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re: Parents Buying Kids Homes

Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:13 pm to
Posted by Mizz-SEC
Inbred Huntin' In The SEC
Member since Jun 2013
22995 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:13 pm to
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many words by Scruffy trying to attach blame to MIZZ

MIZZ understands that politicians have fricked everyone over, including boomers.

MIZZ also understands all generations are pawns so worrying about when the shite hits the fan is futile.

MIZZ is fascinated that Scruffy doesn't understand the above statements and continues trying to assign blame to pawns.

Posted by OlGrandad
Member since Oct 2009
4561 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:17 pm to
I bought a home for my son and his family. I am happy , they are happy and their dog is happy.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2023
6386 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:19 pm to
Surprised at all the animosity towards some of y’all’s parents and an entire generation. My parents are boomers and I’ve never held animosity towards them or aunts and uncles. Dad retired a mechanic and fought in Vietnam while my mom was a school teacher. I didn’t even know people compared themselves as adults to their own parents until this thread I have honestly never tried to compare how I am as a dad to how my dad was or who was more successful

My FIL retired from the railroad and MILis still a secretary for an H&R Block type place. Neither of us came from good money but we still appreciate our parents even if they didn’t buy our house or pay for our college
This post was edited on 5/25/26 at 3:25 pm
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
41154 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:20 pm to
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I bought a house for myself/investment property, but in my daughter's name....if I pass away, she'll already own it taxes free. It would go to her anyway



I'm guessing you didn't consult anyone who knows anything about taxes before doing this lmao
Posted by Raging Tiger
Teedy Town
Member since Jun 2023
1141 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:21 pm to
I am not saying I don’t. Life is not fair… I get that.

It’s just interesting to hear how this board handles situations like this. I guess that they are real OT ballers.
This post was edited on 5/25/26 at 3:22 pm
Posted by morganwadefan
TN
Member since May 2023
1652 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:22 pm to
In the town I work in, a few months ago a man bought his grandsons a street full of duplexes so they have as rental income while they are starting out.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39703 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:25 pm to
The "Tytler Cycle" is a real thing and wasn't started by boomers, nor were boomers given the opportunity to break that cycle

But it is a convenient answer for the uniformed and poorly educated

Your post is spot-on.
Posted by Mizz-SEC
Inbred Huntin' In The SEC
Member since Jun 2013
22995 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:27 pm to
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Surprised at all the animosity towards some of y’all’s parents and an entire generation. My parents are boomers and I’ve never held animosity towards them or aunts and uncles. Dad retired a mechanic and fought in Vietnam while my mom was a school teacher. I didn’t even know people compared themselves as adults to their own parents until this thread I have honestly never tried to compare how I am as a dad to how my dad was or who was more successful

I never did either. Happiness always trumped the accumulation of possessions in my circle.

Unfortunately that seems to be a lost concept among the young. Sad to see..
Posted by Nole Man
Somewhere In Tennessee!
Member since May 2011
9126 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:28 pm to
Got no problem with that. But think it's usually best to have some "skin in the game". Eventually, most kids inherit something down the road anyway.

My mother loaned us money for our first house. I set up an amortization schedule at a fair rate (better than what she was getting from a money market account, but less that the going rates for 2nd mortgages). Paid her off over time.

Loaned my son and new wife money for a downpayment. On this one, when he sells, we split the net profits and he keeps the rest for another downpayment.

Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56280 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:29 pm to
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Unless you’re someone like my Boomer father who is resentful that I’ve done better for myself than he did for himself. 
my children's boomer grandparents are this way. I was shocked when they said comments about this. Needless to say children no longer have a relationship with their grandparents.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
157434 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:35 pm to
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As a male in his 30’s
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I take it you have a problem with this boomer?
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The Baby Boomer generation ruined home ownership
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Someone must have forgotten to tell the boomers.
Posted by Winston Cup
Dallas Cowboys Fan
Member since May 2016
66925 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:38 pm to
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Jennifer’s dad, Mark Gross, had a spending limit of $700,000, and one condition: She had to stay within 2 miles of him. The house they closed on last month was $625,000, and an 8-minute bike ride away. The mortgage is in her father’s name, and Jennifer pays him $2,200 a month to cover a portion of the payments. He bought her sister, Jessica Locati, a house nearby a few months earlier, fulfilling their mother’s dying wish that the family live close to each other.”

This is a fantastic story, what’s the problem?

There was a time in this country when children inherited the house and several generations would occupy the same domicile

I don’t see what we are angry about here
Posted by baytiger11
Member since Jul 2020
2501 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:39 pm to
I understand where you’re coming from.
My wife and I are early 30’s she comes from money, I do not. Her parents owned a decent size business and did very well.

They could have easily helped us with purchasing our first house, but they didn’t. And I’m glad they didn’t. We also paid for our own wedding. We paid for our own vehicles. I paid off my student loans. The only caveat is they paid for all her schooling, including law school. (huge caveat since that degree lead to her being able to purchase things on her own)

But as someone who doesn’t come from money, I never wanted their help. It’s the principle of earning what you have and being rewarded for hard work. I hate when people our age have things given to them. And I hate feeling indebted to people, even family.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53589 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:39 pm to
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my children's boomer grandparents are this way

My parents are older Boomers and they are awesome. Nothing like any of the stereotypes perpetuated online.
Posted by TorchtheFlyingTiger
1st coast
Member since Jan 2008
3208 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:39 pm to
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bought a house for myself/investment property, but in my daughter's name....if I pass away, she'll already own it taxes free. It would go to her anyway
So you deprived her of stepped up basis at your death? Did you do this for Medicaid purposes? What other advantage could it have? You might want to look into unraveling this potential mess.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56280 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:43 pm to
My grandparents bought forty acres and gave each child a portion to build. Kept the grandkids close. None of the boomer parents (my parents) gave any of it to their children. My husband and I's next purchase will be land in case any of the children want to build near us. I would absolutely be the babysitter if the grandkids are close.
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14687 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:51 pm to
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Parents have helped with down payments for decades.


Yes. And dowries started around the 5th century. Parents helping children to ensure a better life when they can afford to do so nothing new.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
77284 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:52 pm to
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My parents are older Boomers and they are awesome. Nothing like any of the stereotypes perpetuated online.
Same here, but if the boomers on this website have taught me anything, our parents are the exception, not the rule.

Hell, my dad fully supported my position in the social security thread of completely giving up all claims to any of the money he paid in for nearly 60 years so that his children wouldn’t get saddled with the debt SS brings.

The entire cohort of boomers on here would fight to the death to keep their meager SS benefits at the expense of their children and grandchildren.

We got lucky that our parents are the exception and not the rule.
This post was edited on 5/25/26 at 3:53 pm
Posted by FluffyBunnyFeet
Dallas, TX
Member since Oct 2014
3919 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 3:59 pm to
nvm, I'm dumb.
This post was edited on 5/25/26 at 4:01 pm
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
25773 posts
Posted on 5/25/26 at 4:33 pm to
I was surprised when I first learned of this. Guess I never really considered it. Didn’t know that was how life went: grow up, go to school, get a job and be a big boy … but still on the payroll? Wish them well though. Everyone has different situations

My dad offered me a few bucks when buying a house. I turned it down. I told him he made his way in the world, now I need to make my own
This post was edited on 5/25/26 at 4:38 pm
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