

Depends on the situation... if we talking a child(0-18)... that ain't happening...


One of my granddaughters moved up here with me to finish school. Her parents realize its for the best for her academics.

I'll fly her home a couple times this year.
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