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OT females - is an elective C-section “cheating” at delivery?

Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:06 am
Posted by TDsngumbo
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Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:06 am
My wife and some of her friends and I recently got into a discussion where they believe that women who deliver a baby via elective c-section are “cheating” at childbirth because they’re not doing it the old fashioned way through the poon.

I countered if they want to truly go the old fashioned route then they’d do it without an epidural. It was at that point in the conversation that my opinion was ruled invalid and I got the verbal equivalent of gang banged .

Is this a common belief among women?
This post was edited on 5/29/19 at 8:21 am
Posted by theunknownknight
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
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Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:06 am to
Yes

Same thing as pain meds for delivery.

Hospital deliveries pamper women so much these days it’s like a 3 day trip to the spa except you have to wipe shite and struggle to sleep afterwards
This post was edited on 5/29/19 at 8:08 am
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
33653 posts
Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:07 am to
Good lord.

Really?

That’s the female version of knuckle checking?
Posted by musick
the internet
Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:08 am to
I'll tell you one thing, all my kids were c section and it makes things waaay better
Posted by bamaphan13
Member since Jan 2011
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Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:09 am to
Ask my wife and you will be picking your teeth up off the floor.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:09 am to
A giant c section scar and being cut open is cheating? This sounds like something a women would come up with.
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:10 am to
My daughter was breach and couldn't be delivered naturally. Wife had to have an emergency c section due to risk of her getting strangled with the umbilical cord.
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
86684 posts
Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:10 am to
Unfortunately, c-section shaming is now a thing apparently among women. I don't know how prominent it is, but it definitely exists.

I think it is centered around women that can have a baby vaginally, but choose to have a c-section due to superficial reasons.



Posted by Pectus
Internet
Member since Apr 2010
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Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:10 am to
Is an abortion cheating?

*God mode*
This post was edited on 5/29/19 at 8:11 am
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
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Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:10 am to
Your wife and her friends sound like bitches.
Posted by List Eater
Htown
Member since Apr 2005
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Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:10 am to
quote:

Hospital deliveries pamper women so much these days it’s like a 3 day trip to the spa except you have to wipe shite and struggle to sleep afterwards

Too shiny
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:10 am to
Correct me if I am wrong, but I thought that it was only done if necessary, and that women can't opt to have it done that way?
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86684 posts
Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:11 am to
quote:

I'll tell you one thing, all my kids were c section and it makes things waaay better



for who?

the recovery is much easier for a natural birth

c-section is a major surgery, it isn't easy
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:12 am to
quote:

I countered if they want to truly go the old fashioned route then they’d do it without an epidural


My wife has done two at home by midwife with no pain meds.
Posted by theunknownknight
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
61313 posts
Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:14 am to
How is it too shiny?

Women get doped up
Fed all day
All their friends show up
They have a photo shoot
Get gifts
Everyone tells them how great they are
Husband has to cuck out full time

And they Get a baby they don’t even have to take care of the first day

Pretty close to spa treatment to me
This post was edited on 5/29/19 at 8:14 am
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60081 posts
Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:14 am to
Gross

Your wife has a c section scar lol
Posted by MSMHater
Houston
Member since Oct 2008
23351 posts
Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:14 am to
My wife would have died without one, so "cheating" seemed like the right call.
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
51590 posts
Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:15 am to
quote:

I think it is centered around women that can have a baby vaginally, but choose to have a c-section due to superficial reasons.

That is EXACTLY what they said
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:15 am to
quote:

c-section is a major surgery, it isn't easy




Yeah, my wife had some complications after our 2nd kid was delivered via c-section. She was on bed rest for a couple of weeks.
Posted by GreyWhiskers
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Member since Nov 2018
913 posts
Posted on 5/29/19 at 8:15 am to
quote:

where they believe that women who deliver a baby via c-section are “cheating” at childbirth because they’re not doing it the old fashioned way through the poon.


If the same women want to do things the old fashioned way, they should have childbirth at home with a midwife delivering the baby like my grandmother did back in the day. My mom and 3 other siblings were born on my granny’s bed. Now that’s doing things the old fashioned way.
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